so i am very new to everything as well, i'm a guy jsyk, and i have been dating for 7months now...my gf was also very new with everything...we arent having sex til we are married, we both believed in that, but we do alot of kissing and touching, but we never go below the belt...i wont touch her vagina area and she doesnt touch my penis....its just somethin we both wont do....but she has told me that sometimes when i make out with her, or when i gently kiss her neck or stomach, she gets "explosions" in her tummy area and she said many times after i go home, she goes to take a shower and i guess she said somethin was goin on down there ie discharge i guess lol
but it isnt somethin a guy should be asking you if he really respects you. i think he is just trying to get as far as he can with you, and that he asks you questions like that just to brag about it to his buddies....i dont mean to sound pompous or brag, but i am a very caring boyfriend and i never do anything my gf feels uncomfortable doing, and i make sure i am always talking to her and we ask each other questions and we make sure we are always on the same page...you bing pretty neive makes yo ueasy to take advantage of, please be careful