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Q: Just a Friend
asked by: richie42 on July 15th, 2007
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now i see all of these posts of guys that say that i'm 19, 20, 34, and i've never had a girlfriend or a female friend.

Well, basically i have tons of female friends, but no one of them will want to go out with me, and see me as more than that.

What do i do?
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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find new freinds Smile
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
find new freinds Smile


huh?
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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you said you have alot of female friends that wont see you as more than a freind so i said fine some new friends
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
you said you have alot of female friends that wont see you as more than a freind so i said fine some new friends



thaat works

thank you angel wearing jeans
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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ha ha no im just tired and frusterated and bored and i saw that someone new posted something so i had to reply

lol
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
ha ha no im just tired and frusterated and bored and i saw that someone new posted something so i had to reply

lol


u don't listen to dane cook then
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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i listen to dane cook

the best advice i ever got was from dane cook
women are mental terrorists
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
i listen to dane cook

the best advice i ever got was from dane cook
women are mental terrorists
:]


never heard that one
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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watch his vicious circle

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so why are you here?
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
watch his vicious circle

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so why are you here?


why am i here, well, i believe that god put me on this earth to do whatever i canto make it better for everyone
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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richie42 wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
watch his vicious circle

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so why are you here?


why am i here, well, i believe that god put me on this earth to do whatever i canto make it better for everyone


cool
i dont believe in god though.
no i meant why are you hERE on the forum?
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
richie42 wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
watch his vicious circle

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so why are you here?


why am i here, well, i believe that god put me on this earth to do whatever i canto make it better for everyone


cool
i dont believe in god though.
no i meant why are you hERE on the forum?


oh. . .

well, i tried to find why get stuck in the friend zone with women
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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because most women are shallow and picky and stuck up

agree?
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j_j89 replied on July 15th, 2007
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Re: Just a Friend
It may be too late to do something about gaining a relationship with one of these women. What I would tell you is to not get into the "close friendship" phase in the future with women (unless this is what you want for long term). If you are a nice guy you may offer advice with their relationships, be there as a support etc. The problem in doing this is that you may get stuck just being that, a support. Its a wonderful thing to be friends with someone before dating them, but I would do this with caution. Its a hard thing to understand, but it has happened to me time and time again. Its been frustrating to really dig a female friend, and have many of her conversations with me center around her boyfriend or "this guy she likes". I say all this to say, turn up the heat earlier than later to let her know "I would like to date you", friends is still cool, but just put that out there. I am not sure what your relationship with your female friends is like, but I just say this stuff from my experiences and at least 4 other people I know going through the same thing. Good luck.
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
because most women are shallow and picky and stuck up

agree?


i don't want to
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young Girl replied on July 15th, 2007
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i know you dont want to
but thats why i said maybe meeting new people would bring ya out of that circle of women you associate with now

we take too much pride in who we are
and we use that to our advantage to "pick through" guys
its a horrible system women have developed.
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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Re: Just a Friend
j_j89 wrote:
It may be too late to do something about gaining a relationship with one of these women. What I would tell you is to not get into the "close friendship" phase in the future with women (unless this is what you want for long term). If you are a nice guy you may offer advice with their relationships, be there as a support etc. The problem in doing this is that you may get stuck just being that, a support. Its a wonderful thing to be friends with someone before dating them, but I would do this with caution. Its a hard thing to understand, but it has happened to me time and time again. Its been frustrating to really dig a female friend, and have many of her conversations with me center around her boyfriend or "this guy she likes". I say all this to say, turn up the heat earlier than later to let her know "I would like to date you", friends is still cool, but just put that out there. I am not sure what your relationship with your female friends is like, but I just say this stuff from my experiences and at least 4 other people I know going through the same thing. Good luck.


yeah. . . and i nevr ask women out at the right time and stuff
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richie42 replied on July 15th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
i know you dont want to
but thats why i said maybe meeting new people would bring ya out of that circle of women you associate with now

we take too much pride in who we are
and we use that to our advantage to "pick through" guys
its a horrible system women have developed.


yeah

it's freaking easy for a girl to get a guy.
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aquarius_queen69 replied on July 15th, 2007
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Re: Just a Friend
You should find someone outside of your friends and try it with them!!!!!
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