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Chillout2
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Fairy Godmother
Supporter
Hey sweetie, my husband has been asking
for YEARS...yep we tried it the once
...well maybe twice, as well but my poor
old butt says EXIT ONLY.....Guess i really
am an old tight ass. I've had major
medical problems in that area so anal is
off limits......tell him ot find a toy
shop and get him a new toy...........
There are so many other things and ways to
enjoy sex...Oh, ask Eiri....she is so
witty and knows about sex stuff. You could
probably PM her! Tell her Fairy*Godmother
sent you! 
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
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Chillout2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
| Fairy*Godmother wrote: |
| Hey sweetie, my husband has
been asking for YEARS...yep we tried it
the once ...well maybe twice, as well but
my poor old butt says EXIT ONLY.....Guess
i really am an old tight ass. I've had
major medical problems in that area so
anal is off limits......tell him ot find a
toy shop and get him a new toy...........
There are so many other things and ways to
enjoy sex...Oh, ask Eiri....she is so
witty and knows about sex stuff. You could
probably PM her! Tell her Fairy*Godmother
sent you! |
Lol ok will do. Were your medical problems caused from trying it or is it a whole other situation. I hurd anal makes it more likely to get cancer their?
could be wrong
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Yes, it's normal for people to be
interested in anal sex. There's no reason
it wouldn't be normal! 
However, if you're not willing and comfortable with the idea, you are certainly not obligated, and he should not force you into it.
Anal sex is something that requires patience, communication, and a good deal of lubrication.
However, if you're not willing and comfortable with the idea, you are certainly not obligated, and he should not force you into it.
Anal sex is something that requires patience, communication, and a good deal of lubrication.
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Chillout2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
| victoria16 wrote: | ||
Lol ok will do. Were your medical problems caused from trying it or is it a whole other situation. I hurd anal makes it more likely to get cancer their? could be wrong |
Of course not! There's no proof it causes cancer... that's as silly to my mind as saying vaginal sex causes cancer! But there are tons of rumors out there so I'm not surprised... By the way Fairy*, thanks for the recommendation, it made me chuckle ^^
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Chillout2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
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Tylanas
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Chillout2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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young Girl
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
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Chillout2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
I guess...
Maybe its even best to let him do it atleast once. The first time we tried it maybe when in an inch, but it hurt so badly I broke down and started crying.
But....
I wasnt relaxed, and the only lube used was from the condom
Maybe its even best to let him do it atleast once. The first time we tried it maybe when in an inch, but it hurt so badly I broke down and started crying.
But....
I wasnt relaxed, and the only lube used was from the condom
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
| victoria16 wrote: |
| I guess...
Maybe its even best to let him do it atleast once. The first time we tried it maybe when in an inch, but it hurt so badly I broke down and started crying.
But....
I wasnt relaxed, and the only lube used was from the condom |
ooh yeah go buy some lube and take it slow like everyone else said
and if it hurts too bad then tell him to stop
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Chillout2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
| the_girlfreind wrote: | ||
ooh yeah go buy some lube and take it slow like everyone else said and if it hurts too bad then tell him to stop |
Any roccomendations for lube? We never actually went and bought any, is thier different types?
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
| victoria16 wrote: | ||||
Any roccomendations for lube? We never actually went and bought any, is thier different types? |
i get mine from a store called spencers in the mall. you may or may not have one where you live but they have lots of different kinds!!! they also sell lube at normal grocery stores and drug stores...there are lots of types.
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Chillout2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
| the_girlfreind wrote: | ||||||
i get mine from a store called spencers in the mall. you may or may not have one where you live but they have lots of different kinds!!! they also sell lube at normal grocery stores and drug stores...there are lots of types. |
Whats it called? Because we have a spencers also (funny store).
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
| victoria16 wrote: | ||||
Any roccomendations for lube? We never actually went and bought any, is thier different types? |
You definitely didn't have enough lube!!!
KY Jelly
Best brand out
there. I think Wal-Mart has it lol.
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