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Q: Need Another Opinion

asked by: little_woman on March 9th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Hey you guys,

i know this is a pregnancy forum and most of you have worries bigger than mine, but my problem is similar to that of molly's (minus the little one though). My guy and I have been together for almost 3 years and he and I are on a break from each other. We talk every day, dont do anything physical (no kissing, sex...Ect) but talk about what is ailing us. He is about to graduate (college we're both 21) and is just very confused about everything in his life. He says he is unhappy with everything. In the last week since we decided to take this break (we're not seeing anyone nor plan to) we have both had time to think and reflect and we are giving this until next wed. He is going to decide if he wants to stay or not....As of now he is not sure but he wants us to be together but needs to decide if this is a good thing or not. I'm so hurt and frustrated I dont know how much longer I can handle this. On one hand he is going through a rough time and we are discovering a lot about each other and ourselves, but this is hurting so much....He is hurting as much as I am....Not sure who cries more him or me.......What should I do Crying or Very sad

meg

Replies(5)

KissyBai912

replied on March 9th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Awwwww....Hunny im sorry. Maybe it's not neccessarily a bad thing. It doesn't sound as though he's trying to hurt you, just trying to figure out what he wants out of life and if it includes you. But don't worry, you seem like such a great person i'm sure he'll want to stay with you. That's all I really know to say. I hope this helps!

JillMarie

replied on March 10th, 2004

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I guess you have to decide if you really love him and you want to be with him for the rest of your live. Ive thought I loved people before but I never knew true love until me and jesse got together and made a serious commitment! I know he is my true love. It is true what they say-you will just know it if its right! Smile

little_woman

replied on March 10th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Thanks both of you a lot I really appreciate that encouragement. I do love him and he does love me, its just that we've both reached such difficult points in our lives. I have come to think that what we are doing is a sign of strength rather than weakness...Thanks again though!

Meg

p.S - how are the contractions kissy? I want your little one to be here alredy!

Mesmerizeu15

replied on March 10th, 2004

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Wow it seems like you are going through a lot. I hope that everything ends up working out for you. It seems like for the most part that you have your head on your shoulders. You just have to believe in god and believe that if you try hard enough everything and anything can happen. Everything in life happens for a reason!!

KissyBai912

replied on March 10th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Lol....Thats more than I can say for me stacie....I have my head up my butt! Lol...J/k.....But thats what it feels like! The contractions dont seem to be as close together but they r getting to be a bit more painful. I would say 2.5 maybe 3 on a scale from 1-10 of painful. Lol. I know what you mean......We all want him here! I thought poor dewitt would have a nervous break down from the way he sounded rushin around tryin to pack the other night......Lol. New daddy jitters I guess. But good luck to you! *hugs*

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