Yeah. Relax. I can't even imagine the conversation with a friend about jacking together, and I'd probably be all scarred if I tried it, but I grew up pretty Catholic, so just hooking up with girls was anxiety inducing enough.

I'd say if you enjoyed it, whatever. Letting your friend jerk you off is definitely taking it to a different level, but if it was fun for you and you get the urge, in a perfect world you should be able to do what you want as long as its safe and everybody is into it.

I would not, however, tell too many of your other guy friends about it.

I think its totally normal and most men are curious its human nature. I have a good friend who did this often when he was in high school. He is not gay nor bisexual. And even if you were....power to you. Just because you engaged in something such as that dosen't make you "gay". I think if your enjoying doing it and its something you both like then go for it.

Many teenage guys try a game to see who can shoot their load first in a circle jerk. Yes its a straight guys game.

i dont want to look gay but sometime i want to try to wack off with a friend. is this part of the curious state and how do i try to get him to do it?

If you are gay or bisexual, there's nothing wrong with that. If you want to experiment a little with a friend, you'll just have to ask. Some people would probably be willing, while some wouldn't. If he isn't into it, no big deal. You'll find someone else you want to experiment with before long.

no. its just gay imo..

Isn't it interesting that this topic receives many replies and a huge amount (over 4000) hits? Something is going on.

What do you mean somethings going on? I think when people see the headline they want to read! More people than you realize are interested in such an act.

I am not surprised that there's interest, just surprised that so many men are willing to be open about it. I think it's about time.

If i heard about my boyfriend masturbating with friends that would cause a concern for me. i personally dont think its normal. i think that is something u do in the privacy of urself or you and ur significant other

You feel that way, but many people don't. It is rather normal and very common behavior. Saying it's not normal is like saying the sky isn't blue, simply because you choose to wear tinted sunglasses. Your opinion is certainly yours to have, but just remember that many other people are different from you.

when I was in high school, masturbation was a taboo subject. Nobody even admited to it. Now kids discuss it pretty openly. Adults are much less private about it too. Among younger guys at the gym I go to, it's pretty much the norm to chub up the penis to look bigger in the shower, and a the percentage of guys that shave pubic hair is growing fast. Both would have considered 'gay' years ago.

I think the change is people accept that somebody is gay or not depending on their declaration. We used to look at peoples' actions with suspicion. But now when two straight guys want to masturbate together, we see it just that, two straight guys doing something homoerotic.

BTW, there was a South Park episode on the subject too.

Yes guys at the gym as a norm stay semi-erect to look bigger in the shower. Shaving pubic hair makes a penis look bigger.

It's quite common for two guys to masturbate over some porn together.

yeah it's pretty common. i hear tales of guys who make games out of it.

'Soggy Biscuit' - everyone sits in a circle masturbate with a biscuit in the middle. they go for it. last one to cum on the biscuit has to eat it LOL.

but yes, a lot of people do it. can't say i ever have though. i can't even take communal showers.

I am 37 and was married for 15yrs to a woman who was very unexperimental and straight laced. My current wife is very open sexually and we try new things all the time. We have talked about things that she has done and thinks is hot and that she wants to see me play with another guy and him play with me. I know that I am not gay, but this does make me curious. So it is my opinion that if you enjoy it and both of you are comfortable with it, there is nothing wrong with experimental sexual experiences. And also so what if you are gay/bi. You have to live your life the way you feel is best, not how others want you to live it.

If my boyfriend and one of his friends (depending on which one, if he's one of the hot ones) wanted to masturbate together, I'd probably take out my video camera and record it!

that is freaking disgusting.

i would never masturbate with friends

closest thing is showering with teamates after hockey

wow thats really gross
i pray to go that never happens...eww