Hi DanielCalif,
You sound like you have taken a good step with the appointment with the TMJ dentist. TMJ can come on extremely suddenly. It did for me. You may be grinding or clenching your teeth while sleeping and/or your bite might not be perfectly balanced. It could be because you are in front of a computer monitor for longer lengths of time and your posture is poor. Your body just decided to tell you it is out-of-whack and wants you to fix it.
What have you been doing to help relieve the pain symptoms? Following are some important basic self-help information that I usually recommend:
Use lots of moist heat and/o*****.
Get enough sleep and good sleep. Keep relaxed from the head down to your toes. Go to nismat.org.ptcor/tmj so you can see a picture of how not to hold your head and body. Hold your mouth relaxed, lips together (or slightly apart), teeth apart (never to touch) and tongue resting on the roof of your mouth. I'll come back to this again.
Use ibuprofen, if you can, for pain and to reduce any swelling. Use up to 800 mg if you feel the need. Do not take motrin/ibuprofen on an empty stomach and even though I don't know the exact amount, I wouldn't take more than 1600 mg a day.
Certain supplements are also very beneficial. Chelated magnesium (or just the regular stuff) can be very helpful if you are clenching and/or grinding your teeth at night. Up to 1200 mg a day. Super Vitamin B Complex is another great one. You might even try glucosamine, fish oil, calcium and vitamin D.
If you are a stressful person or full of anxiety, these are your enemy. Anti-depressants can be very helpful for TMJ pain. It sounds crazy, but it does. If you don't want to take a prescription anti-d, you might try St. John's Wort. It's supposed to be a "natural" anti-d.
Always check with your doctor about any vitamins and supplements that you plan on trying before you start taking them.
Tension. Stress. Bad Posture. These are TMJ's biggest enemies. Please believe me. I've gone through this for 27 years and rejected the stress and posture theories when I first heard about them. What a transformation when I finally made the changes. Even with all the damage done to my joints, the pain is now very manageable. Seriously!! Use any method to de-stress or relax that you can - hot tub, exercises, Yoga, massage therapy, etc.
*** Be very selective with what you eat. When you are going through a bad phase - only liquid or softer foods for a few weeks (or months). A good idea for the next several months or years - no gum chewing, hard, crunchy, chewy or gooey foods. Treat your mouth like it has been sprained (like a knee). Baby it. Rest it and that does mean to talk as little as possible. Believe me, I understand the enormous inconvenience of TMJ.
More - be careful about opening your mouth wide for a long period of time and try to never pop your jaw as it came cause damage to the joints.
I have to go back to posture as this is so very important with the computer age now. Evaluate how you are sitting in front of a computer or desk. Your back should be reasonably straight, shoulders back and down, neck and head over body with the chin down (not too far down). Be very careful to not thrust your neck/head/chin up or out towards the computer to see the screen better (or any other reason). No slouching. Go back to the nismat.org (tmj pt) website again for more directions on proper posture and good basic info on tmj.
TMJ can cause tinnitus and hearing loss. Thankfully I didn't notice a hearing loss until I was almost 50 and even later developed tinnitus. The younger you are the easier your body can repair itself with your help. Become as knowledgeable as possible about TMJ and ears. Now, relax. You are on the right track.
Please let us know how the appointment goes. And sorry for the length.
God bless...
Carol