Hi Kira

have you spoken to your Mum about how you are feeling .. if you can't speak to her, is there a good friend you can let it all out to, or are you looking for a total stranger to spill it all out to, your having that attiitude with your Mum, cos you can't express your feelings, cos you are scared of huritng her, and you'd rather be mean to her, than open up... I'm sure you're Mum wants to help you, and I know she's hurting for you, so open up, have a good cry with her, let it all out, and then you can start living again.

If you need a friend to talk to, we're here to help you

Loads of hugs and strength

Ginger

i have spoken with her but she was happy i miscarried since it was an abnormal growth i am too but tis still hard

Hi Kira

You concider your miscarriage a blessing, as it would have been abnormal, that is hard for you to come to terms with. You and your Mum (if you want her support) are to seek a support group nearby, your doctor should put you in contact with one that will help you overcome this, it is normal to greive, that is what you are doing, you are upset it happened, and it's a tough thing to live thru at the moment, but with the right support, from the right group of people that has experienced what you are going thru, you will pull thru this depression.

I hope you feel better soon, and remember, there is Support Groups ou there to help you.

Ginger

oh i know it was i mean i didnt want an abnormal child in any way

Oh No Kira - I didn't read it like that anyways ... my apologies if it sounded like I was reading you wrong .....
You are a strong lady .. I can tell by the way you just defended yourself just then .... you need support, the miscarriage has happened now, and you just need the support for you to get yourself back together again.
You must value your life, and one day, when the time is right, you will have babies you will love, and support when they grow up...
Keep your chin up Kira,
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its ok Ginger i understood what you ment

that's ok - I didn't want to upset you ...
How are you feeling today? Is things getting better
between you and your mum .. and are you feeling
better in yourself?

im feeling ok just still bleeding. my mom and i are ok. so far

that's good babe .... worried about the bleeding tho - how long have you been bleeding ?

started spotting wednesday last week until now

that's normal to spot or bleed for a while ... you did see a doctor after, or went to hospital didn't you ... you've seen a doctor since it happened?
Just make sure you look after yourself - I'm here to talk to anytime, you know that!

Ginger

yes they told me that but i want to be free lol im tired of the blood you know. i saw the doctor 2 days after and my chg was 468 or something so it was going down

it's ok babe ... it won't last long - it's like a 'period' ... just make sure you eat loads of fruit (banana's are good) n drink plenty of water ... cos you are bleeding ... yu need to regenerate your blood

ok thanks

and take it easy - your body has been thru a lot, and you have too !!