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Q: Friends

asked by: failed on July 16th, 2007

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okay so there is this girl. i really like talking to her, but now she wants to hang out outside of school but i don't want to.. i know this is selfish but i dont want to see her outside of school because i dont want to be seen with her..shes really cool and helps me out with my problems and things so i like talking to her a LOT but i dont know what to do. shes also starting to talk to some of my friends and i dont want to be the one who brought her into our friend group. i think my friends think shes annoying and look down upon her. she is just very obnoxious about some things. im fine about that but i dont know if my friends will be.

i dont know if she'll understand if i told her that i dont want to see her outside of school, so should i tell her that? i know i cant just keep making excuses up forever

some advice please. im also aware that this isnt the right forum for this, but i guessed that its the closest one.

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Fairy Godmother

replied on July 16th, 2007

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Hello there.Yep you do have a bit of a problem....... How long have you and this girl been friends and does she consider herself to be a very good friend of yours? If this be the case, why can you not be honest with her and talk to her? Tell her you are happy ot be her firend and enjoy the time the two of you talk and spend together, but you have firends that would not be so kind. I would want my friends to tell me in advance so that I would not be makinga fool of myself, and I'd much rather this person tell me and reamin my friend than yo go on and loose a lot of friends. Make sense? If she is your true friend, she will understand. If she makes a big issues out of it, good ridance.............

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