stop drinking so much coffee
eat a good diet
and quit thinking about it ok?
thats why its happening

sounds like you need to enjoy life more. theres something your missing. i love my life and me and my boyfriends sex life has never been better because we are both at a happy place in our lives
when you are too, your sex life will get better again

Maybe your food is doing it, yeah stress can do it as well. But the biggest reason why its happening, its thinking about the errection.Thats what I had on my first times, the first 3 times, i finished numb and soft. Becouse i was thinking "please dont go soft", but then, I just relaxed, and didnt think about, just when youre in bed, with the girl, dont and again dont, think about it, if you will think about it, you will fail again, and again, and again. The thing is not to think about the errection, but think about the things what make you errect, like look at her, and look at her breast how they swing, listen carefully to her moans. And let she tease you, by putting her hand near your penis, or even let her touch, play with it. Thats what worked for me, and WOLLLAH ! And remember the longer you will feel stressed and emberassed about it, the longer you will fail. As soon as you will accept it, and keep an thought in your mind if you fail again, just accept it, accept it as it would be normal thing. it happens, mostly all men have experienced this, in their first times (like me), or later. But most of them ( I hope) have got trough this, without much swet

Oh and if you get morning errections, or if you can get an errection while watching porn, then its a menthal problem, not physical. Its all in your head. And kick that crap outta your head.

Just keep on moving m8


Sorry for my bad english, its my 2nd language.

Stress plays the biggest part, another reason is because you are fearing it and thinking about it...you have to try and think about all of the times you didn't fail and imagine yourself doing it and doing it good without failing..yes exercise and diet might have something to do with it BUT if you haven't changed your diet and you were the same way before with that as now then there is a smaller chance that diet and exercise has something to do with it...

Thanks for the advice. Yeah, I've just been in my head a lot lately and I gotta get out of it. I've been thinking obsessively about everything lately, which has worsened this situation. I just gotta relax and realise that throughout the course of our relationship, I performed perfectly 99.9% of the time and that these past few times that I couldn't, I should just put them behind me and not worry about it anymore. Thanks again.