My husband and I both enjoy anal activities, intercourse (yes, I penetrate him too) as well as analingus. Being clean is a given...we make bathing each other part of our foreplay. We've been rimming each other for many years and never any problems.
It's not for everyone. You need to be open minded and adventurous.
rules for doing this topic
1) shower is a must before starting
2) you can not eat any foods that might give you (gas)
3) if you are worried about the (flavor) get a jolly rancher any flavor will do *not cinnamon* and put it between your teeth and your cheek
4) if you are a guy and want your girl to do this to you, it doesn't make you gay, it is all about pleasure and what you like
no,, liking anal if you are a guy does not make you gay,, how old are you? When you mature you realize that anything a man and a woman both agree to and enjoy and is not immoral ( no animals, lol ) is only an extension of a adventurous sex life.
I may like sucking my bf nipples, does that make me a lesbian,, duh.
your a homophobic. Prostate stimulation is very much a part of sex. when its stimulated you have a much stronger orgasm and produce more semen. Its the thought that only gays do it that has you hung up. However anal play is getting more and more play by couples as the men over come their fears. Remember what happens between two consenting adults behind closed doors is only their business and I mean only their business.
Never done it or had it done, but I'm willing to try! Where does one get a dental dam? Do you go to the dentist office and tell the girl at the desk that you want to get your anus licked so you need to buy a couple of dental dams? LOL just kidding. Do they sell them on sites like adam and eve?
BTW, I agree that it's just about pleasure and doesn't make you gay. People seem to put too much emphasis on labels. Straight, gay, bi, who cares what they call you if you and your partner are ok, then just have fun and pleasure and let the world think what they want to!!
You use to be able to buy dental dams from the drug store. however if you can't find them there try on line with a denal supply company. I know years ago there was anderson dental supply out of fla. But thats well over 30 years ago. I'm sure you can find them some place.
Personally I love clean sex ,straight after a shower or a bath a clean body is a turn on.Then you have the confidence to kiss,lick and probe all over .I think a lot of these things come from porn.That is where I first saw ass licking .The actresses I have seen do it all seem to have excellent hygiene.I read when they have anal sex they prepare well before the event giving them selves suppository's and not eating for a few hours before sex.So preparation is always a good thing because chances are if you get the idea to do it on the spot. There is a chance it could get a little messy.That is why the shower is a good idea
My first GF always licked my rear. It was amazing but not had it done since. I love licking my wife, she was slow to come around at first but realizes how much it intensifies her orgasms. Especially after a shower and she is very willing to receive it really turns her on. She has started rubbing me there and next step is to have her fingers in me. Hope to feel them soon. Lick on!
most of the girls in porn have aids related illnesses, you cant see aids and the effects, but it is there, if your getting the ideas of doing anal sex from porn you are negligible from the risks, im sorry just because your clean does not mean that the risk is minimised there is always a risk and if your having a lot of anal sex the risk is going to be greater and higher than someone that hasnt done it or hasnt received it.
if you want to stay healthy, the only way to do that is to abstain, i am in the same predicament, the guy really wants it and i havent given it and especially because he wont shower before hand. but the risks and the fact that he wont shower have not made me want to lick his arse anymore more yet. in my opinion if you do a sexual act not because you want to but to please a guy it can only turn out to burn you in the end, if you want to do it, do it because you want to not to please a person.
I am sorry, you just do not get aids from sex, anal or vaginal. You get aids from having sex with an infected partner, and/or having unsafe sex with a partner with uncertain STD status.
And stating that "most of the girls in porn have aids related illnesses" is totally false. In most countries, porn actors and actresses gets tested regularly and may not make movies when they are infected.
You do not have to like sex, or anal contact, or porn, but presenting facts in an honest way is the best way to deal with it. If you have to make up stories to bring your point across, you have lost the argument already.
I love licking my woman's ass and have done so with just about every g/f I've had! I worry about getting ill but whenIn the moment, it is a huge turn on for me. I stick myttongue as deep as it can go in her ass and they have all loved it. I think they end up more turned on that me in the end!
Most of the people that do like it like it for various reasons. Me and my partner both love it. We use it as a reward to each other and it''s very relaxing. It makes the whole body less tense I find! I don''t think you would get sick if you just keep everything clean.