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pronetoillness

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Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 21:37pm

ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.
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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 21:41pm

pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


I'm sorry, but none of that is true...

If he was small or if she was turned on or anything else, yes, a penis could have gotten in. We're not suggesting it's easy, but it could have happened. Not all virgins have painful first times; I didn't.

And yes, she could get pregnant. Precum could have been on the guy's penis and that can cause pregnancy. Even from just one push inside.
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Posted: 07-12-07 21:43pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
if you were a virgin how do u know what u felt?
im sorry and im not trying to be mean but you were in water
well its hard to get it in in the water let alone with clothes on it'd be even harder to do


LOL - I have had sex in the water. .It works trust me.. Umm If his penis went inside you I would say that you're not a virgin. Like A)did it thrust in and out or B) just press in a little against your bathing suit. IF your answer is B I would say you're a virgin.. * BUT good call 'girlfriend.. HOW WOULD YOU KNOW HOW IT FELT TO HAVE A PENIS IN YOU IF.. You're a virgin.. UNLESS it was a vibrator.. hmm'
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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 21:46pm

pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


yeah...umm...no....none of this is true...
you can get pregnant even if the penis just touches your vagina at all
he couldhave nutted his pants. and even though he didnt cum inside her she could still get preg :]

so ya
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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 21:52pm

pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


Whoa, talk about misinformation.

Sex is not supposed to hurt, whether it's the first time or not. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. Pain is usually due to the female not being lubricated enough before sex.

Women can get pregnant even if the man does not ejaculate. That means even if he is only half in for one second, it's still possible for pregnancy to occur.
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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 21:53pm

Llewellyn wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


Whoa, talk about misinformation.

Sex is not supposed to hurt, whether it's the first time or not. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. Pain is usually due to the female not being lubricated enough before sex.

Women can get pregnant even if the man does not ejaculate. That means even if he is only half in for one second, it's still possible for pregnancy to occur.


yup yup
this is true
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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 22:59pm

Eiri wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


I'm sorry, but none of that is true...

If he was small or if she was turned on or anything else, yes, a penis could have gotten in. We're not suggesting it's easy, but it could have happened. Not all virgins have painful first times; I didn't.

And yes, she could get pregnant. Precum could have been on the guy's penis and that can cause pregnancy. Even from just one push inside.


so.. hmm.. I doubt the precum would last in the water (maybe chlorine) before it hitt the vagina...
and yeah i gotta agree.. that's true.. maybe if the penis was small and he was hard and she was turned on.. yep.. i gess there is a possibility of silpping..? O.o
but then again... no offense.. but the girl posting this seems a bit naive and i assumed she's still pretty young and is quite ordinary without doing sports or dancing so it i assumed she was a straight up V. haha.. even with stretching.. it's insanely hard to get a penis slipped into you with clothes on..




this wouldn't make her a virgin since it went in..
and oh darling.. for your sake...
i hope it wasn't small Shocked
i had no idea precum could pregnaify you.
eek!!
in that case.. i'm lucky :X
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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 23:01pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
Llewellyn wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


Whoa, talk about misinformation.

Sex is not supposed to hurt, whether it's the first time or not. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. Pain is usually due to the female not being lubricated enough before sex.

Women can get pregnant even if the man does not ejaculate. That means even if he is only half in for one second, it's still possible for pregnancy to occur.


yup yup
this is true


hm.. i think that's REALLY untrue...
i think if you're a virgin and haven't stretched it out or popped it.. it would HURT.. especially if he's big..

it hurt me .. for sure.. and my friend just lost her virginity.. it didn't hurt as much during sex.. but it hurt when he got in and after .. i bled.. it's what virgins do...
so i think you're wrong.. and like i said.. i didn't know precum can pregnaify someone Shocked

thank god i learned soemthin from ehealthforum..
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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 23:05pm

pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
Llewellyn wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


Whoa, talk about misinformation.

Sex is not supposed to hurt, whether it's the first time or not. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. Pain is usually due to the female not being lubricated enough before sex.

Women can get pregnant even if the man does not ejaculate. That means even if he is only half in for one second, it's still possible for pregnancy to occur.


yup yup
this is true


hm.. i think that's really untrue...
i think if you're a virgin and having stretched it out or popped it.. it would HURT.. especially if he's big..

it hurt me .. for sure.. and my friend just lost her virginity.. it didn't hurt as much during sex.. but it hurt when he got in and after .. i bled.. it's what virgins do...
so i think you're wrong.. and like i said.. i didn't know precum can pregnaify someone Shocked

thank god i learned soemthin from ehealthforum..
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more false info lol
virgins do not bleed?

i never bled during sex
when you "loose it" you dont always bleed. thats also not true

just thought ya might like to know!

and yes precum can definately get someone pregnant
thats whay the "pull out" method is BS and doesnt work fro crap
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pronetoillness

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Re: Ergh..
Posted: 07-12-07 23:07pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
Llewellyn wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
ok.
if you were a virgin before this...

-- it would hurt. and it couldn't just SLIPP through.
it would be difficult for him to get it in if you were a virgin in the first place..
-- no you couldn't get preggers. if he just touched or went in.. no. if he kept it in and kept pushin and pullin.. and then if you saw him give the que of release.. yes you can get preggers. BUT.. i'm assuming that you're just freaking out.. but obviously if he slipped in more then once you know you had sex so therefore you're not a virgin.


so yeah. hoped that help.


Whoa, talk about misinformation.

Sex is not supposed to hurt, whether it's the first time or not. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. Pain is usually due to the female not being lubricated enough before sex.

Women can get pregnant even if the man does not ejaculate. That means even if he is only half in for one second, it's still possible for pregnancy to occur.


yup yup
this is true


hm.. i think that's really untrue...
i think if you're a virgin and having stretched it out or popped it.. it would HURT.. especially if he's big..

it hurt me .. for sure.. and my friend just lost her virginity.. it didn't hurt as much during sex.. but it hurt when he got in and after .. i bled.. it's what virgins do...
so i think you're wrong.. and like i said.. i didn't know precum can pregnaify someone Shocked

thank god i learned soemthin from ehealthforum..
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more false info lol
virgins do not bleed?

i never bled during sex
when you "loose it" you dont always bleed. thats also not true

just thought ya might like to know!

and yes precum can definately get someone pregnant
thats whay the "pull out" method is BS and doesnt work fro crap


eek..
well i've only had one partner.
and all the friends that have done it also bled..
soo... how is it not normal that i bled when i lost my virginity?
it wasn't like i spewing out blood.. just a trinklet or two the day after.

O.o
and it went away. it's almost like it got stretched.. walking was odd.. and he was HUGE..

---oh yeah it does .. it stretches out your hymen..


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Posted: 07-12-07 23:11pm

Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.
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Posted: 07-12-07 23:15pm

eiri is right
if it hurts your doing it wrong. and not "wet" enough

some women blled the first time
some dont
some bleed the 15th time
and some never bleed

it depends on if your hymen breaks or not. which is your "cherry"
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Posted: 07-12-07 23:18pm

Eiri wrote:
Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.

"Some virgins bleed after penetration due to the stretching of the hymen, a thin membrane close to the opening of the vagina. Bleeding can also occur as a result of trauma to the urinary opening, in which case there is usually pain on urination."

http://www.carolinehd.or g/html/faq.html

and this


http://wiki.answe rs.com/Q/Could_a_girl_have_been_a_virgin_i f_she_did_not_bleed_after_sex

and this
http://www.goodhealthnyou.com/trivia/answe r.php3?table_name=trivia_master&col_na me=triviaid&id=71

like i said.. it rips the hymen..
and he did it slow. he did it right. he paused and asked if i was ok. i was relax as could be.

and honestly, i dont think no matter how correct you do it.. if you're hymen was small.. it was small. and it will rip.. and you will bleed..
and you're not a virgin no mo
:X
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pronetoillness

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Posted: 07-12-07 23:21pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
eiri is right
if it hurts your doing it wrong. and not "wet" enough

some women blled the first time
some dont
some bleed the 15th time
and some never bleed

it depends on if your hymen breaks or not. which is your "cherry"


you said
"Whoa, talk about misinformation.

Sex is not supposed to hurt, whether it's the first time or not. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. Pain is usually due to the female not being lubricated enough before sex.

Women can get pregnant even if the man does not ejaculate. That means even if he is only half in for one second, it's still possible for pregnancy to occur."


it's not suppose to hurt. i'm saying it's logical if it hurts because the hymen gets ripped.. and someone else said it's not normal for you to bleed because if you're feeling pain and bleeding then you're not doing it right. i think you're both wrong.
i think that no matter how correct you do it if you're hymen is small it will ripp and it will bleed and it will hurt when it ripps.
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Posted: 07-12-07 23:23pm

pronetoillness wrote:
Eiri wrote:
Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.

"Some virgins bleed after penetration due to the stretching of the hymen, a thin membrane close to the opening of the vagina. Bleeding can also occur as a result of trauma to the urinary opening, in which case there is usually pain on urination."

http://www.carolinehd.or g/html/faq.html

and this


http://wiki.answe rs.com/Q/Could_a_girl_have_been_a_virgin_i f_she_did_not_bleed_after_sex

and this
http://www.goodhealthnyou.com/trivia/answe r.php3?table_name=trivia_master&col_na me=triviaid&id=71

like i said.. it rips the hymen..
and he did it slow. he did it right. he paused and asked if i was ok. i was relax as could be.

and honestly, i dont think no matter how correct you do it.. if you're hymen was small.. it was small. and it will rip.. and you will bleed..
and you're not a virgin no mo
:X


ha ha not all hymens rip though
and it has nothing to do with that at all
if you have sexual intercourse...with 12 people...and your hymen doenst break...your not a virgin
reguardless of if it does the first time or not if you are INTENTIONALLY haveing sex, then your not a virgin
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pronetoillness

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Posted: 07-12-07 23:27pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
Eiri wrote:
Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.

"Some virgins bleed after penetration due to the stretching of the hymen, a thin membrane close to the opening of the vagina. Bleeding can also occur as a result of trauma to the urinary opening, in which case there is usually pain on urination."

http://www.carolinehd.or g/html/faq.html

and this


http://wiki.answe rs.com/Q/Could_a_girl_have_been_a_virgin_i f_she_did_not_bleed_after_sex

and this
http://www.goodhealthnyou.com/trivia/answe r.php3?table_name=trivia_master&col_na me=triviaid&id=71

like i said.. it rips the hymen..
and he did it slow. he did it right. he paused and asked if i was ok. i was relax as could be.

and honestly, i dont think no matter how correct you do it.. if you're hymen was small.. it was small. and it will rip.. and you will bleed..
and you're not a virgin no mo
:X


ha ha not all hymens rip though
and it has nothing to do with that at all
if you have sexual intercourse...with 12 people...and your hymen doenst break...your not a virgin
reguardless of if it does the first time or not if you are INTENTIONALLY haveing sex, then your not a virgin


if it doesn't break that means it was stretched before hand or someone's mojo was too small -.-"
i never said that for you to be considered as a virgin you MUST bleed. i'm trying to say that i did and it's perfectly normal for other girls to also. i'm trying to defend the fact that when virgins have their first time it's normal to hurt, and it has nothing to do with the guy not doing it right.. some girls feel the pain because everything down there is gettin stretched. if you got it stretched beforehand good for you, no pain no blood. other virgins differ.
i know this because it's not just me, i know plenty who experienced it also.

here's your all knowing quote
"
more false info lol
virgins do not bleed?

i never bled during sex"

virgins don't bleed? ha.


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Posted: 07-12-07 23:32pm

pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
Eiri wrote:
Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.

"Some virgins bleed after penetration due to the stretching of the hymen, a thin membrane close to the opening of the vagina. Bleeding can also occur as a result of trauma to the urinary opening, in which case there is usually pain on urination."

http://www.carolinehd.or g/html/faq.html

and this


http://wiki.answe rs.com/Q/Could_a_girl_have_been_a_virgin_i f_she_did_not_bleed_after_sex

and this
http://www.goodhealthnyou.com/trivia/answe r.php3?table_name=trivia_master&col_na me=triviaid&id=71

like i said.. it rips the hymen..
and he did it slow. he did it right. he paused and asked if i was ok. i was relax as could be.

and honestly, i dont think no matter how correct you do it.. if you're hymen was small.. it was small. and it will rip.. and you will bleed..
and you're not a virgin no mo
:X


ha ha not all hymens rip though
and it has nothing to do with that at all
if you have sexual intercourse...with 12 people...and your hymen doenst break...your not a virgin
reguardless of if it does the first time or not if you are INTENTIONALLY haveing sex, then your not a virgin


if it doesn't break that means it was stretched before hand or someone's mojo was too small -.-"
i never said that for you to be considered as a virgin you MUST bleed. i'm trying to say that i did and it's perfectly normal for other girls to also. i'm trying to defend the fact that when virgins have their first time it's normal to hurt, and it has nothing to do with the guy not doing it right.. some girls feel the pain because everything down there is gettin stretched. if you got it stretched beforehand good for you, no pain no blood. other virgins differ.
i know this because it's not just me, i know plenty who experienced it also.


no no heres what you dont understand we are saying
when the hymen rips it doesnt hurt! that has nothing to do with it hurting... what hurts is sex is being performed wrong because there isnt enough lubrication
thats why it hurts
virgins usually dont know what to do
they just do it


when your hymen rips thats not what hurts
if it hurts its because your not wet enough or well lubriacted

get it?
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Posted: 07-12-07 23:35pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
Eiri wrote:
Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.

"Some virgins bleed after penetration due to the stretching of the hymen, a thin membrane close to the opening of the vagina. Bleeding can also occur as a result of trauma to the urinary opening, in which case there is usually pain on urination."

http://www.carolinehd.or g/html/faq.html

and this


http://wiki.answe rs.com/Q/Could_a_girl_have_been_a_virgin_i f_she_did_not_bleed_after_sex

and this
http://www.goodhealthnyou.com/trivia/answe r.php3?table_name=trivia_master&col_na me=triviaid&id=71

like i said.. it rips the hymen..
and he did it slow. he did it right. he paused and asked if i was ok. i was relax as could be.

and honestly, i dont think no matter how correct you do it.. if you're hymen was small.. it was small. and it will rip.. and you will bleed..
and you're not a virgin no mo
:X


ha ha not all hymens rip though
and it has nothing to do with that at all
if you have sexual intercourse...with 12 people...and your hymen doenst break...your not a virgin
reguardless of if it does the first time or not if you are INTENTIONALLY haveing sex, then your not a virgin


if it doesn't break that means it was stretched before hand or someone's mojo was too small -.-"
i never said that for you to be considered as a virgin you MUST bleed. i'm trying to say that i did and it's perfectly normal for other girls to also. i'm trying to defend the fact that when virgins have their first time it's normal to hurt, and it has nothing to do with the guy not doing it right.. some girls feel the pain because everything down there is gettin stretched. if you got it stretched beforehand good for you, no pain no blood. other virgins differ.
i know this because it's not just me, i know plenty who experienced it also.


no no heres what you dont understand we are saying
when the hymen rips it doesnt hurt! that has nothing to do with it hurting... what hurts is sex is being performed wrong because there isnt enough lubrication
thats why it hurts
virgins usually dont know what to do
they just do it


when your hymen rips thats not what hurts
if it hurts its because your not wet enough or well lubriacted

get it?
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are you sure that doesn't inflict pain?
it felt like .. there was two bones and he was splitting it in half when he was entering >.<
it felt like it was bein stretched.. he didn't do anything wrong tho. O.o
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Posted: 07-12-07 23:37pm

pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
Eiri wrote:
Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.

"Some virgins bleed after penetration due to the stretching of the hymen, a thin membrane close to the opening of the vagina. Bleeding can also occur as a result of trauma to the urinary opening, in which case there is usually pain on urination."

http://www.carolinehd.or g/html/faq.html

and this


http://wiki.answe rs.com/Q/Could_a_girl_have_been_a_virgin_i f_she_did_not_bleed_after_sex

and this
http://www.goodhealthnyou.com/trivia/answe r.php3?table_name=trivia_master&col_na me=triviaid&id=71

like i said.. it rips the hymen..
and he did it slow. he did it right. he paused and asked if i was ok. i was relax as could be.

and honestly, i dont think no matter how correct you do it.. if you're hymen was small.. it was small. and it will rip.. and you will bleed..
and you're not a virgin no mo
:X


ha ha not all hymens rip though
and it has nothing to do with that at all
if you have sexual intercourse...with 12 people...and your hymen doenst break...your not a virgin
reguardless of if it does the first time or not if you are INTENTIONALLY haveing sex, then your not a virgin


if it doesn't break that means it was stretched before hand or someone's mojo was too small -.-"
i never said that for you to be considered as a virgin you MUST bleed. i'm trying to say that i did and it's perfectly normal for other girls to also. i'm trying to defend the fact that when virgins have their first time it's normal to hurt, and it has nothing to do with the guy not doing it right.. some girls feel the pain because everything down there is gettin stretched. if you got it stretched beforehand good for you, no pain no blood. other virgins differ.
i know this because it's not just me, i know plenty who experienced it also.


no no heres what you dont understand we are saying
when the hymen rips it doesnt hurt! that has nothing to do with it hurting... what hurts is sex is being performed wrong because there isnt enough lubrication
thats why it hurts
virgins usually dont know what to do
they just do it


when your hymen rips thats not what hurts
if it hurts its because your not wet enough or well lubriacted

get it?
l Very
Happy


are you sure that doesn't inflict pain?
it felt like .. there was two bones and he was splitting it in half when he was entering >.<
it felt like it was bein stretched.. he didn't do anything wrong tho. O.o


im almost 100 percent sure lol
but dont quote me on it
ill look it up for ya though

when this happened you were a virgin right? so how do you KNOW he didnt do anything wrong?
see you dont know
and its not so much you did it wrong
its that you werent or may not have been well lubricated enough
so it hurt :]
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pronetoillness

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Posted: 07-12-07 23:40pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
pronetoillness wrote:
Eiri wrote:
Bleeding is common only because first timers often do it wrong. If the woman is lubricated and the man goes slow, sex doesn't have to hurt.

"Some virgins bleed after penetration due to the stretching of the hymen, a thin membrane close to the opening of the vagina. Bleeding can also occur as a result of trauma to the urinary opening, in which case there is usually pain on urination."

http://www.carolinehd.or g/html/faq.html

and this


http://wiki.answe rs.com/Q/Could_a_girl_have_been_a_virgin_i f_she_did_not_bleed_after_sex

and this
http://www.goodhealthnyou.com/trivia/answe r.php3?table_name=trivia_master&col_na me=triviaid&id=71

like i said.. it rips the hymen..
and he did it slow. he did it right. he paused and asked if i was ok. i was relax as could be.

and honestly, i dont think no matter how correct you do it.. if you're hymen was small.. it was small. and it will rip.. and you will bleed..
and you're not a virgin no mo
:X


ha ha not all hymens rip though
and it has nothing to do with that at all
if you have sexual intercourse...with 12 people...and your hymen doenst break...your not a virgin
reguardless of if it does the first time or not if you are INTENTIONALLY haveing sex, then your not a virgin


if it doesn't break that means it was stretched before hand or someone's mojo was too small -.-"
i never said that for you to be considered as a virgin you MUST bleed. i'm trying to say that i did and it's perfectly normal for other girls to also. i'm trying to defend the fact that when virgins have their first time it's normal to hurt, and it has nothing to do with the guy not doing it right.. some girls feel the pain because everything down there is gettin stretched. if you got it stretched beforehand good for you, no pain no blood. other virgins differ.
i know this because it's not just me, i know plenty who experienced it also.


no no heres what you dont understand we are saying
when the hymen rips it doesnt hurt! that has nothing to do with it hurting... what hurts is sex is being performed wrong because there isnt enough lubrication
thats why it hurts
virgins usually dont know what to do
they just do it


when your hymen rips thats not what hurts
if it hurts its because your not wet enough or well lubriacted

get it?
l Very
Happy


are you sure that doesn't inflict pain?
it felt like .. there was two bones and he was splitting it in half when he was entering >.<
it felt like it was bein stretched.. he didn't do anything wrong tho. O.o


im almost 100 percent sure lol
but dont quote me on it
ill look it up for ya though

when this happened you were a virgin right? so how do you KNOW he didnt do anything wrong?
see you dont know
and its not so much you did it wrong
its that you werent or may not have been well lubricated enough
so it hurt :]


b/c i had more partners. sex is great >.<
it just happen once
isn't that odd?
i think my virgin self experienced a virgin thing.. b/c that's the only logical explanation.....
eek.
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