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a Challenge Posted: 07-19-07 06:55am
will you take my challenge?
This Challenge is for those in a
relationship but are not married... people
in a marriage can do this, but for the
sake of the marriage I would refrain.
Warning, this may cause your relationship
to break down.
I challenge all who profess to be in a
loving relationship and are not married to
abstain from sexual activity with each
other for 6 months. To gage their own
feelings and review how your "partner"
sees you. Tell your partner that you do
not want sexual relations until you are
married, that you hope he/she respects
your wishes (see how many times they make
sexual advances disrespecting your wishes
and reducing you to "sex toy" standards-
allow for 2 -3 weeks to make sure they
know you are serious...any advances after
that period you should if you are serious
about this extend the time frame from 6
months to 1 week extra for each advance. (
you must not let them know you are testing
yourself or them or that the period is
only 6 months) if you advance the time
frame past 8 months ask yourself is the
relationship worth persuing
I promise you will learn some vital
information about yourself and your
partner and the relationship.
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*star*
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Posted: 07-19-07 07:00am
Umm...This has nothing to do with
abortion!!!
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Gu£st
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Posted: 07-19-07 08:13am
*star* merely fails to percieve the
corrolation
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Posted: 07-19-07 09:27am
I'm allowing this to remain because I can
see what Gu£st is driving at and I would
like to allow people to respond
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 07-19-07 09:39am
I think suggesting this to one's partner,
particulalry after already having
previously engaged in sexual relations
sends the wrong message, and the other
person will resent and/or misconstrue your
intentions. "Does he/she no longer love
me? Is he/she doing things with someone
else? Why wouldn't heshe want me anymore"
etc. It would be different, I think if
you had never had sex with that person.
But to suddenly cut someone off is cruel.
Personally, I like sex and would not want
to abstain for any length of time unless
for medical reasons. I don't think there
is anything wrong with enjoying sex. I
believe premarital sex is actually good
for people. I believe it can help you
learn whether or not you and your partner
are sexually compatible. I think this is
important for a healthy long-term
relationship.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-19-07 10:07am
me and my boyfriend were together for
almost 2 years before we ever had sex, so
no thanks my relationship is fine.
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Birch
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Re: a Challenge Posted: 07-19-07 10:52am
Gu£st
wrote:
will you take my challenge?
This Challenge is for those in a
relationship but are not married... people
in a marriage can do this, but for the
sake of the marriage I would refrain.
Warning, this may cause your relationship
to break down.
I challenge all who profess to be in a
loving relationship and are not married to
abstain from sexual activity with each
other for 6 months. To gage their own
feelings and review how your "partner"
sees you. Tell your partner that you do
not want sexual relations until you are
married, that you hope he/she respects
your wishes (see how many times they make
sexual advances disrespecting your wishes
and reducing you to "sex toy" standards-
allow for 2 -3 weeks to make sure they
know you are serious...any advances after
that period you should if you are serious
about this extend the time frame from 6
months to 1 week extra for each advance. (
you must not let them know you are testing
yourself or them or that the period is
only 6 months) if you advance the time
frame past 8 months ask yourself is the
relationship worth persuing
I promise you will learn some vital
information about yourself and your
partner and the
relationship.
You have a very, well, for lack of a
better word, interesting view on people.
I do not bargain with my body, nor with my
partner's needs. It seems like you would
wish me to.
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Birch
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Posted: 07-19-07 10:56am
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
me and my boyfriend were
together for almost 2 years before we ever
had sex, so no thanks my relationship is
fine.
My boyfriend and I had sex on our first
date four and a half years ago! And it's
smooth sailing.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:05am
Birch
wrote:
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
me and my boyfriend were
together for almost 2 years before we ever
had sex, so no thanks my relationship is
fine.
My boyfriend and I had sex on our first
date four and a half years ago! And it's
smooth
sailing.
haha sounds like a fun first date
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:14am
I stopped having sex somewhere in my 8th
month of pregnancy. After giving birth, my
sex drive didn't return for months. It's
still not completely back.
6 months? Sure, no problem. We did that.
My husband still loves me. We've been
together long enough that sex is not what
drives our relationship. But it is a
vital part of a relationship. It really
bothered me that I wasn't able to show my
husband physically how I felt for him
emotionally. I would question any
relationship where sex meant nothing to
one or both.
We also waited a full year before first
having sex, and he had no problem with
that either. He absolutely respected my
wishes. Did we wait for marriage? No. We
waited for the right time for us.
And it worked perfectly. We're now married
with a baby girl, and very happy.
Premarital sex didn't kill our
relationship, nor did using reliable birth
control methods.
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Birch
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:21am
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
Birch
wrote:
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
me and my boyfriend were
together for almost 2 years before we ever
had sex, so no thanks my relationship is
fine.
My boyfriend and I had sex on our first
date four and a half years ago! And it's
smooth
sailing.
haha sounds like a fun first date
We knew each other for months before that,
I guess I should say that, too. It was
inevitable.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:25am
my dh and I had sex very early in our
relationship. We lived together (in sin,
no less) and finally married. We used
contraception until we chose to bring a
child into our lives. Afterward, we used
contraceptioin until we chose to have a
second child. We then decided we did not
want more children, so I had a tubal
ligation. We have been married now for 13
years (in september!) and have been
together since the day before I turned 17.
We are still madly in love, have a very
exciting sex life, based on trust and
love. My husband has never treated me
like a sexual object or toy. He treats me
like a goddess, and I treat him
respectfully right back. It is about open
and honest communication, not abstinence.
If you cannot communicate effectively with
your partner, no amount of abstinence will
make the relationship more "pure" or
whatever you are getting at. I also had
two periods of abstinence in our
relationship, leading up to and following
childbirth, as well as a period of time
when my birth control caused me to be very
irregular and have long periods of time
when I was unable to satisfy my needs as
well as my husband's. These periods of
time were frustrating for both of us, and
required us to communicate well with each
other. The periods of abstinence had
nothing to do with relationship building.
they were, in fact difficult times to deal
with. Sex is a natural human need.
"Anyone who tells you differently is
selling something."
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Birch
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:34am
sillyakchick
wrote:
my dh and I had sex very
early in our relationship. We lived
together (in sin, no less) and finally
married. We used contraception until we
chose to bring a child into our lives.
Afterward, we used contraceptioin until we
chose to have a second child. We then
decided we did not want more children, so
I had a tubal ligation. We have been
married now for 13 years (in september!)
and have been together since the day
before I turned 17. We are still madly in
love, have a very exciting sex life, based
on trust and love. My husband has never
treated me like a sexual object or toy.
He treats me like a goddess, and I treat
him respectfully right back. It is about
open and honest communication, not
abstinence. If you cannot communicate
effectively with your partner, no amount
of abstinence will make the relationship
more "pure" or whatever you are getting
at. I also had two periods of abstinence
in our relationship, leading up to and
following childbirth, as well as a period
of time when my birth control caused me to
be very irregular and have long periods of
time when I was unable to satisfy my needs
as well as my husband's. These periods of
time were frustrating for both of us, and
required us to communicate well with each
other. The periods of abstinence had
nothing to do with relationship building.
they were, in fact difficult times to deal
with. Sex is a natural human need.
"Anyone who tells you differently is
selling
something."
Well, you are so goddanged
immoral, sillyakchick! Having sex before
marriage! Using birth control!! And how
dare you insinuate that communication is
more effective than abstinence! You are
GOING TO HELL!!!!
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:38am
At least I will be in good company!
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:43am
Birch
wrote:
sillyakchick
wrote:
my dh and I had sex very
early in our relationship. We lived
together (in sin, no less) and finally
married. We used contraception until we
chose to bring a child into our lives.
Afterward, we used contraceptioin until we
chose to have a second child. We then
decided we did not want more children, so
I had a tubal ligation. We have been
married now for 13 years (in september!)
and have been together since the day
before I turned 17. We are still madly in
love, have a very exciting sex life, based
on trust and love. My husband has never
treated me like a sexual object or toy.
He treats me like a goddess, and I treat
him respectfully right back. It is about
open and honest communication, not
abstinence. If you cannot communicate
effectively with your partner, no amount
of abstinence will make the relationship
more "pure" or whatever you are getting
at. I also had two periods of abstinence
in our relationship, leading up to and
following childbirth, as well as a period
of time when my birth control caused me to
be very irregular and have long periods of
time when I was unable to satisfy my needs
as well as my husband's. These periods of
time were frustrating for both of us, and
required us to communicate well with each
other. The periods of abstinence had
nothing to do with relationship building.
they were, in fact difficult times to deal
with. Sex is a natural human need.
"Anyone who tells you differently is
selling
something."
Well, you are so goddanged
immoral, sillyakchick! Having sex before
marriage! Using birth control!! And how
dare you insinuate that communication is
more effective than abstinence! You are
GOING TO HELL!!!!
lol
yall crack me up
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Gu£st
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:46am
Sex before marriage is not an absolute
percurser to a doomed marriage but
statistically the percentage is a lot
higher
"I think suggesting this to one's partner,
particulalry after already having
previously engaged in sexual relations
sends the wrong message, and the other
person will resent and/or misconstrue your
intentions. "Does he/she no longer love
me? Is he/she doing things with someone
else? Why wouldn't heshe want me anymore"
etc. It would be different, I think if you
had never had sex with that person. But to
suddenly cut someone off is cruel.
Personally, I like sex and would not want
to abstain for any length of time unless
for medical reasons. I don't think there
is anything wrong with enjoying sex. I
believe premarital sex is actually good
for people. I believe it can help you
learn whether or not you and your partner
are sexually compatible. I think this is
important for a healthy long-term
relationship."
Of course you can simply say you hope
abstance makes the heart grow fonder.
Reassure your "partner" that you feel you
are ready to commit to the relationship
but would like to see the relationship
from another angle before commiting to
marriage.
Sex shouldnt make any difference to a
healthy loving commited relationship. If
one of the two parties were suddenly to
lose the ability to have intercourse a
healthly loving and commited relationship
would not suffer and should actually grow
stronger.
I know a couple who married the man was
from the age of seven a parapligic and
could not engage in the sexual act, the
marrige was based on love and commitment,
it was healthy and the sex was unimportant
to them.
"me and my boyfriend were together for
almost 2 years before we ever had sex, so
no thanks my relationship is fine."
Much respect regarding the abstanance for
two years. However you have failed to take
the extra step in terms of commitment of
taking a vow to your boyfriend, this
suggest either their is something wrong
within the relationship...with.either you,
your boyfriend or both of you.
You have a very, well, for lack of a
better word, interesting view on people.
An altogether intersting view of the
world, the universe and God might I add.
"I do not bargain with my body, nor with
my partner's needs. It seems like you
would wish me to. "
It is certainly not a bargin its a
purification process aimed at
clarification of where you stand in
regards to yourself and your "partner"
within the relationship, Sex clouds the
reality that a relationship is often in.
often a Child results from such sexual
relationships, faced with the harsh light
of day at worst often such relationships
end in abortion, sometimes not quite as
bad but still devestating the relationship
breaks down often leaving the woman as a
single parent and the child without a male
role model. It often leads to depression
and sometimes even suicide for the mother.
it also leads to a feeling of anger in the
child and quite often leads to violent
crime by the youngster....why? Simply
because a man and a woman believed they
were in a health loving commited
relationship because the relationship was
based on intercourse instead of love.
"My boyfriend and I had sex on our first
date four and a half years ago!"
and he respects you...... really????????do
you think so...try the challenge
you may be suprised
"And it's smooth sailing."
until you get pregnant, have money woes,
he falls for another woman, the sex looses
its appeal and you fall for another man...
4.5 years ago is nothing see what its like
in 15 - 20 years..
I wasnt expecting a positive response to
this challenge because I dont think any of
you (apart from HcoBrunette06 perhaps)
have the ability the self disciple will
power to abstain from sex. I Believe your
all too weak. I believe you are quite
enslaved by it and perhaps through your
enslavement to it you are blinded to the
fact your also maybe enslaved by a
unloving relationship
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:49am
Did you read my post at all, guest?
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-19-07 11:51am
Gu£st
wrote:
Sex before marriage is not
an absolute percurser to a doomed marriage
but statistically the percentage is a lot
higher
"I think suggesting this to one's partner,
particulalry after already having
previously engaged in sexual relations
sends the wrong message, and the other
person will resent and/or misconstrue your
intentions. "Does he/she no longer love
me? Is he/she doing things with someone
else? Why wouldn't heshe want me anymore"
etc. It would be different, I think if you
had never had sex with that person. But to
suddenly cut someone off is cruel.
Personally, I like sex and would not want
to abstain for any length of time unless
for medical reasons. I don't think there
is anything wrong with enjoying sex. I
believe premarital sex is actually good
for people. I believe it can help you
learn whether or not you and your partner
are sexually compatible. I think this is
important for a healthy long-term
relationship."
Of course you can simply say you hope
abstance makes the heart grow fonder.
Reassure your "partner" that you feel you
are ready to commit to the relationship
but would like to see the relationship
from another angle before commiting to
marriage.
Sex shouldnt make any difference to a
healthy loving commited relationship. If
one of the two parties were suddenly to
lose the ability to have intercourse a
healthly loving and commited relationship
would not suffer and should actually grow
stronger.
I know a couple who married the man was
from the age of seven a parapligic and
could not engage in the sexual act, the
marrige was based on love and commitment,
it was healthy and the sex was unimportant
to them.
"me and my boyfriend were together for
almost 2 years before we ever had sex, so
no thanks my relationship is fine."
Much respect regarding the abstanance for
two years. However you have failed to take
the extra step in terms of commitment of
taking a vow to your boyfriend, this
suggest either their is something wrong
within the relationship...with.either you,
your boyfriend or both of you.
You have a very, well, for lack of a
better word, interesting view on people.
An altogether intersting view of the
world, the universe and God might I add.
"I do not bargain with my body, nor with
my partner's needs. It seems like you
would wish me to. "
It is certainly not a bargin its a
purification process aimed at
clarification of where you stand in
regards to yourself and your "partner"
within the relationship, Sex clouds the
reality that a relationship is often in.
often a Child results from such sexual
relationships, faced with the harsh light
of day at worst often such relationships
end in abortion, sometimes not quite as
bad but still devestating the relationship
breaks down often leaving the woman as a
single parent and the child without a male
role model. It often leads to depression
and sometimes even suicide for the mother.
it also leads to a feeling of anger in the
child and quite often leads to violent
crime by the youngster....why? Simply
because a man and a woman believed they
were in a health loving commited
relationship because the relationship was
based on intercourse instead of love.
"My boyfriend and I had sex on our first
date four and a half years ago!"
and he respects you...... really????????do
you think so...try the challenge
you may be suprised
"And it's smooth sailing."
until you get pregnant, have money woes,
he falls for another woman, the sex looses
its appeal and you fall for another man...
4.5 years ago is nothing see what its like
in 15 - 20 years..
I wasnt expecting a positive response to
this challenge because I dont think any of
you (apart from HcoBrunette06 perhaps)
have the ability the self disciple will
power to abstain from sex. I Believe your
all too weak. I believe you are quite
enslaved by it and perhaps through your
enslavement to it you are blinded to the
fact your also maybe enslaved by a
unloving
relationship
or MAYBE...we just like sex?!
what does getting pregnant have to do with
any of this by the way?
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Posted: 07-19-07 12:02pm
Birch
wrote:
sillyakchick
wrote:
my dh and I had sex very
early in our relationship. We lived
together (in sin, no less) and finally
married. We used contraception until we
chose to bring a child into our lives.
Afterward, we used contraceptioin until we
chose to have a second child. We then
decided we did not want more children, so
I had a tubal ligation. We have been
married now for 13 years (in september!)
and have been together since the day
before I turned 17. We are still madly in
love, have a very exciting sex life, based
on trust and love. My husband has never
treated me like a sexual object or toy.
He treats me like a goddess, and I treat
him respectfully right back. It is about
open and honest communication, not
abstinence. If you cannot communicate
effectively with your partner, no amount
of abstinence will make the relationship
more "pure" or whatever you are getting
at. I also had two periods of abstinence
in our relationship, leading up to and
following childbirth, as well as a period
of time when my birth control caused me to
be very irregular and have long periods of
time when I was unable to satisfy my needs
as well as my husband's. These periods of
time were frustrating for both of us, and
required us to communicate well with each
other. The periods of abstinence had
nothing to do with relationship building.
they were, in fact difficult times to deal
with. Sex is a natural human need.
"Anyone who tells you differently is
selling
something."
Well, you are so goddanged
immoral, sillyakchick! Having sex before
marriage! Using birth control!! And how
dare you insinuate that communication is
more effective than abstinence! You are
GOING TO HELL!!!!
now now,, lets leave God out of it.. we
are animals and we are supose to mate,
forget about the talking..
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 07-19-07 12:16pm
Gu£st
wrote:
Sex before marriage is not
an absolute percurser to a doomed marriage
but statistically the percentage is a lot
higher
Statistics do not equal causation. Have
you done any research looking at
multifactorial reasoning behind divorce
rate? Did you know, for example, that the
divorce rate for children from divorced
parents is much much higher? Should those
peolpe not marry because of it?
"I think suggesting this to one's partner,
particulalry after already having
previously engaged in sexual relations
sends the wrong message, and the other
person will resent and/or misconstrue your
intentions. "Does he/she no longer love
me? Is he/she doing things with someone
else? Why wouldn't heshe want me anymore"
etc. It would be different, I think if you
had never had sex with that person. But to
suddenly cut someone off is cruel.
Personally, I like sex and would not want
to abstain for any length of time unless
for medical reasons. I don't think there
is anything wrong with enjoying sex. I
believe premarital sex is actually good
for people. I believe it can help you
learn whether or not you and your partner
are sexually compatible. I think this is
important for a healthy long-term
relationship."
Gu£st
wrote:
Of course you can simply say
you hope abstance makes the heart grow
fonder. Reassure your "partner" that you
feel you are ready to commit to the
relationship but would like to see the
relationship from another angle before
commiting to
marriage.
Do you mean absence or abstinence? My dh
and I actually did take a three month
sabbatical from one another prior to
marriage. We each moved into our own
place. It was so awful being apart from
one another that we only abstained from
intercourse for about 1 1/2 months of that
time. Am I suddenly more "pure"?
Gu£st
wrote:
Sex shouldnt make any
difference to a healthy loving commited
relationship.
Exactly my point
Gu£st
wrote:
I know a couple who married
the man was from the age of seven a
parapligic and could not engage in the
sexual act, the marrige was based on love
and commitment, it was healthy and the sex
was unimportant to them.
Of course, there are always underlying
circumstances. I bet you if he could have
made love to his wife, he would have.
Gu£st
wrote:
Much respect regarding the
abstanance for two years. However you have
failed to take the extra step in terms of
commitment of taking a vow to your
boyfriend, this suggest either their is
something wrong within the
relationship...with.either you, your
boyfriend or both of you.
This is assinine, judgemental, and smacks
of a superiority complex. How could you
possibly understand the intricate inner
workings of the relationship of someone
you don't even know? To indicate that
there is something somehow wrong with her
relationship must give you a great feeling
of superiority.
Gu£st
wrote:
An altogether intersting
view of the world, the universe and God
might I add.
Agreed
Gu£st
wrote:
It is certainly not a bargin
its a purification process aimed at
clarification of where you stand in
regards to yourself and your "partner"
within the relationship, Sex clouds the
reality that a relationship is often in.
often a Child results from such sexual
relationships, faced with the harsh light
of day at worst often such relationships
end in abortion, sometimes not quite as
bad but still devestating the relationship
breaks down often leaving the woman as a
single parent and the child without a male
role model. It often leads to depression
and sometimes even suicide for the mother.
it also leads to a feeling of anger in the
child and quite often leads to violent
crime by the youngster....why? Simply
because a man and a woman believed they
were in a health loving commited
relationship because the relationship was
based on intercourse instead of love.
Children result from unprotected sex.
Thus, if one uses birth control
appropriately, such disatrous results
might be averted. Even people in a
marriage can have this type of situatioin
occur. Abstinence has nothing to do with
this.
Gu£st
wrote:
and he respects you......
really????????do you think so...try the
challenge
you may be
suprised
Clearly you do not have adequate respect
for others. I gues it's a good thing that
you are not Birch's partner
Gu£st
wrote:
until you get pregnant, have
money woes, he falls for another woman,
the sex looses its appeal and you fall for
another man...
She could get pregnant with or without
marriage. It does not mean she would
proceed and have a child. Why would sex
lose it's appeal? Plenty of marired
couples who have never had sex with
anyone else stray because of curiosity,
since they had never been with anyone else
ina sexual relationship.
Gu£st
wrote:
4.5 years ago is nothing see
what its like in 15 - 20 years..
How about 17 years? Is that a good enough
test for you??
Gu£st
wrote:
I wasnt expecting a positive
response to this challenge because I dont
think any of you (apart from HcoBrunette06
perhaps) have the ability the self
disciple will power to abstain from sex. I
Believe your all too weak. I believe you
are quite enslaved by it and perhaps
through your enslavement to it you are
blinded to the fact your also maybe
enslaved by a unloving
relationship
That's very interesting that you wouold
say that about her, in light of the fact
that you were dogging her earlier about
the failed nature of her relationship.
Just because you are abstinent does not
mean that you are any better than anyone
else. I have the ability not to drink
alcohol. I choose to do so. I have the
ability to drive 100 miles per hour on the
freeway. I choose not to. I have the
ability to eat meat. I choose not to. I
have the ability to abstain forom sex. I
choose not to. I will inform my husband
of how unloving he is because he wants to
have sex with me and see just how far that
gets us. I will let him know how
"enslaved" I am by our relationship and
then what happens? I can tell you that he
would be hurt, angry, and confused, as
would anyone by this ridiculous
"challenge".
I think you are way off base here and
posted this in order to get a rise out of
people and allow yourself to sumgly
continue to insult people who you believe
you are "holier than" because you do not
engage in sex. I will refrain from
posting the rest of my thoughts, as they
are quite inflammatory and go against
eHealth's guidelines for use.