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Q: Abortion 5 Months
asked by: lifelife on July 12th, 2007
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gf had an abortion at 5 months, i was split on what to do as i feared for her health/life as well as whether it was morally correct but i told her that we could try n keep, she was firm on the decision as she wasn't ready as the community here wouldn't be receptive to it, she considered marriage n keeping not an option. but i have to be there for her, she went through a lot n i have to support her.

What i'm saying is that i will be strong n support her. but i feel terrible morally about whats happened as it occurred at 5 months.
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replied on July 12th, 2007
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Re: Abortion 5 Months
lifelife wrote:
gf had an abortion at 5 months, i was split on what to do as i feared for her health/life as well as whether it was morally correct but i told her that we could try n keep, she was firm on the decision as she wasn't ready as the community here wouldn't be receptive to it, she considered marriage n keeping not an option. but i have to be there for her, she went through a lot n i have to support her.

What i'm saying is that i will be strong n support her. but i feel terrible morally about whats happened as it occurred at 5 months.


I'm sorry you feel terrible about what's happened.

Some random, anonymous person telling you this might not help a bit, but you cannot feel terrible over a decision you really had no power over.

You told her you would be there for her, you were supportive, and you did the best you could.

Even if you demanded she keep the pregnancy, she didn't have to listen to you at all.

Crying or Very sad Condolences.

Best wishes.
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