Whay do you do if you have been cheating
with someone for over 16 years. How do
you get out of it, and still hold your
family together.
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womaninpain
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2007 Posts: 179
Posted: 07-24-07 23:27pm
If your asking on an easy way out of a 16
year relationship with kids...there is no
easy way out honestly. It will be hard to
do it but I would not advise using "I
don;t love you anymore" or "I've been
cheating on you for all of this time" as
your excuse...If you are not getting along
then maybe it's best to go that route and
let your partner know that you can't do it
anymore but 100% want to do your best to
keep the friendship there and be with your
children. I hope it all works out for you.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5557 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 08-09-07 12:09pm
I'm not sure what you mean. Are you
married and having an affair with someone
else?
Be honest, and realize that your family
may not stay together. A 16 year long
affair isn't something that everyone can
get over.
But perhaps the other person knows? It's
harder to hide than you think.... I'd just
be honest and see what happens.
