|tell them your in the middle of a divorce
its ok to start dateing when you are ready!!!!! if its done then its done!!!
|Hey man, congrats on getting your divorced worked out. I remember when you weren't sure and were working it out. Glad you have made a decision and you seem very happy!
As far as dating, I think as long as you are honest about your situation to all parties involved that is the best thing. It doesn't make sense to wait to date, unless you are not over your ex and this is a...oh, what's it called...a 'bounce back' relationship...what are they called...you know what I mean.