I am a single 35 year old, I need some
advice, so here it goes: I ran into an
old friend who ended up marrying my ex
boyfriend. we had dated for two years,
she married him after college and now they
are married! Well he decided to look me
up and give me a call. He was honest
about his marriage to her, but then said
he ws in love with me and had always been
in love with me and that his marriage was
a mistake. I have never been in this type
of a situation, I have been avoiding him,
we decided that we would just be friends,
well the other night one thing lead to
another and I felt horrible and just do
not know what to do!!!!!!!!! He is
telling me that he will leave her, but I
really have my doubts and I really am not
sure how I feel about him, any advice?
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DPantelones
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Posted: 07-17-07 17:04pm
Run from this guy now, or you'll regret it
for the rest of your life! My impression
is he'caca a bad spot in his marriage,
reached out to you and you fell for it.
Not saying your stupid or anything, just
in the wrong place @ the wrong time, and
his lines worked.
You may as well admit what you did to your
friend too. Clean slate, start over and
stay away from lowlifes like this guy. My
2 cents.
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Posted: 07-18-07 17:50pm
DPantelones
wrote:
Run from this guy now, or
you'll regret it for the rest of your
life! My impression is he hit a bad spot
in his marriage, reached out to you and
you fell for it. Not saying your stupid
or anything, just in the wrong place @ the
wrong time, and his lines worked.
You may as well admit what you did to your
friend too. Clean slate, start over and
stay away from lowlifes like this guy. My
2 cents.
i agree
stay away from him
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Fairy Godmother
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I Agree Posted: 07-18-07 18:09pm
I agreee with the_Girlfriend and the
others...................run like hell.
You may think emotionally that this guy is
head over heels for you,but I serioulsly
doubt it. If this is true and you do have
feelings for him, tell him to get all his
eggs in a basket, divorce his wife and
then he can persue you as his
happiness..........otherwise, he's using
you....plain and simple. Until he divorces
and shows a little respect towards
you....you both are playing with FIRE!
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DPantelones
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Re: I Agree Posted: 07-18-07 18:11pm
Fairy*Godmother
wrote:
I agreee with the_Girlfriend
and the
others...................
Hey now, how did I get to be known as "The
Others"??? I'm a Lost fan but this is
getting ridiculous! LOL I'm kidding
naturally!!!! Having some fun!
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Fairy Godmother
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Sorry Guy Posted: 07-18-07 20:53pm
DPAntalones............showin you some
love.......sorry dude, I jsut got carried
away! You are more than the
"others"...forgive me? Kiss kiss
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Thanks!!!!!!!! Posted: 07-19-07 10:18am
Thank you all for your time and advice, I
have put an end to that saga, I have told
him to leave me alone and get a life and
be a real man in life!
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Men Have One Thing On Their Minds Posted: 07-19-07 10:31am
Every day you spend wanting to be with
this man is one day lost to you forever.
He loves to have someone new for sex but
trust me on this one. He will never leave
him wife. They never do. He will feed
you the lines he has to make you believe
him enough to sleep with him.
Down the road you will find yourself
abandoned. I know. I have been there.
It is not a pretty picture. As they say,
breaking up is hard to do.
If you are smart, you will get out before
you get in too deep.
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DPantelones
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Re: Sorry Guy Posted: 07-20-07 23:53pm
Fairy*Godmother
wrote:
DPAntalones............showi
n you some love.......sorry dude, I jsut
got carried away! You are more than the
"others"...forgive me? Kiss
kiss
I forgive you....but if you keep up with
the "kiss kiss" i'ma gonna have to hit on
you.....I'm just being honest!!!!!!!!!!!
lol
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Re: Sorry Guy Posted: 07-20-07 23:54pm
DPantelones
wrote:
Fairy*Godmother
wrote:
DPAntalones............showi
n you some love.......sorry dude, I jsut
got carried away! You are more than the
"others"...forgive me? Kiss
kiss
I forgive you....but if you keep up with
the "kiss kiss" i'ma gonna have to hit on
you.....I'm just being honest!!!!!!!!!!!
lol
its better to be honest lol!
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miss optimistic
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Posted: 07-21-07 12:44pm
bad bad bad. you should have more respect
for yourself than to be with a married
man.. no matter what he is saying. you
really should fess up to your old friend,
and then be done with him. if he did this
to his "wife" than he would do it to you
anyway. oh, and he must have loved her at
one point to want to marry her, so don't
believe a word of what he says.
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you know your wrong Posted: 03-10-08 15:13pm
All I have to say is if he cheated on his
wife with you what do you think he would
do if he married you and found another
friend. It doesnt take a scientist to
figur it out. Leave the man alone he's
only fillin your head up with bullsh**t. I
know that you where friend and all, but a
really friend would do it the right way.
He should have left his wife and then came
to you. trust me take my advise. Good luck
.XOXO
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Sukki
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Posted: 09-07-08 09:06am
one answer: he must divorce to be with
you!
we girls are not weaklings or stupid
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12hello34
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Posted: 11-09-08 08:48am
He sounds really desperate. No offense to
you - I am sure you are a great person,
but married men sometimes use the nearest
available single woman to help ease the
pain of exiting from a marriage; once the
marriage ends, so will your relationship.
Please listen to your gut on this one.
There are so many fish in the sea that
aren't married and deserve your love, time
and energy.
