i'm not sure about anything over the counter..
but it could be razor burn if you both shave down there..
but i do not know exactly..

I am not a nurse (my mother is) nor am I a doctor OBGYN or helath care professional, but I do know when you get something in your private area thats not suppose ot be there, you seek a real professional. You have to get beyond the embarrassment. If this is some serious or an STD, you will need treatment. I know of no cream/ointment or magic potion to help you. It could be a variable of thigs, from an allergic reation to herpes. Please go to a free clinic and have yourself checked! OH, send your boyfriend first is another option!

We cannot diagnose you over the internet. You'll have to visit your ob-gyn. If you're sexually active, you're supposed to be seeing an ob-gyn anyway.

You can't be too easily embarrassed if you're going to have sex in a responsible way because it requires getting looked at when things like this happen! I don't know anyone who really likes going, but it's just one of those that adults have to do sometimes!

Good luck. Let us know what the doctor says.

it could be an std and the only reason why is say that is because you are both getting them
id see a doctor immidiately
dont be embarrassed
they can help you