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Q: Bulimia : is it possible to self treat?
asked by: DoctorQuestion on July 20th, 2007
I have been suffering form bulima for two years. I have not told anyone about ths because I don't want to be labeled for having this disorder. It had gotten so bad that I was purging 21 times per week. Now since I have almost normal looding skin, I want to be psychologically normal too. For the past two months I have been trying to stop this behavior by reading self help books but I am having a hard time. Is it possible to self treat? will I ever stop having the urge to purge? I have a dental exam next week, for the first time in 10 years, what should I expect?
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Dr. Nikola Gjuzelov , MD
replied on August 8th, 2007
Eating Disorders Answer A3154
Bulimia is a serious psychiatric disorder with potentially serious physical consequences. Dental examination would probably show dental caries and inflammation of the gingival mucosa. Often vomiting also causes chronic esophagus inflammation. Bulimia treatment usually requires expert help from a psychiatrist. Physical consequences are treated by dentist and ENT-specialist.




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lewis1011
replied on February 11th, 2009
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in my experience it is not possible to self treat i have tried this and it did not work if i were you i would tell someone trust me you feel so much better.after you have told someone maybe you could find specialist help.hope everything works out for you
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ellareed
replied on March 25th, 2009
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i know how u feel
i have been suffering from bulimia for over 10 years now.. i got help and got better for several months.. then i suddenly relapsed ... and now i cant stop.. its awful.. and its controlling EVERYTHING in my life right now.. i would suggest seeing a counselor and a nutritionist so that u can learn how to eat like a normal person again..its impossible to learn how without help.
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passion4fasion
replied on April 9th, 2009
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I agree
I want to let you know that Bulimia IS one of the worst diseases ever. It is sooooooooo hard to get out of it's grasps and be FREE once again. People who try to get better, never can. That is a fact. About 1% out of ALL people with this illness can revover on their own, very little. As much as it sucks AT THE TIME to have to go and get help, it is sooooooo worth it in the end.
The first month of getting better is the hardest, could be one of the worst times in your life. But when there is a negative, there is always a positive= and once you get FULLY reconvered, this will be one of the most happiest days of your life.
Believe me, I know exactly where you stand. This is a horrible illness and I pray for you to get better.
The first step to revovery is realising you have a problem, and WANTING to get better. I am so happy to hear you want to get out of this disease now. I wish you luck for the future.
You will be normal to the way you were before one day, I know it. x0x
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purpelelephant
replied on April 13th, 2009
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I've been suffering from binge disorders since I was a little girl and the treatment that worked for the longest was day care. I was actually treated for anorexia (among other things) there but I stopped binging for about a year! (I did keep vomiting though) a year later I was very under weight and missed my period for probably over half a year then (it wasn't the first time) when I decided to temporeraly gain weight.. Then of course my binges returned. I didn't go back to vomiting as much (only once in a while) but I did start using laxitives again. I don't think you can do it alone..
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passion4fasion
replied on April 13th, 2009
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oh...
Wow, how are you dealing with the Anorexia now? That sounds pretty tough? :S
How old were you when you first got the disease?
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purpelelephant
replied on April 14th, 2009
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My anorexia started developing when I was in the 7'th grade.. I was chubby from binging throughout my childhood and then I started losing weight but it wasn't till the end of that year when it really became an obsession.. the hardest anorexic years for me were from 13 to about 15. Then I was completely obsessed and my point of view was so narrow, that naturally it seemed like the most important thing in the world and I could'nt really focus on much else (like all anorexics in the most intense part of the desease). since my first significant weight gain (after the anorexia started) I stopped being as obsessed. It's like- I binge and gain 20 lbs and then have a binge free few months and lose them back or more but even during the times I lose weight (and sometimes miss my period again) I don't obsess about it as much as I did a few years ago.. like I matured or something =P (Sorry for rambling on so long It's just nice to have a place to talk about it!)
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passion4fasion
replied on April 14th, 2009
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<3
No problem!!! I understand, you NEED to talk about it. So right now would you say you would be at a healthy weight? What grade(how old) are you in now?
Did you ever get professional help to get better, or did you do it on your own? Does anyone in your family or any of your friends know about it?
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purpelelephant
replied on April 15th, 2009
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I am at a healthy weight right now. I am 5\9 and I weight about a 127 lbs. I have beeen seeing a therapist since the 5th' grade (I am now almost 17) and I've been to day care to treat the anorexia.. As I said it did help with the binges but not so much with the anorexia, mostly because I wasn't ready to give it up.. Pretty much all my issues have been out in the open since the 8'th grade, I'm trying not to be secretive about anything anymore.. No matter what I do it seems like my EDs won't go away but now I try to eat healthy and I don't vomit or take laxitives no matter what. Thanks for listening =)
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curlypinks
replied on April 15th, 2009
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same
i need help, and reading your story is quite motivating because it shows me that im not alone. i do realize i am in the same position as many others and only recently have i actually realized that i DO need to do something about it.
My hair used to be so strong and thick, its still as long as its always been, but its thinner than it has ever been. My hair really is my safety blanket. i love my hair, and as sad as it sounds, im trying to get better for the sake of my hair. i feel that if i have something to focus on then it will help me get back to normal.
i have been anorexic, bulimic for 2 years now and its only now that i really WANT to get better.
i have a friend who is similar to me, i dont know if she is also bulimic, but i know she definitely struggles with food. talking to her helps, but i havent told her about my bulimia - its embarrassing. But i need help, but i do want to try and help myself first, through self-help, before resorting to therapy.
Please advise.

and yes, sorry its so long! but as the previous blogger said, it is good to just type, talk, or write about it. It clears your mind.
=)
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purpelelephant
replied on April 15th, 2009
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Hey. Wanting to get better really is the most important step in my opinion. I don't think you should try to do it comletely on your own. You could go see a dietician to fix you up with a healthy menu, it doesn't even have to be a fatening one. You just need to not be the only superviser on yourself right now and I actually think therapy is a separate issue. It is only your choice to get better. Therapy might help you understand the reasons but it won't make you stop. I trust that when you've got so far you really can do it. Go see a dietician, find yourself someone to watch what you do, kind of an authority figure that is -not your desease- and try to find different motivations. try to look at healthy things as beautiful and aspire to that instead of bones and emptiness.. (I don't know your taste but I sure was attracted to bones..) If you need to talk to someone I would love to try to help and by the way I really get the hair thing.. It doesn't matter what your wake up call was as long as it happaned. Good luck!!!
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passion4fasion
replied on April 15th, 2009
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dear sweethearts
Yes, WANTING to get better and REALISING you have a problem is definitely the first step to HEALING! Congradulations Smile
And its true, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I am almost 16 now and have suffered from 1 yeasr of Anorexia. I have been healing for 1 and a half years now! Neutral
Wayyyyy too long. I wish I could have gotten all my weight back and been completely healed after 1 year!! But this disease is one of the toughest things to get rid of. Harder than quitting smoking, seriously.
You should DEFINITELY tell the people who are most close to you, or ones you love a lot about your ED. Then get professional help, as in tell someone proffesional about it.
Opening up to other people about having a disorder is one of the hardest things ever.... it IS really hard. But sooooo worth it, and if you really want to get better this is the best thing to do.
It is good you are noticing the problems you are developing from loosing weight or from the disorder in gerneral. And when you are getting better, think of all the benifits you will have once you arehealthy! andthe main one:
YOU CAN BE HEALTHY AND FREEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!! Very Happy
I wish you two all the best <3
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purpelelephant
replied on April 20th, 2009
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It's really embarrassing each time I write here but I really want some support.. My binges are much better then they were a few months ago but I can't get rid of them completely.. I am finally going to see a dietician again for the first time in 2 years to get counseling about trying to get my digestion system better.. In order for my phisical problems to get better I know I have to stop binging completely and try to stay at a stable weight but I am getting no help at home so hopefully when my mom will hear what the dietician has to say she won't sabotage my afforts as much.. She is completely aware of all my conditions and my therapist I and talked to her many times but she still wouldn't help me stop binging (she said it's better then starving myself and just wouldn't accept it as a problem on it's own)anyway I keep trying..
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passion4fasion
replied on April 20th, 2009
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mhm...
Luckly your not purging though! (are you?)
How old are you (purpleelephant?)?

I am glad to here you had the courgae to consult a dietition about this! Good for you! Smile

Let me know how things go. NO need to feel shy. This is a place where you can talk about your true feelings and not get hurt and you can trust me... I hope. lol
Smile

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purpelelephant
replied on April 21st, 2009
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Thank you =) you are really sweet.. I'll be 17 in August.. and no I havn't been purging for the past few months already, which did help my binges some but not enough.. I've done so much damage already in the past 4 years that every little thing has a pretty big affect on my body but my mind is really in the right place now and I hope the dietician will help..
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passion4fasion
replied on April 21st, 2009
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aww
Oh that is great to here your mind is in the right place!!! It always seems that way, but you can never be toooooo certain until your binge/pruge and weight is all completely normal and healthy.
I thought the SAME. One year ago I thought my head was in the right place, and until it really was, it was a whole year later!
But oh well, everyone is different with their recovery, and the longer you have it, the harder and longer it is to get rid of. :/
It sucks...
I hope all goes well for you, really! =)
x00x
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purpelelephant
replied on April 22nd, 2009
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Well.. When I say my mind is in the right place I mean that I really do wat to be healthy and I don't think the same as I used and I don't have the same goals and goal weights.. I'll brobably never be entirely eating disorder free because I don't even know what it's like to not have any eating disorder but I hope in time I will be able to maintain healthy eating habbits.. what would you say is your condition today?
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passion4fasion
replied on April 22nd, 2009
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I could not picture myself being a healthy weight, or looking like the others when I was sick too. I forgot how it felt to be 'normal', too.
YOu must get out of this disorder as fast as you can!!! The longer you have it, the LONGER it takes to get rid of. Really get your body and mind to a full recovery, it is soooo worth it.
And you will also not have to worry about a relapse.
I wish you realise this is the best thing for you atm,
Good luck, x0x
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purpelelephant
replied on April 23rd, 2009
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Good luck to you too! =)
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