Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 15 Location: california
Friends Posted: 07-16-07 12:47pm
okay so there is this girl. i really like
talking to her, but now she wants to hang
out outside of school but i don't want
to.. i know this is selfish but i dont
want to see her outside of school because
i dont want to be seen with her..shes
really cool and helps me out with my
problems and things so i like talking to
her a LOT but i dont know what to do.
shes also starting to talk to some of my
friends and i dont want to be the one who
brought her into our friend group. i
think my friends think shes annoying and
look down upon her. she is just very
obnoxious about some things. im fine
about that but i dont know if my friends
will be.
i dont know if she'll understand if i told
her that i dont want to see her outside of
school, so should i tell her that? i know
i cant just keep making excuses up
forever
some advice please. im also aware that
this isnt the right forum for this, but i
guessed that its the closest one.
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Fairy*Godmother
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Hi Posted: 07-16-07 13:08pm
Hello there.Yep you do have a bit of a
problem....... How long have you and this
girl been friends and does she consider
herself to be a very good friend of yours?
If this be the case, why can you not be
honest with her and talk to her? Tell her
you are happy ot be her firend and enjoy
the time the two of you talk and spend
together, but you have firends that would
not be so kind. I would want my friends to
tell me in advance so that I would not be
makinga fool of myself, and I'd much
rather this person tell me and reamin my
friend than yo go on and loose a lot of
friends. Make sense? If she is your true
friend, she will understand. If she makes
a big issues out of it, good
ridance.............
