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Q: Slutty Vs. Sexy
asked by: nadia19 on July 27th, 2007
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Would you wear something that showed off your "cleavage" but in a sexy and sophisticated kind of way even if you had a boyfriend?

I was given this really nice low cut top and wore it to a semi-formal dinner event with coworkers and my bf said I looked like promiscuous person and I was just trying to get attention from guys. Rolling Eyes
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Hollyberries
replied on July 27th, 2007
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Well i guess i would, but my fiance wouldn't care. He knows i'm coming home with to him, and i don't want to be with anyone else but him. But i guess that's when i'm not pregnant. Before i was yeah i did. I don't do it for attention i wear clothes because i feel comfortable. But i don't have big boobs so i can't even fill most of those shirts out........ Razz Very Happy Cool
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Anne123
replied on July 27th, 2007
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I would absolutely wear something for a nice event that showed of my cleavage (and I do fill out those shirts) in a classy way but not a trampy way.

My husband really wouldn't care at all. He was never the jealous or possessive type - I wouldn't have married him if he was. I remember one time we were out with friends/co-workers (we worked at a bar) and some guy said to my husband (then boyfriend) "doesn't that bother you?" (I forget what I was doing - maybe dancing/grinding) and he said "Heck no. I know she's coming home with me."

Jealousy/possessiveness shows insecurity, which I find very unattractive.

Your bf sounds like a jerk.
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Marfa2107
replied on July 27th, 2007
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i wear lowcut shirts almost everytime i go out..
and most the time i go out with my girlfriends..
and my bf doesn't care.. he knows i'm coming home to him and he TRUSTS
that i wont do anything stupid...
and I wont..
so i wear what i want to... and do what i tell him i'm going to..
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kaerbear
replied on July 27th, 2007
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if my boyfriend ever said that to me, well, first of all i'd have to make sure it was really him because he would never think like that, and secondly....well....he just wouldn't. it's disrespectful and mean. two things i don't go for in men. i'm just not into that. that said, i'm not the kind of woman who would flirt a lot or do things to make him jealous deliberately. i know there are women who are guilty of that. no one here though of course!! we are just respectful of each other and don't play silly head games like some couples do, so it would shock me if anything like that even got into his head.
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HcoBrunette06
replied on July 27th, 2007
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im pretty sure that i wrote something on this last night, what happened to my post? it wasn't bad..
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young Girl
replied on July 27th, 2007
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theres a difference between looking nice and looking like a promiscuous person
now if your boobs are all hanging out and the shirt barely covers our nipples lol then yeah that would be a problem
but a nice shirt? nah go for it!!!
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Tylanas
replied on July 27th, 2007
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I would wear low cut shirts more often too lol, if I didn't have an ugly chest. I love the size of my boobs, but it does me I got no cleavage at all. I'm also skinny and pale, so my flat upper chest (the part half of women's clothing shows these days) is pale, transparent, lumpy from my ribcage, and has blue veins squiggly all over it.

I love tight shirts that show off the waist, hips, and breasts, but they have to cover my upper chest. I'm way more comfortable showing off my stomach.
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The Ginger 1
replied on July 27th, 2007
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Re: Slutty Vs. Sexy
nadia19 wrote:
Would you wear something that showed off your "cleavage" but in a sexy and sophisticated kind of way even if you had a boyfriend?

I was given this really nice low cut top and wore it to a semi-formal dinner event with coworkers and my bf said I looked like promiscuous woman and I was just trying to get attention from guys. Rolling Eyes


Hey babe, if you got it, flaunt it, you're boyfriend should be proud that he has a girlfriend on his arm who looks good, as long as yer boobs ain't falling out of the top altogether, he shouldn't have any problem - it does sound as if he may be a bit insecure, he may be worried that you are looking elsewhere or for another guy - sorry, but this may be the problem with him .... he needs reassureance from you ! Laughing Embarassed
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everyday_struggle
replied on August 2nd, 2007
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Re: Slutty Vs. Sexy
nadia19 wrote:
Would you wear something that showed off your "cleavage" but in a sexy and sophisticated kind of way even if you had a boyfriend?

I was given this really nice low cut top and wore it to a semi-formal dinner event with coworkers and my bf said I looked like promiscuous woman and I was just trying to get attention from guys. Rolling Eyes

Seems like your bf may have insecurity issues. Unless your boobs were about to pop out like britneys nana out of a car then i wouldnt mind. I dont care if guys stare at my girl. Maybe your boyfreind is not used to having guys check out his girl so much. After a while, it doesnt bother us so much and it does boost our ego. Twisted Evil
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