well, it's really a choice you have to make.
personally, i'd go with the pills for the same reason i went with my d&c. my baby had died 5 weeks prior and i'd had no idea, how much longer would it be before mother nature took over? i couldn't stand not knowing and just waiting for things to happen, so i had the d&c.
i know you want this over with so maybe you should go with the pills.
i'm sorry you're having complications.