you cant push it

let it come to you
otherwise
it wont be true

it will happen eventually. you just havent found the right person yet

I can certainly feel for you here. Its a hard thing to deal with especially when you want to just be in love, have someone love you and love them back. Its such a wonderful thing that many people seek out all their life. I would say though above all else, never ever lose yourself in anyone no matter who they are. Relationships are among some of the most uncertain things in life. Sometimes things work, sometimes they do not. But if they do not, be sure to have your friends, your life to fall back on. This is so very important. I am recently out of a failed relationship and I invested so much time and energy into something, I am left with nothing more than a lesson learned and few good memories.
Secondly, I read that you are a virgin. If I were you, I would wait until it is someone you truly love from the bottom of your heart (and be sure of this). Although my first experience wasn't a bad one, I wish I would have waited for someone more special. Sex is not always everything, I have noticed that there are a lot of women who simply enjoy foreplay, or kissing, or even just talking. (you are more likely to please your woman this way anyway) Those are the ways that make a more powerful connection in my opinion. They make a more beautiful connection in the heart, which makes anything more physical phenomenally excellent. Love will come and find you, be sure you are ready for it, because you might just end up married and wonder what hit you! Also I can't believe no one has replied to your post yet after all this time, people post in forums for a reason!! I wish you the best of luck!

I used to put love like that in the top of the things i wanted in life..until i got very sick when i was 30 for several months and thought i was never going to recover.. now the top thing i want in life is health, health and health..

agreed...i didn't first fall in love until last year when i met my now boyfriend..i was 19 at the time...the other guys..i mean, there was the attraction and we clicked and had fun but...it wasn't love...

I'm 21 years old I have never been in love either. So yes it is normal not to be in love at 18 years old.

All I can tell you is wait it out. it sucks but I think that not rushing into things is better. I know so many people who rushed into romances and just ended up having their hearts broken. Give it time. it will happen.

understand that when you fall in love, your on cloud 9 flying next to the birds. but when someone hurts you, you take a dive back to reality. getting your heart broken is the worse feeling in the world.
so my advice is be picky when dating women.

im 22 turning 23 and asian and want to be in a relationship, but i dont see any outcome of all my relationships. good luck, but 18 yrs old is a time to relax and have fun, not get tied down, the mistake i made.
but if u find true love, thats a completely different thing. i loved the wrong guy when i was 18; he lied to me about the 14 and 16 yr old girls who he took their virginities.
in a relationship, truth and faith play important roles. but what i can say is, treasure all those around u.. if u can get 1, congrats, but dont be sad if u dont, coz there will be a day someday when lady love comes knocking.
dont let relationships affect ur social life too much, either.. another mistake i made at 18.