Broken Hearted Forum - Whats Going On Here??

Marfa2107

replied on July 17th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Maybe you should call her and ask her why she's been acting weird towards you..?
tell her that you really like her and that's why you went and spent time with her and her family, because you just wanted to see her and she really hurt your feelings when you got there..
ask her why she changed her status on Myspace and moved you down her top friends..
it may be nothing...
it might be because of her family...
i don't know?.. but you'll never know unless you ask
Wink

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young Girl

replied on July 17th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

because girls are shallow lol
thats why shes doing this
i think
now dont freak out its just my opinion. i dont know alot but i do know alot about the little that i do know and thats people...plus im a girl so i can tell you it could be two thing :

1. her family...but why would she do that to her myspace?
2. shes moved on and doenst care and is trying to get rid of you.

i agree with martha though- call her
Wink

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ohiokid87

replied on July 17th, 2007

New User

Marfa2107 wrote:

Maybe you should call her and ask her why she's been acting weird towards you..?
tell her that you really like her and that's why you went and spent time with her and her family, because you just wanted to see her and she really hurt your feelings when you got there..
ask her why she changed her status on Myspace and moved you down her top friends..
it may be nothing...
it might be because of her family...
i don't know?.. but you'll never know unless you ask
Wink

yeah im gonna try to call her once my free nightly minutes start. i called her last night (before i checked myspace) and she didnt awnser, but it was kinda late too i dunno. ahhhhh im so confused!

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Marfa2107

replied on July 17th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

well this time if she doesn't answer
leave her a voicemail..
and she'll have to atleast hear it..
i dono it's just a good starting point..
let us know how it goes okay?

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ohiokid87

replied on July 17th, 2007

New User

the_girlfreind wrote:

because girls are shallow lol
thats why shes doing this
i think
now dont freak out its just my opinion. i dont know alot but i do know alot about the little that i do know and thats people...plus im a girl so i can tell you it could be two thing :

1. her family...but why would she do that to her myspace?
2. shes moved on and doenst care and is trying to get rid of you.

i agree with martha though- call her
Wink

why the heck would she invite me down though?? (i bought the plane tickets a week before the trip.. im out $300 on the tickets and 6 days of work, which is like another $300-500.) and she was excited to see me the whole time leading up to the day...

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Marfa2107

replied on July 17th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

i'm not trying to be mean..
but girls like to see how far a guy will go for them..
believe me i've been there and done that..
they'll try to get you to do whatever for them whenever they want it..
but like i said just give her a call tonight and see waht she says..
goodluck hun
and let us know okay?

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pronetoillness

replied on July 17th, 2007

Experienced User

Plane Ticket

ok..
my point of view.. is that she really did have feelings for you but the pressure of moving around made her second guess the outcome of the relationship.. so she invited you over to see how it would feel again. It wasn't what she expected... and ended up not being what she wanted .. soo shee cut you out of her life the easy way..

by not confronting like a real women/man///person should.

some people just don't know how to handle these situations but to coldturkey things ..

move on >.
if she doesn't call back in 2 days.. ( and you know for a fact she sees/gets calls even left msgs..) it's over man..

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young Girl

replied on July 17th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

ohiokid87 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

because girls are shallow lol
thats why shes doing this
i think
now dont freak out its just my opinion. i dont know alot but i do know alot about the little that i do know and thats people...plus im a girl so i can tell you it could be two thing :

1. her family...but why would she do that to her myspace?
2. shes moved on and doenst care and is trying to get rid of you.

i agree with martha though- call her
Wink

why the heck would she invite me down though?? (i bought the plane tickets a week before the trip.. im out $300 on the tickets and 6 days of work, which is like another $300-500.) and she was excited to see me the whole time leading up to the day...

because she might have wanted to see you in person to make her final dection
im sorry but girls are friggen wierd lol
we have BAD ways of getting out of relationshps sometimes...

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ohiokid87

replied on July 17th, 2007

New User

she was obsessed with me before she left for her beach house, like leaving 3 voicemails within a few hours asking me to come over, or calling me if i was a few minutes late. then all of the sudden BOOM, she wants nothing to do with me???? plus why couldnt she just do it over the phone, or just let me know before i bought the plane tickets????

she got her cell taken away after she got caught drinking, so she uses her mom's, so instead of leaving a voicemail, i just sent her a message on myspace, but i can already tell its not gonna turn out good, cause this kinda stuff never works out for me.

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Marfa2107

replied on July 17th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

well, i guess just send her a message on myspace and see what happens..
that's all i can really tell ya to do..
sorry hun..

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pronetoillness

replied on July 18th, 2007

Experienced User

ohiokid87 wrote:

she was obsessed with me before she left for her beach house, like leaving 3 voicemails within a few hours asking me to come over, or calling me if i was a few minutes late. then all of the sudden BOOM, she wants nothing to do with me???? plus why couldnt she just do it over the phone, or just let me know before i bought the plane tickets????

she got her cell taken away after she got caught drinking, so she uses her mom's, so instead of leaving a voicemail, i just sent her a message on myspace, but i can already tell its not gonna turn out good, cause this kinda stuff never works out for me.

if you read what i posted before, maybe she was just testing the waters.
the moving thing might have to do with it, i've moved over 10 times already. I'm still young.

Changing, new school, new people, thinking about LD relationships and results really put a lot of pressure on a person. She might have not had enuff inside of her to tell you. That's her problem.

if she doesn't reply to your myspace. ignore her! don't tell me you've never done this to a gal before? It's just the way she felt.. accept it and move on hon..
<3

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Assena

replied on July 18th, 2007

Experienced User

pronetoillness wrote:

ohiokid87 wrote:

she was obsessed with me before she left for her beach house, like leaving 3 voicemails within a few hours asking me to come over, or calling me if i was a few minutes late. then all of the sudden BOOM, she wants nothing to do with me???? plus why couldnt she just do it over the phone, or just let me know before i bought the plane tickets????

she got her cell taken away after she got caught drinking, so she uses her mom's, so instead of leaving a voicemail, i just sent her a message on myspace, but i can already tell its not gonna turn out good, cause this kinda stuff never works out for me.

if you read what i posted before, maybe she was just testing the waters.
the moving thing might have to do with it, i've moved over 10 times already. I'm still young.

Changing, new school, new people, thinking about LD relationships and results really put a lot of pressure on a person. She might have not had enuff inside of her to tell you. That's her problem.

if she doesn't reply to your myspace. ignore her! don't tell me you've never done this to a gal before? It's just the way she felt.. accept it and move on hon..
<3

sweety it was a move to a summer home for the summer.

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Dale123

replied on July 18th, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

How old are you? How old is she? How long were you together?

From what I gather from what you had wrote it sounds like she could've been shy around her family. What did her family say about you coming.. Did they know that you were going there? Maybe she really didn't think you would actually go there. Will she be back at the end of the summer? ALSO how did you find out that her phone was taken away? Sorry about all of the questions I suppose I just need to know before I can really say what I think! Smile

Good luck!

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pronetoillness

replied on July 18th, 2007

Experienced User

Assena wrote:

pronetoillness wrote:

ohiokid87 wrote:

she was obsessed with me before she left for her beach house, like leaving 3 voicemails within a few hours asking me to come over, or calling me if i was a few minutes late. then all of the sudden BOOM, she wants nothing to do with me???? plus why couldnt she just do it over the phone, or just let me know before i bought the plane tickets????

she got her cell taken away after she got caught drinking, so she uses her mom's, so instead of leaving a voicemail, i just sent her a message on myspace, but i can already tell its not gonna turn out good, cause this kinda stuff never works out for me.

if you read what i posted before, maybe she was just testing the waters.
the moving thing might have to do with it, i've moved over 10 times already. I'm still young.

Changing, new school, new people, thinking about LD relationships and results really put a lot of pressure on a person. She might have not had enuff inside of her to tell you. That's her problem.

if she doesn't reply to your myspace. ignore her! don't tell me you've never done this to a gal before? It's just the way she felt.. accept it and move on hon..
<3

sweety it was a move to a summer home for the summer.

maybe she's planning to stay permanetly? Maybe she's hoping to take a break? who knows.. *shrugs*

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ohiokid87

replied on July 18th, 2007

New User

Dale123 wrote:

How old are you? How old is she? How long were you together?

From what I gather from what you had wrote it sounds like she could've been shy around her family. What did her family say about you coming.. Did they know that you were going there? Maybe she really didn't think you would actually go there. Will she be back at the end of the summer? ALSO how did you find out that her phone was taken away? Sorry about all of the questions I suppose I just need to know before I can really say what I think! Smile

Good luck!

haha no prob..
her parents love me, they gave her the idea to invite me.. i didnt wanna go there at first, but she kept on me and kept asking and i finally gave in.. yes shell be back in august.. and she told me about the phone thing awhlie ago. im 20 shes 18 almost 19.
she gave me a bunch or crap about how i acted different and that i was cheap and she told me to call her. so whatever, well see.

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Dale123

replied on July 18th, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

ohiokid87 wrote:

Dale123 wrote:

How old are you? How old is she? How long were you together?

From what I gather from what you had wrote it sounds like she could've been shy around her family. What did her family say about you coming.. Did they know that you were going there? Maybe she really didn't think you would actually go there. Will she be back at the end of the summer? ALSO how did you find out that her phone was taken away? Sorry about all of the questions I suppose I just need to know before I can really say what I think! Smile

Good luck!

haha no prob..
her parents love me, they gave her the idea to invite me.. i didnt wanna go there at first, but she kept on me and kept asking and i finally gave in.. yes shell be back in august.. and she told me about the phone thing awhlie ago. im 20 shes 18 almost 19.
she gave me a bunch or crap about how i acted different and that i was cheap and she told me to call her. so whatever, well see.

She said that you were cheap.. You just spent alot of money to go and see her.. You're not that cheap! What a girl! See what happens in Aug. For now I would probably start dating some other people test the feild a bit..

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ohiokid87

replied on July 18th, 2007

New User

no she actually does know me pretty well, i am cheap. except when i bought that expensive plane ticket. i actually said this to her: "i could fly down there to visit for a week, or i could wait till you come home, and we could blow the $250 on fun stuff, but if i come down, ill prolly be cheaper than usual when you get back, what would you rather do?" she laughed, thought about it, and said to come visit.

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pronetoillness

replied on July 18th, 2007

Experienced User

is there a reason why you're so cheap? do you get a low pay or do you have something to pay off? Maybe you're being so cheap it almost comes off as being thoughtless and effortless. IDK..

and when she saw you, it wasn't as fun. it might have given her a thought of what would her arrival with you would be like.

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ohiokid87

replied on July 19th, 2007

New User

pronetoillness wrote:

is there a reason why you're so cheap? do you get a low pay or do you have something to pay off? Maybe you're being so cheap it almost comes off as being thoughtless and effortless. IDK..

and when she saw you, it wasn't as fun. it might have given her a thought of what would her arrival with you would be like.

its not like i wont spend money on her. its just that i try to find cheap/free things to do, it was never a problem, she always thought it was cute and funny, i dont know why shes bringing it up now.
i have around 9 grand in the bank, 2 cars and a crotch rocket, and 2 years of college done and paid for. im getting student loans for the next 2 years and am saving up to put a down payment on a house. my part-time job pays well, so i guess i have no reason to be cheap, thats just how i am.

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