Pulling Out + Condoms = ? Posted: 07-15-07 21:21pm
I have been with my boyfirend for about
six months and we just recently started
playing around without condoms. He
penetrates a few times and then pulls out
and puts a condom on. I was wondering if
this act increases or decreases my chances
of becoming pregnant.
Can anyone shed some light on this issue?
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-15-07 21:23pm
Definitely increases your chances. A bare
penis could have pre-ejaculate on it,
which contains sperm. And sperm inside
your vagina can and will get you
pregnant.
If you're not ready for a baby, wear the
condom at all times.
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wonderwoman07
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Posted: 07-15-07 21:25pm
the reason i ask is because it seems to
kind of defeat the purpose, if condoms
have spermicide on them and he did pre
ejaculate, don't they cancel each other
out?
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Posted: 07-15-07 21:28pm
Not necessarily. There's no guarantee that
the spermicide would kill all the sperm
that made it inside of you. I personally
would not risk it.
But if you're interested in sex without a
condom, perhaps you should explore
alternative methods of birth control, such
as the pill or maybe an iud.
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wonderwoman07
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Posted: 07-15-07 21:33pm
I've explored all the options and the
pill for me sucked. It made my periods
last months i tried about 5 diffent kinds
and doses so I stuck with condoms. I've
tried depo and iuds and also
unconventional methods. it seems I am
doomed where birth control is concerned.
we aren't shootingfor a kid, but if it
happens, neither of us will be upset. i'm
not making excuses, it is what it is, we
are both well enough off to take care and
raise a beautiful child. thanks for
shedding some light on the issue for me.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-15-07 21:40pm
Of course, no problem! I'm sorry other
birth control methods didn't work out for
you. Good luck to you and your partner!
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wonderwoman07
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Posted: 07-15-07 21:41pm
thanks again your baby is
adorable!
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