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Just a quick question- not really a problem, but just curious....
I am 35 years old and feel I have a high sex drive. My wife says it is unusually high. I want sex (badly) everyday and sometimes more. I am constantly groping her and teasing her. It has always been normal for me, but I am constantly horny. Anyone else?

Meant to say- is this normal? Not anyone else.... Embarassed
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replied July 18th, 2007
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my drive is higher than my wife's as well. On average, I'd like to have sex 3 or 4 times a week. She's good with once a week. She's pretty good about satisfying me (hand and/or oral) without getting anything in return. You need to talk to her about it.
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replied July 18th, 2007
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I Have.....
I have been honest about it with her. She (since the third child) has pretty much lost all interest in sex. It's been 2 years since the baby but it has not come back. She cares about the issue, it's just that she lacks the drive to do anything about it. I'm happy in my marriage but, of course, would like more sex. I know I'm not alone on this one but being constantly horny gets frustrating.
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replied July 18th, 2007
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There are things she can do about her loss of sex drive. She could go talk to her doctor.
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replied July 18th, 2007
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its a touchy subject. Sometimes my wife says "thats all you think about!" can't really tell if she's joking or if she is getting annoyed.

Slip some horny goat weed into her drink. ha ha.
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replied July 18th, 2007
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wow i wish my bf was that way! my sex drive is much higher than his is. i get it on average twice a week.. which is okay, but i'd love it more.
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replied July 18th, 2007
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Her self esteem is down a bit, so that has alot to do with it too. I constantly compliment her and show her I think she's beautiful, but its her view of herself that kills it. When she's active (exercising) she feels better and has more confidence. She stopped (for some reason) and now she feels like crap again. I encourage her but I can't force her to do it.
I was just wondering if being horny ALL the time is normal for a man my age.
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replied July 18th, 2007
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"I was just wondering if being horny ALL the time is normal for a man my age. "

Well I'm 42 and I am as horny as I was at 18.
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replied July 25th, 2007
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hiya. one person said lots of communication. i do. but when you CONSTANTLY want to ask for something every time you are alone with your wife...i've about stopped asking.

and i do not want to use pornography, but my private bath time is not easy. i'd rather have some help!

what do i do?
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replied July 29th, 2007
I wish my boy had more of a sex drive, I'm constantly horny cept for lately cause I was depressed for a bit but normally I'm all over him. Always being a tease and a goof or finding some way to try to get his attention towards it. We about a month ago had sex every night, lately its been about once a week if that.
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replied July 25th, 2009
haha, I'm 14 and my sex drive is REALLY high...higher than my b/f's. Me and my boyfriend have it atleast 3 times a week, which is okay, but i just want it ALOT more. I'm constantly horny. But yeah, I think it's normal to be horny and want to have sex at your age (:
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replied July 26th, 2009
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Yes you're normal. You can only have the sex drive that your libido supports. The issue is that you and your wife have very different needs right now. It's not ok to ignore this. You need to tell her that yes you are always thinking about sex because its something that used to work in the marriage and now its something you you feel is a barrier between you both. Tell her that you love and support her and will do anything she needs to help get the sex working again.
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replied February 2nd, 2010
my wife and i have sex once a day twice on fri and sat. we've been together since we were 14, we are currently both 23 married for 3 years 2 kids and plenty of stress over bills and paying for daycare (800/month) and college.... we have always had a great sexual relationship.. buttt i still want more.. if it were up to me i would have sex 2-3 times a day
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replied February 8th, 2010
I am recently 50 and have been told that we have too much sex!!! I never heard of such a thing. It was a week after my birthday before I got any. We have been together now for 8 years and only in the last few have I noticed a fleeing sex drive. We used to go naked bass fishing on the lake, Now she won't even let me see her naked!! She is a beautiful woman in many ways so I find it hard to see her every day and can't touch her, she just want's to be left alone, I am not a cheeter and I still have a sex drive. Any sugggestions.
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replied June 28th, 2010
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sex is something u should have 2-3 times a week it tires some ppl out so yeah take it slowly
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replied July 1st, 2010
your a sex addict, and your wife will divorce you eventually because of it. It has nothing to do with your sex drive, but with your addiction and compulsion, lemme guess you watch porn or jerk it outside of your loving intimacy with your wife?
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replied July 2nd, 2010
Hello,
I think you need to control
because your this attitude is too harmful for your wife
ok use sex toys it's good way to control your sex drive
Thanks
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replied March 15th, 2012
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You know,...I can appreciate where you are coming from, my hubby is just like you. For me it has nothing to do with self esteem, it has everything to do with feeling his sexdrive is just another chore that needs doing. I feel like I am never allowed for ME to want him,...I don't get the chance cause he wants sex all the time. If he backed off and let me come to him, that would be nice.
I also miss just being cuddly and caressing w/o sex,...I've stopped that bc he saw that as an invitation.
Listen, I am totally fine with him wanking, but I can't stand the pressure in the bedroom. It's annoying. Yes, I am starting to feel frustrated about it. Been married for 13 years and we have a great life together. We both feel that way...But let us come to you guys!
Remember - Women need love to wanna have sex and men need sex in order to feel love. It is a evil cycle!!
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replied March 30th, 2012
my boyfriend is like this, always trying to get me alone-!
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replied May 27th, 2012
have a big sex drive I need it about 4 to 5 a week I'm used to doing it 2 to 3 a day it's not how it use to be after we had the baby what should I do
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