Pocessive Boyfriend Won't Let Me Go Out Posted: 07-23-07 06:50am
I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 16,
we have been together for 7 months. When
we first started seeing eachother we spent
every minute we could together, i loved
him with all my heart andstill do.
The trouble started when my older sister
and i had planned going to a concert i
was so excited as she got tickets for
justin timberlake in London for the 8th of
jully.
I hadn't told my boyfriend till 3 weeks
before the concert as i was unshore of
when we were going and forgot the date my
sister had told me.
One of my boyfriends mums firends was
having a 40th birthday party on the same
day and i told him that it was the same
day i was going to the concert so couldnt
come. He begged and pleaded me too come
and i spoke to my mum and dad about it
they said because it was already payed for
that there was no goin back.
A couple of days before we were ment too
go he pulled another strop because i was
staying the night at my sisters because
the concert finnsihed late.
I knew still going to the concert was the
right thing too do and hoped he would
understand when i got there that he
couldnt control me. He rang me a few times
which was fine and when i got back gave me
a big hug, i thought it would all be ok.
I dont usually see my firneds as much as a
used to becuase of my boyfriend and him
wanting too see me. Just recently i have
planned to go to my friend rebeccas house
for the night and all the problems have
started again he said that i never do
anything for him and that i should go for
the dya but not the night as evenings are
our special thing. I still think i shoudl
go as i no that if i do as he asks it will
get worse next time round and he will
expect the same again. I feel bad and
don't know what to do. I have explained
that it is only 2 days out of my summer
holiday i wont see him, but he wont have
it and gives me heck about it.
Just today he drove off on his moped
without his helmet and said he was going
to kill himself because he cant survive a
day without me.
Sorry if i have babbled on a bit i would
aprreciate if anyone could give me some
help and post back to this, thank you,
shevaun xx
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 07-30-07 14:43pm
you need to get rid of him.Your too young
to put up with things like this
anyhow.Your only 14,you have *so* much
time ahead of you to be with someone.Go do
things that 145 year old girls do.go to
the mall and the movies with your
girlfriends go to the beach,just be 14!
