im going to bullet point this coz its easier.
1) pull out method IS NOT A METHOD. theres a thing called pre ejaculate
2) Pre-ejaculate can get you pregnant. he doesnt know hes released it, therefore you had unprotected sex.
3) unprotected sex leads to babies.
4) you cant rely on pregnancy symptoms they mimic a lot of things, such as pms.
5) a lot of things can delay your period, such as stress
6) spotting instead of a period could be implantation bleeding
7) go to a dr and get bloods done if you think you are pregnant

if you arent ready for a baby, USE PROTECTION!!! EVERY time, or dont have sex!! its not rocket science!!