i didn't really do anything cute.
the first time it had taken 8 months to get pregnant and by then we'd assumed something was wrong and we joked around saying he must be sterile. i tested by myself and it was positive, later we were snuggling in bed and i said "i have a secret... you're not sterile". that was followed by about 10 minutes of him saying "wow... really?... wow...". that ended in a miscarriage.
the next time i was so scared because of the miscarriage, i didn't even want to say it out loud. i ended up getting him a card and writing this long mushy love letter and i ended it with "and i can only hope that you're as excited about our second chance at having a baby as i am" (or something like that). then i watched him read it and he was all "awww" through the whole thing and then we got to the end he gasped a huge gasp. that card is now framed and hanging in our kitchen.
for the next one i will do something cute, like have finn wearing an "i'm going to be a big brother" shirt when nick gets home from work. we'll probably do something like that for my parents too, then send a picture of finn wearing the shirt to nick's parents.
let us know what you do! i like hearing creative ideas!