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Q: How Can I Have An Orgasm?

asked by: Menento on July 13th, 2007

New User

Hi,

I'm 18, and I have no experience in this. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship. So we use the phone to communicate. Everything we get horny, and I touch myself... but each time I do.. I can never get an orgasm. The closes thing I've come to one is when I rub my clitoris.. and get this feeling like I want to cum.. But it just stop after a few seconds and that my mood has left me. For some reason or another I can't reach my G-spot. What am I doing wrong... What should I do? Please help me!

Replies(10)

Willa Weintraub

replied on July 13th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

why do you stop when you feel lik eyour going to go?I think you should keep on and not stop! try that.if not maybe get a vibrator (assuming you do't already use one) or when ou see your man have him work a little magic!

young Girl

replied on July 13th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

ha ha

porn hun

:]

Llewellyn

replied on July 13th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Not all women even respond to G-spot stimulation, and most of us do not ejaculate. Don't try to force your body to do something that it might not be able to do. If you're not having orgasms at all yet, then try just starting with clitoral orgasms. Clitoral stimulation is something that most women respond to and can orgasm from. Once you have mastered that, then you could explore G-spot stimulation if you want.

Menento

replied on July 14th, 2007

New User

Llewellyn wrote:

But I do that... And then the feeling builds up then it just stops, I keep rubbing and nothing happends...

Menento

replied on July 14th, 2007

New User

the_girlfreind wrote:

ha ha

porn hun

:]

Why porn? >.<

Tylanas

replied on July 14th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Menento wrote:

Llewellyn wrote:

But I do that... And then the feeling builds up then it just stops, I keep rubbing and nothing happends...

After it built up, did you feel a tingly release throughout the region?

For some women, just fingers isn't enough; you may need an external source such as a faucet or a vibrator, to stimulate the area faster and harder than your fingers can.

Menento

replied on July 16th, 2007

New User

Eiri wrote:

Menento wrote:

Llewellyn wrote:

But I do that... And then the feeling builds up then it just stops, I keep rubbing and nothing happends...

No I don't get a tingly release throughout the region...

jakii

replied on August 11th, 2007

Experienced User

how long do most orgasms last anyways? they seem very (very) short and rather weak... no?

Tylanas

replied on August 11th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

jakii wrote:

how long do most orgasms last anyways? they seem very (very) short and rather weak... no?

Well "weak" is a relative term. It's all about how much you let yourself feel. If I'm being touched by a lover, it feels much more erotic than doing it myself, and the built up is usually longer, and the orgasm itself is more powerful.

As far as speed, that varies for every woman. Personally, mine are short, a few seconds at most. I also have a long refractory period - the time you wait before you can try for another. I need to wait about 30 seconds to a minute before I can go for a second, and it's a lot harder to reach the second orgasm. So I cannot multi-orgasm like some women can, because after I orgasm, all stimulation to the area just makes me shake and tickle, and doesn't feel good.

jakii

replied on August 11th, 2007

Experienced User

o...i guess some are just luckier in that sense..haha
although i did find a manual called "one hour orgasm" (i don't even know if that's physically possible although on a random note pigs can have orgasmas that last up to 3 hrs.) i didn't read it but i assume it would be a manual not to disappoint its title although it looks like something almost everyone would secretly like to pick up at least once even if it is just out of curiosity... haha wouldn't you? i mean just a look if ur not gonna read it all

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