My fiance and I have been having problems for some time (since mid April) Plus in Mid May I thought I was pregnant. The last time we had sex was mid April and before that it was the end of March everyday for the last week of the month while we were away on vacation. That was quite unusual for us but wonderful because I would rather do it everyday. Anyway..so between our fighting constantly and then the thought of me being pregnant (I'm not...was 7 weeks late on my period but finally got it) We haven't had sex! Again, I would like to do it everyday if I could but he is really never that way. We don't live together, I am currently living with my parents and he has a small apartment. My parents are old fashioned and although we have a child together they don't believe that we should sleep in the same bed under their roof unless we are married. So..no chance of him sleeping over and us doing it unless they are away which happens every 5 months maybe. Then there is his place, but again I have a child so there are not a million chances for me to go over there without her and with her...well if she were sleeping it would have to be in the same room...

So...I am sexually frustrated...it has already been hard for us to find the time, and he is not the type to want sex all the time, he is fine with masturbating if we don't do it often..plus neither of us really wanted it from each other all of the time because we were having issues but now that we are getting along great I want it badly...I text messaged him at about 11pm saying "It's been a while...cold showers only do so much...I want you" Well..he was sleeping so that didn't work out but either way he didn't even respond to that message or even bring it up for that matter...how do I approach this so that I can stop being frustrated?!?!?! I can't take it anymore but I would never cheat on him either someone help me tackle this I am open but he is not and he is a little uncomforatable talking about it so I feel wierd just bringing it up out of nowhere.