zoidberg
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Making Him Moan
Posted: 07-14-07 00:02am
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well when me and my boyfriend has sex, its
usually me the one who always moans with
pleasure...more vocally. my boyfriend just
does alot of heavy breathing but i want
him to actually moan and make noises. i
know that he may not be into moaning
(although he has moaned for like 2 seconds
once or twice when he came) How can i make
him moan all the time? are there any
methods or techniques i can do to him to
make he moan? because i know that is a
HUGE turn on for me. please and thank you!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-14-07 00:26am
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Talking dirty to him or just saying
anything during sex that is a question
that the other person has to answer that
will get them to respond, and once you
start vocalizing it's hard to stop!
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XOpartygrlXO
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Same Problem
Posted: 07-14-07 00:59am
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i have the same problem with my boyfriend,
I've actually talked to him about it and
he says he not a moaner hes a heavy
breather and theres nothing i can do....
hes basically embarrassed. You would
figure after 4 years of having sex with me
he would have loosened up but hes a man. I
do notice he does it sometimes, usually
wen its really intense, i suggest talking
to him, see wat he says about y he
doesn't!
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-14-07 10:52am
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most boys arent moaners
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Posted: 07-14-07 11:03am
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You could do something that takes him
completely by surprise, like rake your
nails across his back or down his chest.
That's what I do to keep my man on his
toes - be unpredictable. 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-14-07 11:17am
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Yeah, I found that when I whispered "Oh
god... [lover's name]" I got a major
response out of him lol.
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worrywart001
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Posted: 07-14-07 21:11pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Yeah, I found that when I
whispered "Oh god... [lover's name]" I got
a major response out of him
lol. |
haha i'm always afraid i'll get laughed
at...haha..nothin new..actually one time
we were havin some fun and i...well..for
some reason could NOT stop laughing..while
we were doing it, i really have no idea
what got into me...then he started
laughing like "what is your problem we're
trying to have a moment
here"..hahaha...but we're just that
comfortable together which is really
nice....i've also talked to him about
making noises..bc it would turn me
on...i've told him that, but...he's pretty
silent as well with the exception of a few
times...must be a guy thing...he says if
he did do it just to turn me on it would
sound fake and i'd just go into another
laughing frenzy haha
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zoidberg
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Posted: 07-15-07 00:18am
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thanks alot ! this actually really helps
me out without being embarrased and yes
i'm afraid that if i do talk to him about
it...he'll just end up doing fake moans
just to make me happy lol! well i'm gunna
try the oh god thing:) thanks alot!
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womaninpain
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Posted: 07-16-07 11:54am
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I once heard this question asked on a sex
therapy radio station. The therapist said
that most men don't moan because of
insecurity and trust issues. Men feel that
if they show you how much they are REALLY
enjoying it they are opening themselves up
to you and they like to keep their guard
up. When they feel more comfortable and
are not embarrassed or feel that they can
trust you 200% they usually start to do
it. I have been with my fiance for 11
years and he didn't start to moan until
about 3 years ago and even then it wasn't
that load or that much it was a little
here and there and still is.
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aszalajka
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Posted: 07-18-07 10:32am
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my bf is a huge moaner when i scratch his
back or tug on his hair. when im rough he
loves every moment and makes sure i know
it, but when we have sex hes like a mouse
LOL hes the total oppst. we've talked
about it. and hes doing better, hes a lil
more vocal and hes started talking dirty
to me. oh just talking about it im going
through withdrawels LOL but talk to your
bf abotu it, maybe u can come to a happy
median. maybe let him know and the two of
you can work on it. the one thing i have
come to terms with is communication is
number one!!!!! hes not a mind reader
either are you. so talk talk talk talk LOL
let him know what you like!
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zoidberg
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Lol Man I'm In a Ruckus:p
Posted: 07-18-07 21:46pm
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lol yea i've tried the thing what Eiri
suggested with the name...lol didn't quite
work..but thanks, it actually made me feel
more sexy just by saying his name:P i
always run my fingers through his hair and
well i havn't ran my nails down his back
during sex..well i've never done it in
general...i should give that a try
too!  and oh btw the
reason why i'm afraid to talk to him is bc
he might fake the moaning ( like i said
before) just to make me happy! i really do
wanna talk about it but it'll just make me
feel so..blah if he fakes it! and hes also
that nerdy type guy:P i'm his first gf and
i can understand if he doesn't wanna moan
bc of embarassment:P but we've been
together for 8 months v.v but
anyhow..this is all confusing haha. if any
of you has managed to get all of
this...please give me more advice! please
and thank you!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-18-07 23:47pm
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Try saying... "it's okay... let it out..."
And giggle, bite his ear, whatever lol. Do
this when you can tell he's really into
it. Maybe it'll work? lol.
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womaninpain
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Posted: 07-19-07 01:07am
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You have the nerdy one and I have the
tough guy lol...my guy is big and stocky
and he has the total tough guy
attitude...so either way they are guys and
it is what they are. Either way they get
embarrassed and like I said the big thing
for men is to feel like they let you in
completely, they don't want to do that.
Again I have been with mine for going on
11 years and it took me up to 3 years ago
just to get a little moan out of him and
it's not often that I get moans but he has
his moments...I guess to them it's letting
go more and they try hard not to do that.
Don't worry, in time, or he may not be a
moaner at all. I know that it turns me on
when he does it, I get like a high off of
it, it's the feedback that I am waiting
for.
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quincy_archer
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Posted: 07-22-07 10:21am
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Just another suggestion from a guy:
I used to never be a moaner -- not a case
of shyness or pride, I just didn't. It
probably came from years of masturbating
where I had to be quiet. But to this day,
every time I do my girlfriend doggy-style,
I can't help it, and I become a moaning
machine, probably because it just feels so
good. So try letting him do you in that
position, and squirm around and do all
kinds of erotic things, and wonderful
events may happen. 
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worrywart001
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Posted: 07-22-07 21:30pm
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| quincy_archer
wrote: | Just another suggestion from
a guy:
I used to never be a moaner -- not a case
of shyness or pride, I just didn't. It
probably came from years of masturbating
where I had to be quiet. But to this day,
every time I do my girlfriend doggy-style,
I can't help it, and I become a moaning
machine, probably because it just feels so
good. So try letting him do you in that
position, and squirm around and do all
kinds of erotic things, and wonderful
events may happen. |
Now that i think about it..the few times
I've heard my bf make any noises, usually
its an "oh yea" or something 
its been while in
doggy position...hmm, maybe its the power
thing, that and its his favorite, plus its
not a face to face so maybe he feels like
he can get more into it without having me
looking at him or watching him or
something, who knows..
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BEN L
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Guys Moaning
Posted: 07-22-07 22:39pm
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from a guy point of view i think that what
woman in pain said is the answer allthough
i never thought about it till now i dont
moan either. i do remember (just) that
before i lost my cherry it was one of the
many things that i worried about- "should
i moan/not moan,will she moan ect ect" the
bottom line of it is that if your bf is
not a moaner then he's not a moaner.and
instead of worrying just forget about it
and enjoy yourself.i will just say though
that it may happen when you least expect
it,like u try something different one day
and it suddenly triggers him off.so dont
be afraid to experiment ! its worth giving
the nail treatment a go cos that does it
for me personally and its allways nice for
a woman to take the lead and play it rough
from time to time..hope this was of some
help and your man should be gratefull for
u takin the time out to make his sex more
interesting
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zoidberg
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Posted: 07-22-07 22:53pm
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thank you very much everybody:) you've
been so helpful and i'll try that doggy
style thing:P
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