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koolkeepn

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Depends On Who the Judge Is.... Posted: 07-06-07 10:38am

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Posted: 07-06-07 10:47am


Wow, where have I been?? I have actually never heard of straight guys doing this. More power to you if you enjoy it. But I think we should be careful not to judge others on their sexual preferences. I would probably videotape it as well, and quite possibly join in the fun, but my dh has a no males policy in the bedroom. He's just not comfortable with it.

Alex79

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Posted: 07-06-07 11:03am


I wouldn't worry about it if he does masturbate with friends. I wouldn't go as far as to say that is normal but its definately not unusual. I suppose it just depends on what kind of upbringing you've had and if during that time you've been in a close environment with other people. Personally I would choose not to do it as I prefer a quite environment to " Peruse my thoughts" but whatever floats your boat................

koolkeepn

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Everybody Has a Different Judgement of Masturbating Posted: 07-10-07 09:49am


Consider the facts that masturbating is a STD safe way to share each other when the desire for sex appears. If ever considered it as a dangerous act, it's only dangerous if ever going beyond just doing that. The placement of semen is an important restriction that must be considered. If intercourse becomes desired a preventative should be used such as a condom. If swallowing is considered then the only safe swallow is your own.

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Posted: 07-10-07 19:24pm

gonzo69 wrote:

'Soggy Biscuit' - everyone sits in a circle masturbate with a biscuit in the middle. they go for it. last one to ejaculate on the biscuit has to eat it LOL.

That is the most disgusting thim I ever heard. I am glad I've never accepted an invatation to go and watch pornagrapghy with friends among other things...

gonzo69 wrote:

I can't even take communal showers.

Don't worry, neither can I. I just have a thing about being naked in mixed company.

But, about the topic itself: I don't think I will or ever masturbate with firends. It's just that I regard masturbating or watching porn to be something that you do alone. To qoute myself: "If it's in your pants, it's only your doctor's, partner's, and your own buisness."

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Posted: 07-11-07 03:27am

gonzo69 wrote:

yeah it's pretty common. i hear tales of guys who make games out of it.

'Soggy Biscuit' - everyone sits in a circle masturbate with a biscuit in the middle. they go for it. last one to ejaculate on the biscuit has to eat it LOL.

but yes, a lot of people do it. can't say i ever have though. i can't even take communal showers.

done a diff version of this it was a cup instead of a biscuit and in the end no one drank it.

fastlane21

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Posted: 07-17-07 17:47pm


its totally normal to masturbate each other

critical

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Posted: 07-18-07 04:42am

fastlane21 wrote:

its totally normal to masturbate each other

No its not TOTALLY NORMAL to masturbate each other (2 male friends), its not common (if it was common I'd probably at least heard about it) and it is gay (lets face it) , It might be OK ...for those who are comfortable doing it, . I'm not judging anyone here just being real.. If you like it go for it!

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Posted: 07-18-07 11:38am

critical wrote:

fastlane21 wrote:

its totally normal to masturbate each other

I'm sorry you feel that way, but you are in the minority. It is not gay. It is Normal, and it is far more common than you seem to think. I'm appreciative that you're not judging... except that you're calling them gay and abnormal. Going on to say "but it's okay" doesn't make you justified...

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Posted: 07-19-07 01:49am

Eiri wrote:

critical wrote:

fastlane21 wrote:

its totally normal to masturbate each other

Ok first of all I'm not calling it abnormal (go back read the text) I'm just saying that is not totally normal and it if it is ok with them its fine with me. Second, what if i'm calling them gay ? since when calling the gay people gay is bad or homophobic ?!? And last I'm gonna prove you wrong right away that It's not common as you claim to be and that I'm not in the minority, on contrary I'm in the vast majority and I'm sure of that. Create a poll: Is it gay for 2 male friends to masturbate one another and I guarantee you that the result in the best case is gonna be 70%- yes 30%-no maybe 80-20. If they mastrubate in a same room every man for himself thats not gay I've done that but if they start touching eachother well... Laughing

. Im sorry I dont share your open mindedness but many dont. Wink

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Posted: 07-19-07 03:47am


the guy is right its gay

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Posted: 07-19-07 06:15am

Eiri wrote:

I'm sorry you feel that way, but you are in the minority.

I feel that way too, and we are definately the Vast Majority critical Smile

Eiri wrote:

It is not gay.

Not Gay? Two guys masturbating together (each other) "you scratch mine, I'll scratch yours" is definitely GAY.

Eiri wrote:

I'm appreciative that you're not judging... except that you're calling them gay and abnormal. Going on to say "but it's okay" doesn't make you justified...

Who are we to judge them.... God will do that when the time comes. We're just expressing our OWN and PERSONAL opinions, i think we have the right to do that.
After all, these people have their own rights to do whatever they want, BUT, this kind of behaviour is not so common as you think it is.

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Posted: 07-19-07 13:05pm


Again, you don't understand. Homosexualism - the desire, loving, and attraction to ONLY members of your own gender; the desire to have sex with them; the want to be in love with them; and being attracted to ONLY members of the same gender. These men do not want to have sex with each other. Masturbation -mutual or not - is NOT SEX. I repeat: Masturbation is NOT sex. Second. These men do not and are not in LOVE with each other. Third. These men are not ATTRACTED to each other. Fourth. Most of these men have girlfriends, which is clearly a person of the OPPOSITE gender. Obviously, these men do NOT have an attraction to ONLY members of the same gender, as they are quite happy dating and having sex with females. The only stretch of the imagination that you could get me to believe is that Mutual Masturbation is Bi-Curious behavior.

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Posted: 07-20-07 01:08am


ok if you say so

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Posted: 07-23-07 13:19pm


sorry guys but this is defo gay ! no straight guy does things this way !

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Posted: 07-23-07 13:49pm

BEN L wrote:

sorry guys but this is defo gay !
no straight guy does things this way !

Lots of straight guys do it, or didn't you read the rest of the thread?

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Posted: 07-25-07 03:40am

Eiri wrote:

BEN L wrote:

sorry guys but this is defo gay !
no straight guy does things this way !

Lots of straight guys do it, or didn't you read the rest of the thread?

Ok are we talking about same thing here or just filling this thread with nonsense posts? Eiri if you go back and read all the posts again again you'll actually see that no one straight is really doing it. Quote me one post where straight guy says that is whacking his friend's dick. You need to come clean what are you talking about, masturbating with friends in a same room watching porn (everyone holding his penis - not gay) or masturbating eachother (holding your friends penis - gay). No straight guy is doing the second one . That's gay.

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Posted: 07-25-07 11:18am


any guy who is doing this obviously is either homosexual or curious about it. your average straight guy is not going to reach over & masturbate another guy's penis. many straight guys wouldn't even want another guy beside them with their penis out. if you think that this behavior is anywhere near "normal" for a straight man.. your perception of normal is a little off.

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Posted: 07-25-07 20:07pm

deebaby621 wrote:

any guy who is doing this obviously is either homosexual or curious about it. your average straight guy is not going to reach over & masturbate another guy's penis. many straight guys wouldn't even want another guy beside them with their penis out. if you think that this behavior is anywhere near "normal" for a straight man.. your perception of normal is a little off.

The OP was not masturbating anyone's penis except his own.
Many straight guys DO do this.
It is normal, my opinion is not skewed. I may simply know more straight men than you do.

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Posted: 07-26-07 07:21am


First of all the original post was over 2 years old. I've split it now. Second experimenting with friends is completely normal and is how we discover who we are and ascertain our sexual point of view.