HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-20-07 17:21pm
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Birch
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Posted: 07-20-07 18:15pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | It's not a gender issue to
me: No human has the right to hit
another...
If two humans are fighting, then the other
one has the right to defend themselves.
I was raised to never throw the first
punch. |
Except spanking your child, of course.

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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-20-07 19:29pm
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| Birch
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | It's not a gender issue to
me: No human has the right to hit
another...
If two humans are fighting, then the other
one has the right to defend themselves.
I was raised to never throw the first
punch. |
Except spanking your child, of course.
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I knew you'd bring that up I'm just not going
to comment and plead the 5th.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-20-07 20:02pm
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As self defense, sure. If a woman is
holding a gun on me or my child, I would
fully expect my husband to knock her the
eff out. Or if a woman hits a man, he
should be allowed to hit her back.
But I'm not okay with a man hitting a
woman because she spilled his beer, or
because the eggs got cold, or because he
thinks she's cheating on him. Any reason,
really, other than to defend himself. Same
thing goes for women, too. I'm not okay
with women hitting men either, unless it's
self defense.
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Birch
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Posted: 07-20-07 20:59pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Birch
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | It's not a gender issue to
me: No human has the right to hit
another...
If two humans are fighting, then the other
one has the right to defend themselves.
I was raised to never throw the first
punch. |
Except spanking your child, of course.
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I knew you'd bring that up I'm just not going
to comment and plead the
5th. |
Chicken. 
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
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Posted: 07-20-07 21:06pm
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It's never okay to hit someone you love,
unless you absolutely need to defend
yourself.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-20-07 21:18pm
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| Birch
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | Birch
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | It's not a gender issue to
me: No human has the right to hit
another...
If two humans are fighting, then the other
one has the right to defend themselves.
I was raised to never throw the first
punch. |
Except spanking your child, of course.
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I knew you'd bring that up I'm just not going
to comment and plead the
5th. |
Chicken.  |
Buck buck buck bu-gawk!
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ThriftyGal
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 2982 Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 07-21-07 00:16am
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| Jude-Love
wrote: | | It's never okay to hit
someone you love, unless you absolutely need to defend
yourself. |
And why would it be any different for
someone you didn't love...?
It's never okay to hit anyone, period.
Male, female, grey, purple, whatevs.
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kaerbear
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Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 1557 Location: ,
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Posted: 07-22-07 15:53pm
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don't you guys watch Cops? they always
take the man and the woman to jail when
they are fighting. i feel sorry for the
cops trying to figure it out sometimes.
doesn't everyone in the states have a gun
anyway? why hit someone when you can just
shoot them?
KIDDING!!
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-22-07 15:57pm
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| kaerbear
wrote: | don't you guys watch Cops?
they always take the man and the woman to
jail when they are fighting. i feel sorry
for the cops trying to figure it out
sometimes. doesn't everyone in the states
have a gun anyway? why hit someone when
you can just shoot them?
KIDDING!! |
lol
i know few people who have guns...
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
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Posted: 07-22-07 16:59pm
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| tanyaface
wrote: | | Jude-Love
wrote: | | It's never okay to hit
someone you love, unless you absolutely need to defend
yourself. |
And why would it be any different for
someone you didn't love...?
It's never okay to hit anyone, period.
Male, female, grey, purple,
whatevs. |
It isn't. The topic said something about
"a man and a woman", so I kinda assumed we
were talking about domestic relations.
Sorry. Obviously, I don't think it's okay
to hit people.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-22-07 17:01pm
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| Jude-Love
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | | Jude-Love
wrote: | | It's never okay to hit
someone you love, unless you absolutely need to defend
yourself. |
And why would it be any different for
someone you didn't love...?
It's never okay to hit anyone, period.
Male, female, grey, purple,
whatevs. |
It isn't. The topic said something about
"a man and a woman", so I kinda assumed we
were talking about domestic relations.
Sorry. Obviously, I don't think it's okay
to hit
people. |
dangit jude!!! i bet your one of those
people who thinks its ok to just go around
punching every body in the face!!!
j/k

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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 2248
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Posted: 07-22-07 17:32pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Jude-Love
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | | Jude-Love
wrote: | | It's never okay to hit
someone you love, unless you absolutely need to defend
yourself. |
And why would it be any different for
someone you didn't love...?
It's never okay to hit anyone, period.
Male, female, grey, purple,
whatevs. |
It isn't. The topic said something about
"a man and a woman", so I kinda assumed we
were talking about domestic relations.
Sorry. Obviously, I don't think it's okay
to hit
people. |
dangit jude!!! i bet your one of those
people who thinks its ok to just go around
punching every body in the face!!!
j/k
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no that would be me

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young Girl
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blulyneguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 334 Location: Idaho,
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Posted: 07-23-07 10:16am
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'dangit jude!!! i bet your one of those
people who thinks its ok to just go around
punching every body in the face!!! '
Not EVERYBODY! Just most of the people.
And as for gun totin Americans- I'm one of
em. I pack heat everywhere I go (legally).
It is always within reach. You knock on my
car window saying 'get out the car man',
you will be sadly mistaken. My job is to
protect the innocent. Not treat the bad
guys with love and respect!
Sorry for the rant- another shooting of an
innocent person this weekend in the
Walmart parking lot. When will people stop
being idiots?
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Marfa2107
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Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 1552 Location: Galena, Kansas United States
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Posted: 07-23-07 10:21am
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never!!
my boyfriends grandma always says..
you can treat illness.. you can treat
depression..
but you can't treat STUPID..  ...
i thought that was appropriate after what
blulyneguy said 
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blulyneguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 334 Location: Idaho,
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Posted: 07-23-07 10:23am
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Thanks Marfa.....
I wish I would have been there. That
freikin fool would've been swiss cheese!
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 07-23-07 13:01pm
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I don't think two people should ever hit
each other. period. Even strangers.
However, i am surely not going to stand
around and let someone beat me up ar beat
up a friend or loved one. I prefer to
fight with words. This is why my husband
and I are in martial arts together. It
serves as great domestic violence
prevention! 
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firecracker
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 43 Location: Solar System,
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Posted: 08-01-07 09:19am
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| AyaMiyaki
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But I'm not okay with a man hitting a
woman because she spilled his beer, or
because the eggs got cold, or because he
thinks she's cheating on him. Any reason,
really, other than to defend himself. Same
thing goes for women, too. I'm not okay
with women hitting men either, unless it's
self defense. |
Just a possibility of being hit by a man
because of such reasons is disgusting. If
you just have suspicious about that, you
should leave your man/woman in that
moment. Woman often mentally attack men
but the reply should be much different
that actually hitting someone.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
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Posted: 08-01-07 15:26pm
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| Jude-Love
wrote: | | It's never okay to hit
someone you love, unless you absolutely need to defend
yourself. |
cut the "you love" part out. and i agree.
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