Don't Like Sex?

Wanted to say hello.......I see where lots of people view this post, but no one has yet to reply.....so I will! You did not state your age or if you had any other type of medical problem that may be effecting this. You did mention this was the only guy you'd been with. Feel free to PM me if you would like a more personal response, theres bound to be some negativity here on this question.....but yes, periodically, I have felt this way....several times through several bout in my time (I turned 50 yesterday, but the first time I saw a physican about it was when I was in my early 20's. I'll be happy to answer any wustions you may have if you PM me!

i agree do it for the enjoyment, i think i like it better when we try not to "follow thru". I guess you could call it the tease approach or hard to get.

are you sure? lol..it doesnt feel good or anything..it just feels like hes trying to push into my bladder. and we've been doing it for awhile. it just continues to feel weird. i've done the whole clit thing. doesnt work during sex..have to use some other sort of stimulation.. and that just adds to my frustration lol

is it your boyfriend? i'm not asking that to start a fight or quiz you on your feelings for him, because i'm sure you love him. it's just that with my first boyfriend, who i had sex with after two & a half years of dating was good in bed, but i never enjoyed the sex with him. after we broke up, i met my second boyfriend, and he was equally as good, however, i enjoyed the sex with him a whole lot more. i was able to take on a different personality in bed with him. i wasn't shy or conservative, like i was with my first boyfriend. i was able to be dominating & kinky. sex for a girl is said to be more emotionally & mentally stimulating than physically. and it is true that most women do not achieve orgasm via vaginal sex. foreplay is the biggest part of a girl's satisfaction in bed.

i have only achieved orgasm during sex a total of - i'd say - maybe seven times or less. i usually get my orgasm afterwards, when my boyfriend plays with me. but that is fine with me because i love satisfying him.

sex is what you make it. i can't be with a guy if the sex isn't good, as awful as that sounds. i also need to be completely comfortable around him because i am one to experiment & try new things. sex should make you feel good, both on the inside & the outside. you should be sexy & adventurous, up for anything. perhaps, you just need to sit down & talk about it, if you haven't already. maybe there is something he could do specifically to enhance the enjoyment for you?

good luck, hun & have fun! be safe, too.

I think everybody has a g-spot, I said so because I thought I did not have it until I did the g-shot. The collagen that the Dr. injected me was definitely in the right spot because after that a new world opened. You should try it.

thanks for what?

and yea i probably should sit down and talk to him about it..i dont even think he has any clue that its going on. and no offense taken i DO love him..it just doesnt feel good..and i was curious because you always hear people going on and on about how great sex is..but i dont see where they're coming from.

I might need to look into some other sort of method lol..i do want to try more foreplay tho (ill have to let him know ofcourse..because i've tried it before (the whole hard to get thing) and he just gives up and isn't interested anymore)

thanks everyone soo much for your comments and advice

i do hope things get better soon hes been wanting me to orgasm for so long..and i think hes given up trying..i dont get anywhere lol (and im not pressured to do it either so thats not stopping me from enjoying it) ..i told him i would when i was ready..thanks guys! i appreciate it