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Q: ... Cant Tell When I Cum
asked by: lagrimas on July 26th, 2007
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I lost my virginity about 2 years ago. In betweenthat time I've had 3 sexual partners.They all had different sizes, they all did different things that would turn me on. But honestly, I can't tell when I cum. Whenever I'm finishing having sex my partners always seem to ask how many times did I cum. Unfortunately, I can't even tell them because I don't know the feeling. Can someone please explain what your body does or what feelings you have when you know you're about to cum .... or when you actually do.


*Edited by moderator due to all caps. Please do not type in all caps. It is considered shouting on a forum and makes the post a lot harder to read.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd replied on July 26th, 2007
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how many times you had an orgasm....how many times you had an explosive feeling.
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Llewellyn replied on July 26th, 2007
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Do you mean how many times you had an orgasm? Most women do not ejaculate.

When you orgasm, your vagina might sort of spasm. If you have had an orgasm, you would probably know it. So if you're not sure, there's a good chance you're not orgasming. Most women do not orgasm during vaginal intercourse.
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Tylanas replied on July 26th, 2007
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Guys, I think this is an attack of the word filter. Notice how "ejaculate" is always lowercase while the OP posted (annoyingly) in all caps? I think the word filter took CUM and changed it to "ejaculate".

Hun, "cumming" (your bf asked "did you cum?") is properly known for females as orgasming.

You would know if you orgasmed. Have you ever orgasmed during masturbation all by yourself?
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Katietoo replied on July 23rd, 2008
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Can't tell when i cum
I can't tell whe i cum duringssex but i do cum when i get aroused. It fell like this when i cum my vaginia starts to jump a little then i feel fluids leakin but to know how many times icum during Sex i can't tell ethier
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Pink_highlighter replied on July 23rd, 2008
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hun ur probably not orgasming. if u cant tell u having an orgasm ur probably not having one....have u had an orgasm during masturbation?
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Georgia59 replied on July 23rd, 2008
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When you are highly aroused, you vagina will produce a lot of secretion- more for some women and less for others. That doesn't mean you had an orgasm.

An orgasm is an intense sensation- and if you're not feeling an intense sensation, you're not having an orgasm.
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nuelma replied on July 23rd, 2008
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If you cannot explain how many times you have reached your orgasm, then you probably have never had one. You'll know when you cum. People are pleased with sex differently if you have ever seen Talk Sex With Sue, you will know that more then half women will never reach an orgasm with the penis some reach it better with oral sex.
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3309 replied on July 25th, 2008
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Im a male so i have no intention of bragging and i hope im not offsetting this post or anyones comfort level. However i cant say what it would feel like for you, but if your not sure u could ask your lover at the time what he feels. Being sexually active with my lover i notice everytime she does have an orgasm theres extreme pressure on my penis from the inside of her vagina, it feels as if its ballooning up and pushing me out, she has shakes and tenses up. This may not be the same for all women but indeed the most noticeable is the "ballooning" sensation from inside the vagina. Or so i find, again, just my opinion hope it helped
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