My husband and our male doctor had sex together about 5 years ago. I knew about it at the time, and knew that they had been intimate before. After that event, I stopped going to him, and started seeing another doctor. I have never told anyone.
My husband still has the same doctor, and today on his way out of our house to 'see' the doctor, I said, "have fun!" he got very angry and stormed out on me.
I'm sickened. I have been through lots of psychotherapy since they got together, and in fact, i've been hospitalized several times in a psych institute, but as I say, i've never told a soul I don't think it would help.
Wow. Um, when you say you are affraid of them both..What do you mean? Do you fear for your safety?? If so, hun, time to get out..Asap. I don't know what else I should write...I have no idea how you are able to somewhat cope with the situation. Do you still love your husband? Have you mentioned the liason with the doctor bothers you and has caused you problems? Do you consider this "cheating"? You need to put yourself first here. What do you want to come out of all this? A divorce? The liasons to cease? All I can do is offer my sympathy and an ear to listen. Good luck