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Q: 21 Year Old Male Single
asked by: nicnac01 on July 22nd, 2007
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Right then, im 21 recently moved house and rarely have any contact with my friends, I am single and am lonely, I live in a good house and i have money but i dont start my college course until september , what if i dont meet anyone there?

I am currently spending most of my days in my bedroom playing on my ps3 online, Any advice would be very helpful ,

Thanks
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bel_bel
replied on July 23rd, 2007
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go outside!!!
just go to get some books you always wanted to read, and sat down in a cafe, got yourselve a latte, open your brand new books... if u get lucky, some girls might approach you Razz well, anyway, don't put any expectation, jus treat it as a me& myself time.. and surf the net at starbucks or some place like tat...
when you get usual to the environment, you can definitely speak to someone seat beside you on the tram/buses/tube. sit down with someone and have a meal by sharing a table...
easiest people to talk to is people in the 'servicing line' waitress, promoters etc. ask for specials, free gift, just casual chat, 'how long you've worked here, am new to the town,. wil be starting my college on ?? etc... there're plenty of ways to make frens from all backgrounds and all ages...
well, if u r not picky on friends.. for me, i really enjoy talking and making friends with ppl from all sort of backgrounds, culture, ages...
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The Godly One
replied on September 14th, 2007
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Re: 21 Year Old Male Single
nicnac01 wrote:
Right then, im 21 recently moved house and rarely have any contact with my friends, I am single and am lonely, I live in a good house and i have money but i dont start my college course until september , what if i dont meet anyone there?

I am currently spending most of my days in my bedroom playing on my ps3 online, Any advice would be very helpful ,

Thanks


When you are at a college or University, there are many people in attendance.

You would have to actively avoid people, in order not to meet them.

So, do not run out the door back to your games console.
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musicdiva1331
replied on March 18th, 2008
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1) listen to the people about you.
2) i think you're either older than you're saying or the birthdate on your profile is wrong (i'm weird i look at the profiles) because it' says 1978 and last i checked that would make you 30.
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dineshsingh
replied on March 25th, 2008
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dont worry
i am 24 year old and i am also single till yet so don't worry i am with you.I am searching in internet for one girl and i will suggest you also to do same thing.
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EddyMc
replied on June 22nd, 2008
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I have to agree with the "go outside" statement, go swimming, join a gym, go to the library.

Sitting inside by yourself will only make you get depressed about your situation, the more time you spend outside the more chance there is to find friends/people to chat too.

Eddy
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