your naturaklly small and thats ok
atleadt its not like...2 inches or something!

Four and a half inches is just fine. The average adult penis is about five to six inches, but size varies a great deal. So you're just a tad smaller than average, but it's nothing to worry about. You're not too small. You can certainly still satisfy your partner. Smaller penises are better for some things anyway!

Don't go for circumcision yet.

Talk to your doctor, and on this site, find topics on skin problems. I have read one, it is an exercise and this person took 6 weeks to be able to pull it back fully.

You can buy creams to help too. Explore this forum and talk to your Dr. Circumcision must be only a last resort. In my case, it is.

http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic84482. html

Read this. This is the exercise. Read it all and talk to your Dr and get demostrations done for help etc.

Also, research on penis enlargement if you are so worried, but only with your DOCTOR.

I have been hearing about extagen quite a lot on this forum.

Really? Whatcha doin later?

Hehehe.

Smaller penises are better for some things anyway!

Us guys with small ones are open to suggestions. What could they possibly be better for? Picking locks, or getting stuff from under the fridge? Don't B.S. me, I know the truth!

They're better at sudden crazy spontaneous sex because you don't have to put on a ton of lube to shove some giant monster penis up your vagina. The man can control more movements than just "in and out". You are unlikely to hurt your girl physically.

Well, they're often better for women who tend to be dry or have pain during sex. They can also be better for anal or oral sex. Personally, a large penis hurts my jaw.

Right. You sound like my wife....
"no honey, really. Women prefer smaller ones. We don't like being pleased". C'mon. That's the same as a guy seeing a 19 yr. hot stripper standing next to a beer truck and the guy saying, "No way. I'd rather go home and do my chores than have free sex and beer."
Guys aren't stupid. I believe the majority of women want bigger. Not that that's bad, but some of us guys just can't deliver. Women (not ALL) want bigger boobs, flatter tummies, etc. and men want a donkey weiner. Just how it is....

Bah, I certainly do not want larger breasts! I have a hard enough time finding bras in my size as it is. If they were any larger, I think I would have to specially order them.

No, I am serious! My current partner is so wide, he really does not get oral sex. What we call "oral sex" is actually just manual sex with maybe half an inch of oral sex involved. I just seriously can't open my mouth that wide without causing pain.

Poor guy. It must be so rough having a huge one. I guess I'm lucky....

Oral sex is great, but I think I'd rather have a bigger one. Ummmm. Ya, that would be good! It's the grass is always grenner thing. How often do women sit around talking about that average guy they slept with? Seriously?
"hey Heather- that guy from saturday had a penis that was average and I really liked it. It didn't stretch me out or anything. Of course, I didn't cum but it was sooooooo much better that way. I really hate having an orgasm. It's soooo much work".

Yeah---not so much......

Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation though, and length has absolutely nothing to do with clitoral stimulation! So it's true that we certainly can orgasm even with a small penis! I usually orgasm during sex regardless of the man's size.

Secondly, few few women can "ejaculate", so that comment is pretty silly XD.

"Oh my gosh! This guy I was with last night was so huge! My jaw was hurting after like, two minutes and he couldn't even get it in far because it felt like my vagina was going to rip right up to my cervix!"

Now the guy earlier had a good point, i'm about 6 1/2" and I think mine is small, but my girlfriend says it's big. but like the dude earlier we think you ladies are trying to humor us or something. because we see it on talk shows, porn sites and everywhere you look. women are saying they want a big dick man. just like dude was saying women see it on tv and places, about being thin, if you asked us guys if we thought you were fat and we said no honey your just fine, you'd think were lying to you. so just what is enough. I'd like a big goober but I've seen them on porn 18" long but to look at it theres no real hard on there always limp as hell, it's like trying to f-ck with a rope, you'd be just as pleased with a dildo. I guess it's like the breast, weight, looks or what ever flaws we think we have, it's just a prefrence. we just want to find that person that wants us for us, flaws and all. hbk

Well I'm not humoring... I'd seriously turn away a guy who's penis was too big. I would not turn away a guy with a 4 inch penis.

And remember, average is 5-6, so anything above 6 is technically a BIG penis. You have one.

bigger penises can hurt - the vagina is sensitive.

I'd much rather have a guy on the smaller side who was skillful than have some gut with a donkey d*ck poking away with no care or consideration.

it's not about how much you can stuff in there it's about making it feel good.

and for the science part the vagina is only about 4 inches long (yes, it's stretchy but you still have to stretch it carefully) and only the first couple inches has nerve endings.

I certainly don't want bigger boobs - but even if I did I'm not planning on trying to stuff them inside my guy.

But I bet it's been done. O.o