Hello.
I am 13, and I am 14 and a half weeks
pregnant.
I found out 2 weeks ago, and both my
parents know, and have come to terms with
it.
I am writing this because i just want
someone to talk to about it.
My mum said she would always be there for
me, whatever happened, but since I decided
that I wanted to keep my baby, she has
been really distant, I suppose is the word
for it, with me.
I know she only wants what's best for me,
but she only focuses on the negatives.
Maybe that's just because she's my mum,
but I don't want to come to her for
advice, when all she can say is things
like "you're ruining your life", or "
you've got so much ahead of you, now
destroyed by your stupidity".
She has to give me some credit, I know my
baby won't just be a doll, to dress up
whenever I want. I know that I'm in this
for good. And I also know that I've been
stupid by getting pregnant, but I really
want to do this.
All I want is someone else to talk to. I
know that my mum will properly come to
terms with this eventually, but until then
there isn't really anyone else to talk to.
My dad and my brothers aren't the best
people to ask for this particular
subject.
Thank You, Daisy. x x x
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16npregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 130 Location: philly,
Re: Hi, Please Help Me. Posted: 07-25-07 18:25pm
xoxDaisyxox
wrote:
Hello.
I am 13, and I am 14 and a half weeks
pregnant.
I found out 2 weeks ago, and both my
parents know, and have come to terms with
it.
I am writing this because i just want
someone to talk to about it.
My mum said she would always be there for
me, whatever happened, but since I decided
that I wanted to keep my baby, she has
been really distant, I suppose is the word
for it, with me.
I know she only wants what's best for me,
but she only focuses on the negatives.
Maybe that's just because she's my mum,
but I don't want to come to her for
advice, when all she can say is things
like "you're ruining your life", or "
you've got so much ahead of you, now
destroyed by your stupidity".
She has to give me some credit, I know my
baby won't just be a doll, to dress up
whenever I want. I know that I'm in this
for good. And I also know that I've been
stupid by getting pregnant, but I really
want to do this.
All I want is someone else to talk to. I
know that my mum will properly come to
terms with this eventually, but until then
there isn't really anyone else to talk to.
My dad and my brothers aren't the best
people to ask for this particular
subject.
Thank You, Daisy. x x
x
well im here if you need someone to talk
to can pm me when ever you want to..hope
everything goes well
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kerryn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 148 Location: wellington, New zealand
Posted: 07-25-07 23:03pm
you can talk to me too if you want. Im not
pregnant, but i was and had an early
miscarriage. And well done for being
mature about your decisions and acting
responsibly about the pregnancy
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Lauren_Jay15
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 483 Location: ,
Posted: 07-26-07 05:32am
Hey, firstly congrats on your pregnancy.
Secondly, well done for deciding to keep
your baby and staying strong.
I'm Lauren, I'm 16 and 33 weeks pregnant
on Saturday. I was 15 when I found out I
was pregnant and it is hard, money, and
coping mentally but its all worth it. I
can't wait to hold my little girl, Paige
in 7 weeks.
The best advice I can give is not to let
anyone, parents or not upset you, or talk
you out of your strong decision, you seem
way more mature than a lot of 13 yr old
girls I know. The few things I've done to
keep myself sane throughout my pregnancy
is ignore any comments from anyone, they
aren't in your position therefore won't
know how it feels, stay strong for you and
your baby and don't let whatever people
say, whatever happens in your pregnancy,
get you down.
