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Catcher

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My Penis Problems Get Me Very Depressed
Posted: 07-25-07 02:48am

I can't even stand it any more. I never get a boner when I see a hot girl or anything and rarely ever when I watch porn. I have to masturbate cause without that it just wont get hard. Also when I am masturbating if I just stop for a few second my penis starts to quickly get un hard and in like 10 seconds it's like completely limp. I have no idea what is going on. I am really nervous that when I am about to get a blowjob or something like that from a girl I will pull my pants down and I can't get hard Embarassed Crying
or Very sad I mean I had so many times of doing it with a girl but these problems I have stop me, cause I don't want to get embarresed or anything.I masturbate once or twice a day, maybe I should stop? I started to occur this problem like last year. So I am wondering do I have anything wrong with me not being able to get hard without masturbating and then really quickly getting un hard?

Lastly, I have a foreskin and it's fine and everything but I am really embarrsed of it. I hear guys laughing about it and makng fun of it like it's horrible and everything. I am also embarrsed to take a shower with the guys because I think they will laugh at my penis and how it looks. Im not even Jewish! Crying
or Very sad So I don't know if girls mind the foreskin or they like it. Cause for all I know I could be just abotu to have sex with her, I whip down my pants, she sees it and then just walks away and tells everyone and I'll be so embarrsed.

All of these problems have got me really depressed over the past few months an I think it's getting serious. I don't really flirt with girls anymore cause I am afraid if they go into my pants I won't get hard or they won't like the foreskin. It seems like my life is revolving around my penis because I am truthfully a horny guy inside and I really wanna have sex but this problem just stops me. I find myself crying over my penis and having a foreskin. Im only 15 so I can't get my foreskin cut off plus I am way to embarrsed to ask my parents.

So what do I do? Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything that I can do or stop to get me getting hard again. Cause I know people right at the site of a naked image on the computer or a hot girls walks by they get hard. With me, I can't Crying
or Very sad

Please, I really need some serious answers because it is ruining my life.
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Catcher

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Posted: 07-25-07 23:47pm

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Tylanas

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Posted: 07-26-07 00:01am

A foreskin is healthy and normal and natural. The guys making fun of you are just stupid.

A woman is not going to judge you for having a foreskin. A girl might, but not a woman. I'm talking about maturity and age here.

You do not need to stop masturbating. It is healthy.

As for why you don't get hard by seeing hot girls... well, some guys just don't do that.
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knarf72

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Re: My Penis Problems Get Me Very Depressed
Posted: 07-26-07 15:00pm

Catcher wrote:
I can't even stand it any more. I never get a boner when I see a hot girl or anything and rarely ever when I watch porn. I have to masturbate cause without that it just wont get hard. Also when I am masturbating if I just stop for a few second my penis starts to quickly get un hard and in like 10 seconds it's like completely limp. I have no idea what is going on. I am really nervous that when I am about to get a blowjob or something like that from a girl I will pull my pants down and I can't get hard Embarassed Crying
or Very sad I mean I had so many times of doing it with a girl but these problems I have stop me, cause I don't want to get embarresed or anything.I masturbate once or twice a day, maybe I should stop? I started to occur this problem like last year. So I am wondering do I have anything wrong with me not being able to get hard without masturbating and then really quickly getting un hard?

Lastly, I have a foreskin and it's fine and everything but I am really embarrsed of it. I hear guys laughing about it and makng fun of it like it's horrible and everything. I am also embarrsed to take a shower with the guys because I think they will laugh at my penis and how it looks. Im not even Jewish! Crying
or Very sad So I don't know if girls mind the foreskin or they like it. Cause for all I know I could be just abotu to have sex with her, I whip down my pants, she sees it and then just walks away and tells everyone and I'll be so embarrsed.

All of these problems have got me really depressed over the past few months an I think it's getting serious. I don't really flirt with girls anymore cause I am afraid if they go into my pants I won't get hard or they won't like the foreskin. It seems like my life is revolving around my penis because I am truthfully a horny guy inside and I really wanna have sex but this problem just stops me. I find myself crying over my penis and having a foreskin. Im only 15 so I can't get my foreskin cut off plus I am way to embarrsed to ask my parents.

So what do I do? Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything that I can do or stop to get me getting hard again. Cause I know people right at the site of a naked image on the computer or a hot girls walks by they get hard. With me, I can't Crying
or Very sad

Please, I really need some serious answers because it is ruining my life.


how old are you? I know with age it get harder to get a boner. maybe yr a candidate for viagra, levitra or cialis??
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user112233

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Joined: 05 Jan 2005
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Location: , Washington

Posted: 07-26-07 18:45pm

This won't make you feel better, but be careful what you wish for. Getting a boner just looking at an attractive girl can be very inconvenient. I know because that's how I was.
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Dale123

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Location: Barrie, On Canada

Posted: 07-26-07 19:42pm

Eiri wrote:
A foreskin is healthy and normal and natural. The guys making fun of you are just stupid.

A woman is not going to judge you for having a foreskin. A girl might, but not a woman. I'm talking about maturity and age here.

You do not need to stop masturbating. It is healthy.

As for why you don't get hard by seeing hot girls... well, some guys just don't do that.


More and more guys have foreskin. I really wouldn't worry about it. It also could be because your young. Its not a big deal when you meet the right woman they will agree. I have dated a guy with foreskin and without.. It really isn't a big deal. I would keep on mastebating too. Eiri and I are WOMAN and we know.. LOL so don't worry!
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