Our own little place to compare notes! I suck at getting chicks too. I'm married, but if I was single again, I'd never get laid. I don't lift weights (3 hand surgeries and just can't do it), I'm 5'8" and 165 lbs. (small guy). My looks are at or below average, and my personality is terrible (I think I'm too honest about stuff). I deal with it cause I have to. What are some of your ways at coming on to woman? Maybe we can help....

Interesting topic,

It's funny I'm pretty good at picking up women --- or getting them to like you... it's funny because I have a case of premature ejaculation... so i never end up having sex

I guess having this problem has thought me to pay better attention to picking up than --- taking step two and three (know what I mean?

if i were to summarize it. A woman doesn't want someone to that has a rehearsed script it barely ever works... you should keep in mind that you are there to be their friend and that you just want to talk a little... the friendship vibe is the best approach--- woman(people) are pretty perceptive and they pickup on the "pickup" vibe very easily.

I'm not horrible nor am i an adonis...


what I'm really bad at is keeping from ejaculating when appropriate ...now there's a problem. (working on that)


Regarding weight lifting....what somatotype are you? are you tall and skinny.. tall and fat? short skinny...etc..

a good personal trainer can help...

I'm 6'4" 205lbs am tall and kinda skinny... therefore lifting heavy weight is difficult becuase of my skeletal mechanics, it's not if you can lift heavy weight it's if you look good in a t-shirt.

If you want for advice on somatotypes and stuff please let me know .

well... I usually wait too long and then, when the moment is gone I aproach -disaster .But lately I discovered one pretty simple thing that is working with most of the women. Rehearsing a text is a down, but cliches are doing their job very well even if it is old
The trick is to let the girl realize that you are aware that your compliment is a cliche but also tell her that its the bare truth and that you cant invent the hot water again (that this is already been said by other great men why using fancy words and make yourself look like a fool).
Act a bit spontaneous maybe a little shy (depends on the girl - shy might be too risky, works with dominant women) and I think you'll get the girl's attention for the night. Works for me very good so far.
Pickup lines are not my style, I dont like em.
If you experiment with this method pls let me know what happened




You are pretty tall man..
Well I'm tall 185 cm and round 85 kilos sorry cant tell you in US measures I dont know how to convert them . I'd say I'm average tall and normal weight. I was very skinny last year but I gained 20 kgs. Also was tough but my energy levels suck right now cos Im not active as I used to be ( I'm programmer ).

Ok thats it for now
peace out

I am new here, but here we go.

This is kinda uncomfortable, but act kinda cute towards them. Not act like "oh! I know this, and how this works, and Me, me me!"

Showing off, no! Always want to hear what THEY have to say. Hey, I am a HUGE lady's guy. I always get the chics. Stuttering is a hard thing to over come, but I know this is kinda akward, but practice talking to a friend, like a conversation with a good guy friend, pretending he's the girl. Remember! CONVERSATION Nothing gay.

I'll show you the pics of some girls I've dated. Oh, yeah! Girls like a guy who smells pretty. Weird, but it works!

Read up on all this, your skills will skyrocket.
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I'm married, but 'back in the day' (god I'm old) I used humor to get girls. If they were laughing, it was a good sign. Don't be pushy and like someone said earlier- listen to them. Ask questions. If I wasn't married, I'd propably never get laid again but I'd have em laughing (probably after I took my pants off!). Good luck gents...

rofl man.
You got sence of humor

I suck at reapiring things at home

Guys- fixing stuff around the house blows. Im a contractor and my house is always under construction. My wife does the 'I want this moved and this painted and this sink" all the time. Plus I have ADD so throw that in and I have 500 unfinished projects. As for dating- don't be pushy. Women (like I know) like a confident (but not arrogant) man. Also- think of where you are trying to meet these girls. Is a 'bar' local really what you're looking for? If it is, fine, but I don't want my girlfriend at a bar all the time (with or without me).

Agreed with the post, but arrogance can be very strong aphrodisiac sometimes

As to repairing I can change bulbs and stuff repair something basic..

I suck at fighting , I'm pretty big but I'm too slow I guess :

Fighting? That's not really a skill that we 'need'. If a woman wants a man who can fight, she should marry Mike Tyson. I can hold my own but I have never gotten into a fight because of my wife. The only time she's seen me fight is in hockey and she hates it. I don't consider myself a good fighter- just a dirty one.

I suck in keeping home economy, I was always thinking someone is stealing money from my wallet (...still do ) and although i was always well paid could never reached 20th of the month with money left from previous salary. Maybe the ghost from my pocket did that ?

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Time is the worst place to get lost in

lol dude I have the same issues

I also suck with documents, I just cant recognize and organize them. I dont even know how to write a check properly, it takes up to 30 mins while I look where to fill, what to write not to make mistake etc. My handwriting is like hieroglyphs . I always ask my roommate or some gorl to do it for me. It just stinks I think this is some kind of disability.

Well this is what I suck at; everything,oh I know things about a lot of stuff but when it comes to one subject I Suck, I do home repair and if it is only purpose take four hour to complete a job I can do it in at least a day and a half. I replaced window over our kitchen sink a couple of winters ago, The guy at Menard's told me that it would only take two hours, just pull out the old one and put the new one in. I had to put plastic over it for the night and start over the next day. It takes me all day to do a brake job on my truck and that's just the front end.
Can anyone top that

I dont know where the brakes are.

you killed me

blulyneguy- i'm a girl but i had to comment on the fact that i thought it was only my boyfriend that had a bunch of unfinished projects around the house and he is also a construction worker and a hockey player... i dont know maybe it has to do with those kind of men?!?! lol although, my boyfriend doesn't have ADD so he kan't use that as an excuse lol unless he does have it and we just don't know about it.

I prefer focusing on my strengths then using those strengths with the help of my friends and making my weakness's stronger.

I can fight I can take down someone twice my size, but it's an overall uselss Hollywood skill.

I suck at sex, good with foreplay but not sex. practice makes perfect though.

Knarf72 wrote:

well... I usually wait too long and then, when the moment is gone I aproach -disaster Razz


Hahaha That cracks me up! Its my entire gameplan on the subject! Ahh, but those were good times when I was single. I have a girlfriend now, going on 3 years.

Anyways,
I suck at:
>Golf (although only ever play with right-handed clubs, i'm lefty)
>thinking of the perfect comeback within the same hour of the comment.
>thinking of good excuses for being late b/c of hangover...*cough, i was sick*
>Cooking! I can BBQ, but not cook. I'm hungry ~ frozen pizza time!
>remembering important stuff like final exams and annaversaries...
>Going the speed limit!
>keeping the tab under $50 at the bar...

Well there, thats not all but admitting you suck is the first step.