ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 07-15-07 09:07am
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| kaerbear
wrote: | laura, i don't think we are
even arguing, lol. i feel the same way
you do i just would wish that women would
not be scared out of at least giving it a
shot. that's the same way i feel about
natural birth but i would never force that
upon anyone else. i guess i just felt
misunderstood too but i'm glad that's
cleared up.
* ilovemyfishies (sorry i don't know your
name yet) i'm sorry that the thread veered
off topic. it was supposed to be about
which formula is best.
sorry! |
My name is Kira but its ok i just wanted
to get some ideas you know. Like i said my
sister was the last one to have a baby but
she lives in dc and i have missed both of
her pregnancies even when i was living
there so i just needed some input on it
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 07-15-07 09:09am
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | well all you can do is try
the women here
think it's a good idea to at least try it
out. there are girls here who tried for
weeks and months and it just wasn't
working so they either pumped or switched,
their babies are healthy either way, but
the breast is whats best ( )
give it a chance because you never know if
it'll be easier for you or not. of course
it'll be hard, everythings hard! good luck
with your
decision! |
yes i understand it i mean my neighbor
even said i should try and she has never
had any kids nor been pregnant but i just
dont want to have more pain then what im
already going to be in
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Zanny
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Posted: 07-15-07 10:32am
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It's guaranteed to be uncomfortable at
first, but once both you & your baby
have settled into a routine it won't
bother you anymore. I tried to breastfeed
my daughter but she couldn't do it because
she was born early. Some babies just don't
get the hang of it, so I expressed my milk
for a couple of weeks (which also hurts,
but I wanted her to get at least
some of my milk because of all the
nutrients in it) & then we switched to
formula.
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Dale123
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Posted: 07-15-07 10:36am
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| ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | HcoBrunette06
wrote: | | well with formula feeding
you don't have cracked and bleeding
nipples and a baby having to suck on them
several times a day
lol |
thats what scares
me |
Would pumping do that too? Like does it
hurt your nipples?
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 07-15-07 10:41am
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I dont know what to think now 
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 07-15-07 10:54am
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i tried breastfeeding my son but then i
ended up bottle feeding, it was just
akward being in my parents home and doing
it, so i wanted to try it with my daughter
since me and my husband were living on our
own then so it wouldnt be as akward cuz i
wouldnt be around my parents. joseph was
on smart start essentials but ive read
online about that causing alot of gas and
fussiness in babies and he did have colic
when he was younger wich really sucked i
tried everything i dont think anything
like worked it just helped a little. You
dont always have sore cracked nipples
breastfeeding. it will hurt the first few
days but its not that bad at all. They get
on a schedule pretty quick though, i ended
up breastfeeding our daughter for only 7
weeks though, she was screaming for 4 hrs
straight each night and once i switched to
formula she slept at night and know has a
good routine going on. With breastfeeding
you just have to eat a balanced diet and
cant drink alot of caffeinated beverages
as it goes to the baby as well. You can
drink they actually say one beer is good
for the milk supply but if u like plan on
going out drinking with your husband or
friends its best to pump before hand to
have bottles for the night while your gone
and when you get back in th emorning or
whenever you get back pump and dump that
milk. its good cuz the baby weight comes
off faster. Right now jordynne is on
similac advanced with iron wich is ok, it
made her constipated at first.Usually at
the hospital they will ask wich are you
gonna do, each hospital has formula a
certain kind and usually if ur on wic or
something they try and give you that
formula or something similar as well so it
really all depends.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-15-07 11:09am
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ahh i understand everyones pointns of
view
i guess ill just have to find out myself
when i have my own baby
kira- you should try it but keep an open
mind
if it works for you thats awsome. if not
there are other alternatives
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taykare
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Formula
Posted: 07-15-07 11:32am
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breast milk is best for baby but it is
your choice wether you breast feed or not
you need to make that choice if you feel
to grossed out by it themn don't maybe try
it because the colstrum which is from the
frist days of breastfeeding that is the
absolute best for baby and even if thats
all you can handle then thats fine any
amount of breast milk is great. I did not
breast feed my twins and until I gave up
trying I was so sick but that was then I
had my second and breastfed until she was
91/2 months and she quit on her own. If
your baby latches right you should not get
chapped nipples a proper latch is the
whole nipple with the arloa the darker
part arpund your nipple in their mouth as
well if they do not take it all un latch
them by sticking your finger at the side
of their mouth and pop them off. if they
have just your nipple you will get chapped
nipples. Same goes for a pump as I pumped
with the twins and youngest. Make sure
your intire nipple witharola*spelled wrong
dark part around nipple isinas much as
possible and you will be fine. after you
breastfeed there usually some milk left on
it rub it in your nipple this will also
prevent chapping. Okay a good latch you
have your baby on his/her side completely
facing your chest. Then take if holding
baby with rioght arm take your left hand
hold your boob and tickle your babies nose
or mouth so she/he will open wide you want
a as wide as possible mouth then you stick
your nipple withdarker part as far in as
you can she/he she grab and start sucking
this will take soem practising and
sometime just happens the first time.
remeber You are looking for that reallly
wide open mouth. If you do get chapping
try not to quit i will hurt try using
other breast more but still use it I am
telling you it will hurt I had a chappled
nipple. There is cream baby can seat not
bad for baby. also if you stop you will
get engorged and that hurts too. a warm
cloth on them will soothe them also try to
exprees milk with a pump will hurt at
first when engorged. If you see on your
babys mouth white stuff that will not
brush away when you try to clean it most
likely is thrush baby needs meds to get
rid of it and you can get it also and you
will need meds as well. If you find you a
a red hot spot on your breast that is
either thrush or a infection see your
midwife/doctor/or nurse about it. Any more
info just let me know. If I can help I
will.
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 07-15-07 12:14pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | ahh i understand everyones
pointns of view
i guess ill just have to find out myself
when i have my own baby
kira- you should try it but keep an open
mind
if it works for you thats awsome. if not
there are other
alternatives |
oh i always have an open mind
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 07-15-07 13:38pm
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All you can do is try, if you don't try
you'll never know if breastfeeding would
of worked out for you. It is difficult i'm
not going to lie to you and there will be
times when you're being woken up in the
night and all you want to do is give them
to your partner and let them give the baby
a bottle while you sleep but believe me it
is so rewarding. Either way the baby will
get the nutrients that it needs but
obviously breast milk is natures own food
for the baby so it will always have those
extra advantages
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Posted: 07-15-07 14:12pm
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| Dale123
wrote: | | ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | HcoBrunette06
wrote: | | well with formula feeding
you don't have cracked and bleeding
nipples and a baby having to suck on them
several times a day
lol |
thats what scares
me |
Would pumping do that too? Like does it
hurt your
nipples? |
Pumping didn't hurt at all b/c it gets the
whole nipple.
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 07-15-07 14:57pm
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| jessesgirl
wrote: | | Dale123
wrote: | | ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | HcoBrunette06
wrote: | | well with formula feeding
you don't have cracked and bleeding
nipples and a baby having to suck on them
several times a day
lol |
thats what scares
me |
Would pumping do that too? Like does it
hurt your
nipples? |
Pumping didn't hurt at all b/c it gets the
whole nipple. |
ouch
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butterfly4565
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Posted: 07-16-07 00:28am
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I really think breastfeeding is one of the
best decisions I've made for my baby girl
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I caught quite a bad cold while in
hospital,but because I was breastfeeding
and giving my baby all those great
antibodies I've boosted her immune system
and probably stopped her from catching the
cold.And I know how freaked out I would be
with a sick newborn!Not too mention how
bad it would be for her.
I've been pretty lucky with it tho,I just
got cracked and bleeding nipples the first
week or so...which did hurt!But I put
nipple cream on them,which did help
immensly.
Now 3 weeks down the track everything is
going well....and it is so much easier for
me to whack Montanah on my boob at
night,or when Im out.Rather then have to
steralise bottles and teats and heat up
the bottle.
After the breastfeeding is initially
established it seems to me to be a much
easier (and cheaper) option.
As everyone else said,you should just try
it!You never know,it might work best for
you!
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Idony
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Posted: 07-16-07 17:10pm
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in my opinion everyone should at least try
breastfeeding, if it doesnt work for you
then at least you can say you tried
as for formula, dont go by what you had as
a kid, remember that baby is only half
you
you should almost always start with a cows
milk based formula, if the baby doesnt
tolerate it tehn ask your doc and let them
decide what to switch the baby to its
easier that way and in my opinion safer
i had cows milk as a baby although now i
am lactose intoloerant, but my daughter
has to have soy milk because shes milk
protien intolerant, i tried breastfeeding
for a week but she lost over a pound so
she went to the hospital and we had to
stop because the protein in my milk was
hurting her
~alicia~
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 07-16-07 18:17pm
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i have plenty of time to think about it
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meggan
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Posted: 07-25-07 13:37pm
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| ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | I understand about the
breast milk but i dont think im the type
to do it??? i
just dont know i guess i will be able to
tell once my baby is
here |
Breastmilk has all the best nutrition for
your child! All formulas have come
sooooooooooooo close! I think they are
there closer then said but im not to sure!
Anyhow hun i feel ya on not feeling like
the person to breastfeed. But from my
experiance my hubby and mother convinced
me that it was the best and cheapest way
to go! God was i glad! I had to get
through each feeding though! ONE AT A TIME
for the first month because it wasnt easy
and in the first week was painful for me!
But i took one feeding at a time and i
made it! Now my little guy and i have a
great bond. I love to watch him reach for
me and open his mouth makin a little
noise. ITs so adorbale! Just remember
though you should do whatever you feel
comfortable with! I guess what people told
me was try for a few weeks and if all
doesnt go well do formula. I think though
that you should do what you think makes
you comfortable! I wish you the best! OO
the thing that helped me a lot was to read
tons and tons and tons of stuff on
pregnancy, breastfeeding, and child
development! Best wishes!
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