I agree with spirit by the way
last chance at happiness ...never with the right one top begin with ,{it happens}
it is too easy to divorce now days true and some of us {me} wish it were cheaper quicker .............
I gave 22 years and lived a loveless marriage to the father of my son ...he was a good guy mind you but when there never was love and you settle for comfort security ect....it gets old sooner or later love wants to find you you want to find it perhaps you and yours started in love and you are naturally good at keeping love alive .....get to where your roomates ,co exsist , you may be one of us?
Now your one of the blessed ...good for you ....offer this book to these people you care about THE FIVE LANGUAGES OF LOVE By Gary Chapman
read one yourself maintain this perfect life in marriage you have ....best wishes wazzywoman/robin