Making Him Moan

Talking dirty to him or just saying anything during sex that is a question that the other person has to answer that will get them to respond, and once you start vocalizing it's hard to stop!

i have the same problem with my boyfriend, I've actually talked to him about it and he says he not a moaner hes a heavy breather and theres nothing i can do.... hes basically embarrassed. You would figure after 4 years of having sex with me he would have loosened up but hes a man. I do notice he does it sometimes, usually wen its really intense, i suggest talking to him, see wat he says about y he doesn't!

most boys arent moaners
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You could do something that takes him completely by surprise, like rake your nails across his back or down his chest. That's what I do to keep my man on his toes - be unpredictable.

Yeah, I found that when I whispered "Oh god... [lover's name]" I got a major response out of him lol.

thanks alot ! this actually really helps me out without being embarrased and yes i'm afraid that if i do talk to him about it...he'll just end up doing fake moans just to make me happy lol! well i'm gunna try the oh god thing:) thanks alot!

I once heard this question asked on a sex therapy radio station. The therapist said that most men don't moan because of insecurity and trust issues. Men feel that if they show you how much they are REALLY enjoying it they are opening themselves up to you and they like to keep their guard up. When they feel more comfortable and are not embarrassed or feel that they can trust you 200% they usually start to do it. I have been with my fiance for 11 years and he didn't start to moan until about 3 years ago and even then it wasn't that load or that much it was a little here and there and still is.

my bf is a huge moaner when i scratch his back or tug on his hair. when im rough he loves every moment and makes sure i know it, but when we have sex hes like a mouse LOL hes the total oppst. we've talked about it. and hes doing better, hes a lil more vocal and hes started talking dirty to me. oh just talking about it im going through withdrawels LOL but talk to your bf abotu it, maybe u can come to a happy median. maybe let him know and the two of you can work on it. the one thing i have come to terms with is communication is number one!!!!! hes not a mind reader either are you. so talk talk talk talk LOL let him know what you like!

lol yea i've tried the thing what Eiri suggested with the name...lol didn't quite work..but thanks, it actually made me feel more sexy just by saying his name:P i always run my fingers through his hair and well i havn't ran my nails down his back during sex..well i've never done it in general...i should give that a try too! and oh btw the reason why i'm afraid to talk to him is bc he might fake the moaning ( like i said before) just to make me happy! i really do wanna talk about it but it'll just make me feel so..blah if he fakes it! and hes also that nerdy type guy:P i'm his first gf and i can understand if he doesn't wanna moan bc of embarassment:P but we've been together for 8 months v.v but anyhow..this is all confusing haha. if any of you has managed to get all of this...please give me more advice! please and thank you!

Try saying... "it's okay... let it out..." And giggle, bite his ear, whatever lol. Do this when you can tell he's really into it. Maybe it'll work? lol.

You have the nerdy one and I have the tough guy lol...my guy is big and stocky and he has the total tough guy attitude...so either way they are guys and it is what they are. Either way they get embarrassed and like I said the big thing for men is to feel like they let you in completely, they don't want to do that. Again I have been with mine for going on 11 years and it took me up to 3 years ago just to get a little moan out of him and it's not often that I get moans but he has his moments...I guess to them it's letting go more and they try hard not to do that. Don't worry, in time, or he may not be a moaner at all. I know that it turns me on when he does it, I get like a high off of it, it's the feedback that I am waiting for.

Just another suggestion from a guy:

I used to never be a moaner -- not a case of shyness or pride, I just didn't. It probably came from years of masturbating where I had to be quiet. But to this day, every time I do my girlfriend doggy-style, I can't help it, and I become a moaning machine, probably because it just feels so good. So try letting him do you in that position, and squirm around and do all kinds of erotic things, and wonderful events may happen.

from a guy point of view i think that what woman in pain said is the answer allthough i never thought about it till now i dont moan either. i do remember (just) that before i lost my cherry it was one of the many things that i worried about- "should i moan/not moan,will she moan ect ect" the bottom line of it is that if your bf is not a moaner then he's not a moaner.and instead of worrying just forget about it and enjoy yourself.i will just say though that it may happen when you least expect it,like u try something different one day and it suddenly triggers him off.so dont be afraid to experiment ! its worth giving the nail treatment a go cos that does it for me personally and its allways nice for a woman to take the lead and play it rough from time to time..hope this was of some help and your man should be gratefull for u takin the time out to make his sex more interesting

thank you very much everybody:) you've been so helpful and i'll try that doggy style thing:P

wow i like it.. i mean reading ol this,,
well, wen we do it, ive realised dat on few occasions my boyfriend really did moan aloud. He went like "yes baby, faster n faster" then his moan gets quite louder turning me on .. n suddenly he starts giggling which makes me wonder if ive done somethng funny... he says he gets emabarrased when he moans... but i get to make him moan by just licking his lower lip and he goes aahh... must be his weak point there lol