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vumajorarch
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Masturbating With Friends
Posted: 02-20-07 23:53pm
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I wouldn't worry so much about it...most
guys are so insecure with themselves
anyways....so you are one step ahead of
them...All guys do it....
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mrjsmith
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Posted: 03-05-07 00:24am
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Yeah. Relax. I can't even imagine the
conversation with a friend about jacking
together, and I'd probably be all scarred
if I tried it, but I grew up pretty
Catholic, so just hooking up with girls
was anxiety inducing enough.
I'd say if you enjoyed it, whatever.
Letting your friend jerk you off is
definitely taking it to a different level,
but if it was fun for you and you get the
urge, in a perfect world you should be
able to do what you want as long as its
safe and everybody is into it.
I would not, however, tell too many of
your other guy friends about it.
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Jaydensmommy
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Posted: 03-11-07 20:33pm
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I think its totally normal and most men
are curious its human nature. I have a
good friend who did this often when he was
in high school. He is not gay nor
bisexual. And even if you were....power
to you. Just because you engaged in
something such as that dosen't make you
"gay". I think if your enjoying doing it
and its something you both like then go
for it.
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glensaxon
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Circle Jerk
Posted: 03-13-07 02:54am
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Many teenage guys try a game to see who
can shoot their load first in a circle
jerk. Yes its a straight guys game.
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rock hard
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Posted: 06-18-07 02:26am
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i dont want to look gay but sometime i
want to try to wack off with a friend. is
this part of the curious state and how do
i try to get him to do it?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 06-18-07 12:55pm
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| rock hard
wrote: | | i dont want to look gay but
sometime i want to try to wack off with a
friend. is this part of the curious state
and how do i try to get him to do
it? |
If you are gay or bisexual, there's
nothing wrong with that. If you want to
experiment a little with a friend, you'll
just have to ask. Some people would
probably be willing, while some wouldn't.
If he isn't into it, no big deal. You'll
find someone else you want to experiment
with before long.
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Jester27
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niner
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Masturbating With Friends
Posted: 06-20-07 11:26am
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Isn't it interesting that this topic
receives many replies and a huge amount
(over 4000) hits? Something is going on.
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Jaydensmommy
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Posted: 06-20-07 16:31pm
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What do you mean somethings going on? I
think when people see the headline they
want to read! More people than you
realize are interested in such an act.
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niner
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Masturbating With Friends
Posted: 06-22-07 17:27pm
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I am not surprised that there's interest,
just surprised that so many men are
willing to be open about it. I think it's
about time.
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aszalajka
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Posted: 06-23-07 08:50am
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If i heard about my boyfriend masturbating
with friends that would cause a concern
for me. i personally dont think its
normal. i think that is something u do in
the privacy of urself or you and ur
significant other
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-23-07 10:57am
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| aszalajka
wrote: | | If i heard about my
boyfriend masturbating with friends that
would cause a concern for me. i personally
dont think its normal. i think that is
something u do in the privacy of urself or
you and ur significant
other |
You feel that way, but many people don't.
It is rather normal and very common
behavior. Saying it's not normal is like
saying the sky isn't blue, simply because
you choose to wear tinted sunglasses. Your
opinion is certainly yours to have, but
just remember that many other people are
different from you.
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perkins2505
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the Culture Is Changing
Posted: 06-25-07 14:43pm
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when I was in high school, masturbation
was a taboo subject. Nobody even admited
to it. Now kids discuss it pretty openly.
Adults are much less private about it too.
Among younger guys at the gym I go to,
it's pretty much the norm to chub up the
penis to look bigger in the shower, and a
the percentage of guys that shave pubic
hair is growing fast. Both would have
considered 'gay' years ago.
I think the change is people accept that
somebody is gay or not depending on their
declaration. We used to look at peoples'
actions with suspicion. But now when two
straight guys want to masturbate together,
we see it just that, two straight guys
doing something homoerotic.
BTW, there was a South Park episode on the
subject too.
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glensaxon
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New Norms
Posted: 06-26-07 07:32am
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Yes guys at the gym as a norm stay
semi-erect to look bigger in the shower.
Shaving pubic hair makes a penis look
bigger.
It's quite common for two guys to
masturbate over some porn together.
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gonzo69
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Posted: 06-27-07 04:20am
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yeah it's pretty common. i hear tales of
guys who make games out of it.
'Soggy Biscuit' - everyone sits in a
circle masturbate with a biscuit in the
middle. they go for it. last one to cum on
the biscuit has to eat it LOL.
but yes, a lot of people do it. can't say
i ever have though. i can't even take
communal showers.
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grmc3
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Posted: 06-27-07 08:04am
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I am 37 and was married for 15yrs to a
woman who was very unexperimental and
straight laced. My current wife is very
open sexually and we try new things all
the time. We have talked about things that
she has done and thinks is hot and that
she wants to see me play with another guy
and him play with me. I know that I am not
gay, but this does make me curious. So it
is my opinion that if you enjoy it and
both of you are comfortable with it, there
is nothing wrong with experimental sexual
experiences. And also so what if you are
gay/bi. You have to live your life the way
you feel is best, not how others want you
to live it.
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Honekaur
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Posted: 06-27-07 17:59pm
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If my boyfriend and one of his friends
(depending on which one, if he's one of
the hot ones) wanted to masturbate
together, I'd probably take out my video
camera and record it! 
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 06-27-07 18:11pm
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| gonzo69
wrote: | yeah it's pretty common.
hell, i hear tales of guys who make games
out of it.
'Soggy Biscuit' - everyone sits in a
circle masturbate with a biscuit in the
middle. they go for it. last one to
ejaculate on the biscuit has to eat it
LOL.
but yes, a lot of people do it. can't say
i ever have though.i can't even take
communal
showers. |
that is freaking disgusting.
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harrow17
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Wow
Posted: 07-01-07 20:20pm
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i would never masturbate with friends
closest thing is showering with teamates
after hockey
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-01-07 20:25pm
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| Honekaur
wrote: | | If my boyfriend and one of
his friends (depending on which one, if
he's one of the hot ones) wanted to
masturbate together, I'd probably take out
my video camera and record it! |
wow thats really gross
i pray to go that never happens...eww
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