hello,
I am really sorry to hear about all of those hard things happening to you back to back!
I had an abortion with I.V. sedation, and felt excellent afterward, the only complaint I had was an incident with the IV cite. The nurse had told me that some of the medicine had "flowed out and pooled underneath" my skin, and caused my arm to become blotchily red and painful to the touch. But even that got better in a few days and then turned into a humongous bruise that covered most of my bicep.
Anywho, as for the actual abortion, I cramped for maybe 1/2 an hour, bled very slightly for possibly 2 hours, and afterwards, felt just as I had when I had not been pregnant, no more cramping, no more bleeding.
Hopefully your experience will be similar (except for my arm thing

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If you have any other questions feel free to ask.