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is anyone girls or boys bi in here wat does it feel like and how long u been bi
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replied July 20th, 2007
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im bi and married. been that way forever no di then when you are with an op sex person.
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replied July 20th, 2007
to tell u the truth i haven't been with no one yet
i want to thought but cant find anyonethats bi and i dont want hiv or aids
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replied July 22nd, 2007
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fastlane21 wrote:
to tell u the truth i haven't been with no one yet
i want to thought but cant find anyonethats bi and i dont want hiv or aids


If you are bisexual that does not mean that you can only be with other bisexual people. For example, if you are male and like males and females, then you can date bisexual people of either sex, homosexual males, or heterosexual females. I am a heterosexual female, and I once dated a bisexual male.

You can have a relationship and have sex without getting HIV. All you have to do is be careful and informed, get tested, have your partner get tested, and always use protection.
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replied November 21st, 2007
Both me and my boyfriend are bisexual, but for most teens being "bisexual" or "bicurious" is just a phase they go through, which i think is what's happening to me, i'm not really sure. I have had a girlfriend before, but what do you mean when you say "What does it feel like"?
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replied November 24th, 2007
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I'm bisexual, have been since forever but when i was younger i didn't know it was possible for anything but being hetrosexual to exist so i didn't understand what i was feeling, when i found out that you can like both males and females i understood that's what i was. i'm 16 now and have a boyfriend and a daughter, i've been openly bisexual since i was around 11 i'd say
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replied November 24th, 2007
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fastlane21 wrote:
is anyone girls or boys bi in here wat does it feel like and how long u been bi


I'm straight, but I think many teens go through a natural bisexual phase during puberty.

What does it feel like? Well, have you ever been attracted to anyone? Male or female it doesn't matter. Attraction feels the same no matter what gender you like.
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replied November 25th, 2007
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I'm gay, but thought I was bi for a really long time.

I'm having trouble understanding what you're trying to ask... the only way you're going to find out what you truly, truly like is through experience. This doesn't even mean trying to sleep around... you can date or just talk to other bisexual people... or, since you're bi... straight or gay people and see what you like more.
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replied December 1st, 2007
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I'm gay, but thought I was bi for a really long time.

I'm having trouble understanding what you're trying to ask... the only way you're going to find out what you truly, truly like is through experience. This doesn't even mean trying to sleep around... you can date or just talk to other bisexual people... or, since you're bi... straight or gay people and see what you like more.


I like how we see eye to eye on some things Very Happy

At any rate, I actually went through a phase before I met my ex-boyfriend where I believed I was bi. I had dated two girls before my recent (and first) man. When I was dating the two girls, I still had an attraction to men, but at the same time, I had attraction to the girlfriends I had. Now that I have had a relationship (and still a good friendship) with my first man, I feel more attracted to guys. And thus, I am beginning to accept the fact that I am actually gay.

Also as a side note, I have a cousin who went through the same thing. He came out as bi, and then gay.
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replied February 5th, 2008
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Eiri wrote:
fastlane21 wrote:
is anyone girls or boys bi in here wat does it feel like and how long u been bi


I'm straight, but I think many teens go through a natural bisexual phase during puberty.

What does it feel like? Well, have you ever been attracted to anyone? Male or female it doesn't matter. Attraction feels the same no matter what gender you like.


Once again, I agree with Eiri..I am gay...Kinsey 6..never been with a woman ever but love is love, sex is sex and whatever turns you on, as long as you are of age and not hurting anyone, is OK.
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replied February 5th, 2008
im bi and married also & I've been like this since i was 11 im 23 years old now.
and the girl i messed with is my bestfriend still it's already going to be 15 years of friendship.
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replied February 11th, 2008
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I was just wondering, since most of the people on here saying they are bi are girls and married or in relationships...does your boyfriend/husband know??
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replied March 14th, 2008
I'm bi, and it can be confusing at times but it's all good. I've been bi for a little less than a year.
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replied March 28th, 2008
being bi and married can be hard - i'm a lady and married a man. sometimes we talk about it and sometimes i just keep the feelings deep inside - like i made my choice to be married to a man so i better just be happy -- which for the record, i am very happy with my husband - but there are times when i feel like i need/want that love from a woman - a woman's body is so unique and beautiful.
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replied March 28th, 2008
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Well, you touched upon the important thing: You chose to marry a man.

I don't care if you're straight, bi, or gay. You will ALWAYS be tempted by other people when you are in a relationship. I am tempted by men, as a straight woman. Bi people are tempted by both genders. Gay people are tempted by their own gender. But it's all the same.
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replied March 28th, 2008
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Eiri wrote:
Well, you touched upon the important thing: You chose to marry a man.

I don't care if you're straight, bi, or gay. You will ALWAYS be tempted by other people when you are in a relationship. I am tempted by men, as a straight woman. Bi people are tempted by both genders. Gay people are tempted by their own gender. But it's all the same.


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replied May 30th, 2008
I am a bi female, I've been bi from ever since I can remember, it feels alright to bi it's normal nothings wrong with it.
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replied February 17th, 2010
I'm a bi male, I dicovered that I was bi less than 10 years ago - I have been married for 30 years, and my wife know that I am bi.
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replied February 17th, 2010
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Why doesn't anyone ever go through a Gay "phase"? Why aren't people "straight curious"?. What is so terrifying about admitting attraction to more than one gender that would make people marginalize it this way? Bisexuals are statistically more like you than people of your own sexual preference. They are moderates in the bipartisanship of sex. They aren't trying to figure out what side they're on. They have it all figured out. they have double the options on Friday night and they have no problem with this. They don't mock you for your pathetic monosexual capacity. Have the decency to treat them with the same respect you would ask of others and recognize that they are no less clueless about sexual attraction than you are.
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replied June 14th, 2010
I think "wolf" above here is being way too agressive on the "pathetic monosexual capacity" it's not pathetic that I'm attracted to the opossite sex only. It's what I am that ALSO must be respected just the way u demand respect. People are going to be respected regardless if the act with care n honesty toward others. Whatever sexual choice u might have.
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