Depresion : My husband has Sex With our Doctor ???? Posted: 09-03-03 11:18am
I never thought i'd have to deal with this
one...
My husband and our male doctor had sex
together about 5 years ago. I knew about
it at the time, and knew that they had
been intimate before. After that event,
I stopped going to him, and started seeing
another doctor. I have never told
anyone.
My husband still has the same doctor, and
today on his way out of our house to 'see'
the doctor, I said, "have fun!" he got
very angry and stormed out on me.
I'm sickened. I have been through lots
of psychotherapy since they got together,
and in fact, i've been hospitalized
several times in a psych institute, but as
I say, i've never told a soul I don't
think it would help.
I'm afraid of them both. Help? Please?
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blu_eyes00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 96 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-03-03 12:53pm
Wow. Um, when you say you are affraid of
them both..What do you mean? Do you fear
for your safety?? If so, hun, time to
get out..Asap. I don't know what else I
should write...I have no idea how you are
able to somewhat cope with the situation.
Do you still love your husband? Have
you mentioned the liason with the doctor
bothers you and has caused you problems?
Do you consider this "cheating"? You
need to put yourself first here. What do
you want to come out of all this? A
divorce? The liasons to cease? All I
can do is offer my sympathy and an ear to
listen. Good luck
