How Can I Have An Orgasm? Posted: 07-13-07 02:39am
Hi,
I'm 18, and I have no experience in this.
My boyfriend and I have a long distance
relationship. So we use the phone to
communicate. Everything we get horny, and
I touch myself... but each time I do.. I
can never get an orgasm. The closes thing
I've come to one is when I rub my
clitoris.. and get this feeling like I
want to cum.. But it just stop after a few
seconds and that my mood has left me. For
some reason or another I can't reach my
G-spot. What am I doing wrong... What
should I do? Please help me!
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 07-13-07 10:19am
why do you stop when you feel lik eyour
going to go?I think you should keep on and
not stop! try that.if not maybe get a
vibrator (assuming you do't already use
one) or when ou see your man have him work
a little magic!
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-13-07 10:55am
ha ha
porn hun
:]
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 07-13-07 12:41pm
Not all women even respond to G-spot
stimulation, and most of us do not
ejaculate. Don't try to force your body
to do something that it might not be able
to do. If you're not having orgasms at
all yet, then try just starting with
clitoral orgasms. Clitoral stimulation is
something that most women respond to and
can orgasm from. Once you have mastered
that, then you could explore G-spot
stimulation if you want.
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Menento
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Joined: 13 Jul 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 07-14-07 03:19am
Llewellyn
wrote:
Not all women even respond
to G-spot stimulation, and most of us do
not ejaculate. Don't try to force your
body to do something that it might not be
able to do. If you're not having orgasms
at all yet, then try just starting with
clitoral orgasms. Clitoral stimulation is
something that most women respond to and
can orgasm from. Once you have mastered
that, then you could explore G-spot
stimulation if you
want.
But I do that... And then the feeling
builds up then it just stops, I keep
rubbing and nothing happends...
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Menento
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Joined: 13 Jul 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 07-14-07 03:20am
the_girlfreind
wrote:
ha ha
porn hun
:]
Why porn? >.<
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-14-07 10:41am
Menento
wrote:
Llewellyn
wrote:
Not all women even respond
to G-spot stimulation, and most of us do
not ejaculate. Don't try to force your
body to do something that it might not be
able to do. If you're not having orgasms
at all yet, then try just starting with
clitoral orgasms. Clitoral stimulation is
something that most women respond to and
can orgasm from. Once you have mastered
that, then you could explore G-spot
stimulation if you
want.
But I do that... And then the feeling
builds up then it just stops, I keep
rubbing and nothing
happends...
After it built up, did you feel a tingly
release throughout the region?
For some women, just fingers isn't enough;
you may need an external source such as a
faucet or a vibrator, to stimulate the
area faster and harder than your fingers
can.
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Menento
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Joined: 13 Jul 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 07-16-07 06:29am
Eiri
wrote:
Menento
wrote:
Llewellyn
wrote:
Not all women even respond
to G-spot stimulation, and most of us do
not ejaculate. Don't try to force your
body to do something that it might not be
able to do. If you're not having orgasms
at all yet, then try just starting with
clitoral orgasms. Clitoral stimulation is
something that most women respond to and
can orgasm from. Once you have mastered
that, then you could explore G-spot
stimulation if you
want.
But I do that... And then the feeling
builds up then it just stops, I keep
rubbing and nothing
happends...
After it built up, did you feel a tingly
release throughout the region?
For some women, just fingers isn't enough;
you may need an external source such as a
faucet or a vibrator, to stimulate the
area faster and harder than your fingers
can.
No I don't get a tingly release throughout
the region...
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jakii
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Posted: 08-11-07 15:09pm
how long do most orgasms last anyways?
they seem very (very) short and rather
weak... no?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:12pm
jakii
wrote:
how long do most orgasms
last anyways? they seem very (very) short
and rather weak...
no?
Well "weak" is a relative term. It's all
about how much you let yourself feel. If
I'm being touched by a lover, it feels
much more erotic than doing it myself, and
the built up is usually longer, and the
orgasm itself is more powerful.
As far as speed, that varies for every
woman. Personally, mine are short, a few
seconds at most. I also have a long
refractory period - the time you wait
before you can try for another. I need to
wait about 30 seconds to a minute before I
can go for a second, and it's a lot harder
to reach the second orgasm. So I cannot
multi-orgasm like some women can, because
after I orgasm, all stimulation to the
area just makes me shake and tickle, and
doesn't feel good.
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jakii
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Posted: 08-11-07 23:20pm
o...i guess some are just luckier in that
sense..haha
although i did find a manual called "one
hour orgasm" (i don't even know if that's
physically possible although on a random
note pigs can have orgasmas that last up
to 3 hrs.) i didn't read it but i assume
it would be a manual not to disappoint its
title although it looks like something
almost everyone would secretly like to
pick up at least once even if it is just
out of curiosity... haha wouldn't you? i
mean just a look if ur not gonna read it
all
