is it your boyfriend? i'm not asking that to start a fight or quiz you on your feelings for him, because i'm sure you love him. it's just that with my first boyfriend, who i had sex with after two & a half years of dating was good in bed, but i never enjoyed the sex with him. after we broke up, i met my second boyfriend, and he was equally as good, however, i enjoyed the sex with him a whole lot more. i was able to take on a different personality in bed with him. i wasn't shy or conservative, like i was with my first boyfriend. i was able to be dominating & kinky. sex for a girl is said to be more emotionally & mentally stimulating than physically. and it is true that most women do not achieve orgasm via vaginal sex. foreplay is the biggest part of a girl's satisfaction in bed.
i have only achieved orgasm during sex a total of - i'd say - maybe seven times or less. i usually get my orgasm afterwards, when my boyfriend plays with me. but that is fine with me because i love satisfying him.
sex is what you make it. i can't be with a guy if the sex isn't good, as awful as that sounds. i also need to be completely comfortable around him because i am one to experiment & try new things. sex should make you feel good, both on the inside & the outside. you should be sexy & adventurous, up for anything. perhaps, you just need to sit down & talk about it, if you haven't already. maybe there is something he could do specifically to enhance the enjoyment for you?
good luck, hun & have fun! be safe, too.