Most women do not have vaginal orgasms. It isn't even proven that all of us can. Women usually orgasm from clitoral stimulation.

If you are not feeling a lot of pleasure during sex, it is very possible that your clitoris is not being stimulated. If you have never had a clitoral orgasm, feel around and find your clitoris. Try to have a clitoral orgasm through masturbation first so that you can learn about what you like. That will make it easier to guide your partner.

The clitoris can be stimulated during vaginal sex. Some positions naturally stimulate it. Other times, the man or woman might use hands to stimulate it. Toys may also be used.

I have to say that I didn't really start having orgasms until my partner and I had really spent time figuring out what was the most pleasurable. Take some time to experiment, masturbate, figure out what feels good so you can make the most out of the time you have together.

Especially the first few times a man has sex, he probably doesn't last that long (you know how teenage boys are) and that might not help. Make sure there is lots of foreplay/oral stimulation/manual stimulation before you even start with sex.

I think we also need a stickied topic about female orgasm!

i have to say..i have a problem very similar to yours i don't feel much when i have sex with my boyfriend either..

i don't want to tell you the problem will go away the more you do it because i've been having sex a few times a week since january! and my problem hasnt gotten any better..i've gotten some great advice from the women on this website

my advice is this...don't try to have sex to have an orgasm (even thought thats probably not even what your doing)..but it won't happen if your trying..slow down and enjoy the intimacy you two have together ...if you want to be more familiar with how to pleasure yourself and bring it to your sex life..look into masturbation (i suggest a vibrating "back massager") and see what you can get from that..eventually you'll know what feels good and you can bring it into the bedroom (including your partner!!)

Forplay actually makes sex better to me. Also try haveing your bf rub your clitoris before you have sex. Show him were it feels good. SORRY FOR THE DETAILED DESCRIPTION DIDNT KNOW HOW TO DESCRIBE OTHERWISE.

i think only 10% of womes (please correct me if im wrong) can actually have an inetrnal orgasm...

The statistics are hazy right now, so there's no way to know for sure. That's not a bad statistic however.