Oh my god! That was soooooooo great. Some of you might remember me telling you about a friend of mine who has been unwelcomingly over-bearing? And acting like he is josh's dad or sumthing.....So weird. Well I finally told him off! It felt so good to get it off my chest! Here it is:

alliwannadois: so is falishia over
joshuasmommy321: no
alliwannadois: o0o0o0o I was j/w
alliwannadois: can I ask u somethin?? And be 4 real with ur answer
joshuasmommy321: I suppose
alliwannadois: do u still want me to come to the hospital?
Joshuasmommy321: chris I never did
joshuasmommy321: if u wanna visit a bit after wards fine
joshuasmommy321: but I didnt really want u there to begin with
alliwannadois: well I neva knew that I just thought u ment not in the room
joshuasmommy321: chris I told u the other night
joshuasmommy321: u just didnt wanna hear me right
alliwannadois: then I guess I wont come just have ur mom call me after hes born and ill come and visit
alliwannadois: or u call me w/e
joshuasmommy321: alright but I already told falishia this too im not havin anyone there for more than 20 mins
alliwannadois: ok
alliwannadois: can I ask u somethin else
joshuasmommy321: maybe
alliwannadois: would u still consider us *best friends*
joshuasmommy321: I consider everyone friends
joshuasmommy321: I dont like best friends
joshuasmommy321: because best friends get jealous
alliwannadois: it just kinda made me feel weird when all of a sudden u and fal. Were like joined at the hip and im not sayin that I dun wan u to have more that 1 friend it just made me feel like u were kinda "replacing" me b/c ive been there for most of this pregnancy
joshuasmommy321: yes but u have also been there when I really didnt want u 2
joshuasmommy321: and u werent ever there until I was pregnant and it was really weird for me
joshuasmommy321: and it was even weirder when u started trying to act like u were josh's dad or sumthing
alliwannadois: I neva started to act like that I wasa just trying to be a good friend and I thought I was there 4 u even b4 u got pregnant
joshuasmommy321: no not really.....We never even talked on the phone or hung out outside of school b4
joshuasmommy321: and brenda told me about that comment at the baby shower about her jokin around goin hey daddy and u said I wish
joshuasmommy321: im not comfortable with that at all
alliwannadois: I was just jokin
joshuasmommy321: well I dont think its funny
alliwannadois: I didnt mean anything by it
alliwannadois: and trust me thats the lasyt thing I wish for
alliwannadois: b/c I dont really wqanna be a dad at 15
alliwannadois: well im gunna go now and ill talk to u lata. Just have your mom call me when u have him and ill try and get up there. If not ill see yall when u come home
alliwannadois is away at 2:57:59 pm.
Joshuasmommy321: ok bye

and I told my mom about it and she says I hurt his feelings! I mean, I have been trying to get the point across forever so I just told it to him very bluntly. Do yall think I was wrong in saying all the stuff I did? This stuff has been buggin me for a while now. Any input would be nice.....