I Think I Tore My Vagina?! Posted: 07-26-07 22:28pm
O.k., so me and my boyfriend were having
sex and we were trying a new position
where he was sitting on the couch and i
was stradling him and well when we were
done my vagina hurt and burned really bad
at the bottom. Then, the next day we tried
to have sex again, and I could not bear
the pain at all!!! It hurt so bad! It felt
like I cut it! Anyway, what did I do?
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-26-07 22:35pm
did he finger you before hand? if so his
nalis might have cut you
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-26-07 22:36pm
It is very possible you have a bruise,
cut, irritation, or a friction burn down
there. Give vaginal penetration a rest for
a few days, you should know there are
plenty of ways to entertain each other,
hehe ^^
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anony145
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Posted: 07-26-07 22:38pm
no he did not finger me and we are resting
for a few days... but it kinda sux... i
just want it to not hurt next time we try.
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Tarheelmbs
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Posted: 07-26-07 22:48pm
That happens to my girl sometimes. We
usually take a couple days off and she's
fine. Did he wear a condom?
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anony145
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Posted: 07-26-07 23:02pm
no... i am ashamed... we could not
resist...
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Tarheelmbs
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Posted: 07-26-07 23:10pm
mmmm was going to say could have been
irritation from latex.
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anony145
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Posted: 07-26-07 23:24pm
nope, couldnt be... sometimes we use
astroglide, others we dont use lube... but
both our sexual desires were so strong
that we just got rite to it... and i think
the new position or how fast we were going
could have torn it or stretched it but i
still dont know!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 07-27-07 02:03am
It's easier to tear than you think....
otherwise, you might not have been
lubricated enough??
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Kia
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Posted: 07-27-07 03:38am
you have simply over stretched your
perineum - the thin piece of skin between
the vagina and the anus.
because this was a new position and I
expect you went deeper than you realised
too.
there's no long term damage or anything -
you just need to make sure that you use
plenty of lube from now on.
it'll be a tad sore for a few days and the
same thing might happen the next few times
until this piece of skin gets used to
being stretched.
you can help things along - lay in a
comfortable position and using some lube
slide the tips of your thumbs (palms
facing down) into the entrance of your
vagina and gently stretch the skin out and
downwards until you feel a slight tingle.
Gentle use your finger tips to massage the
lube into this skin while it is stretched,
then allow it to relax again.
repeat several times and you should find
that this skin begins to stretch much
easier.
This is also recommended for women nearing
labour as this will help reduce the risk
of having a tear or episiotomy.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-27-07 17:17pm
Yeah, my perinium creates a bit of a
"shelf" too, a tiny one but it does make a
difference. I may try stretching too;
since that's the only place I ever have
pain during sex (aside from my cervix,
ow!) and it just got jabbed during my pap
smear (again, ow!).
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worrywart001
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Posted: 07-28-07 01:15am
Tarheelmbs
wrote:
mmmm was going to say could
have been irritation from
latex.
yeaaaa i get that...but I wasnt on b.c. so
I dealt with it...now i'm on b.c. and i
really really dont wanna go back to using
condoms too bc of the irritation, but i
still freak out even on the b.c.
