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Q: Please Someone Help Me!

asked by: CHloe4 on July 15th, 2007

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Hey,
I'm 15, I have a boyfriend that loves me very much and would stay by me if I was pregnant, but I can't get pregnant becasue my Mother would kill me. But I have a couple of questions. I'm very sorry(this is rather gross), but once cum dries, can you still become inpregnanted by it? And I have a very strange pressure in my lower abdomen when I pee and starting tonight, when I wipe the tissue is slightly pink. Are those signs of pregnancy? Also, can I get an abortion without my parents knowledge?
Please help me.

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young Girl

replied on July 15th, 2007

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in some states you can get an abortion by yourself but in alot of states you have to have a parents consent :/
yes those are signs of pregnancy but i wouldnt get freaked out or anything

sperm can live in on bed sheets and such for 20 minutesw
once it hits the air it lives up to 20 minutes but not much longer

why would your mom kill you? do you have any one who will help you? what would your bf's parents say? how old is he?

lonesome45

replied on July 15th, 2007

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hey chloe..
im stuck in a similar situation as yours..
if you want you can pm me and we can help each other out

CHloe4

replied on July 15th, 2007

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Well, my boyfriend is only 2 days older than me and I'm 15. He wouldn't leave me over this, we've already talked about it. But do you know if in Florida we have to let our parents know? And yes, I'll help you out lonesome.

Tylanas

replied on July 15th, 2007

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Re: Please Someone Help Me!

CHloe4 wrote:

Hey,
I'm 15, I have a boyfriend that loves me very much and would stay by me if I was pregnant, but I can't get pregnant becasue my Mother would kill me. But I have a couple of questions. I'm very sorry(this is rather gross), but once ejaculate dries, can you still become inpregnanted by it? And I have a very strange pressure in my lower abdomen when I pee and starting tonight, when I wipe the tissue is slightly pink. Are those signs of pregnancy? Also, can I get an abortion without my parents knowledge?
Please help me.

No. Dry ejaculate is inert, and cannot cause pregnancy. A pink discharge and pressure is a sign of your period coming in my opinion, which of course means you're not pregnant.

First though, have you even had unprotected sex? Has your boyfriend's penis been inside of your vagina without a condom? That's the only way you could be pregnant. He didn't have to "cum", ejaculate, orgasm, etc. All it takes is a few seconds, and "precum".

I'm pretty sure your mother wouldn't actually kill you, but that's a moot issue right here. As for parental consent, unless you get a court order, you do have to tell your parents. It's called a Judicial Bypass, and there are women on here who can tell you how to get one.

However, I think you are a long way from worrying about pregnancy.

CHloe4

replied on July 15th, 2007

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No, we never di have unprotected sex, but I'm afraid it wasn't from that but off his fingers. And it would make sense for it to be my period because I had it around the time I would have gotten pregnant which was only about 10 days ago.

Tylanas

replied on July 15th, 2007

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the_girlfreind wrote:

Bleeding is a sign that you are not pregnant. Abdominal pressure is very common before a period.

Sperm dies when the semen dries. That could happen in 5 minutes if it is hot out. There is no exact time frame. If the semen is dry, then the sperm is dead even if it has only been 5 minutes or 10.

Secondly, we don't even KNOW if she's even had sex! She may not have, which means she's not pregnant.

Tylanas

replied on July 15th, 2007

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CHloe4 wrote:

Okay, if you never had sex... you are not pregnant. Relax!

When was your last period? Ten days ago? You wouldn't be getting another period yet. However you are young, your period could be irregular, and you could be bleeding from vaginal cuts...

You cannot get pregnant from dried semen on a boy's fingers.

However if you are nervous, or if you miss your next period (when are you due?) then take a pregnancy test.

CHloe4

replied on July 15th, 2007

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Well, the only time we did have sex was with a condom. But that wasn't what I was worried about. And i should have my next period in about 22 days or so. But I just started bleeding today. That's what scared me. So I guess the only way to be sure is to test. I just don't know. There's no telling what will happen if I am pregnant and my parents find out. I know my father WILL kill Zack. I just can't have this happen to me. So thank you guys so much for your help.

Tylanas

replied on July 15th, 2007

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CHloe4 wrote:

Alright, well, honestly, you should worry far more about the sex with the condom than dry semen on your boyfriend's fingers or wherever it was. Condom sex is safe, I never got pregnant using a condom. I'm just saying that you are actually more likely to become pregnant using a condom than being fingered with dry semen.

At this point I think all you can do is wait for your period. I don't think you're pregnant.

young Girl

replied on July 15th, 2007

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i dont think so either hun Smile

just relax and dont stress out ok?

CHloe4

replied on July 15th, 2007

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Well, thank you all for your advice. I was just so worried when I came on here, I feel better actually. I feel like I might actually have a chance here. Really, thank you for answering me and all my questions. But I am still going to take a test just to me safe.

young Girl

replied on July 15th, 2007

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oh no problem and let me know how it goes!!!!!!

CHloe4

replied on July 15th, 2007

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Well, thanks. And I'll be sure let you know how it goes. Good nite everyone.

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