I'm confused. . .did he not put all of his penis in when you had the the *first* time?

the first time he did not,but as of now he has, he isn't one to be foceful, because he always says if a amle hurts a female why would she want to come back. I know some females enjoy forceful sex, but I am not one. That was one of the reasons he said he did not put it all the way in the first few times, because he wanted to do little by little in case I was not comfortable. don't get me wrong I do enjoy having sex with him, but i just want to know if a amn can cause damage at the size especially considring he is the first that I have been with at that size. He is the first person I have been with since separating from my husband and at 10 inches I thought he was too big, so that was what I was use to for many years especially since my husband was also my first

I don't think anything can get damaged from it beong too large but I could be wrong.

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Women's vagina's will accommodate the size of a man's penis and if he is able to insert all of it that's better for you and him, If I where you I would practice working on your vaginal muscles so you can control his penis as he is having intercourse with him. This way you can loosen up on him or tighten down at the time you are having your orgasm and both of you will feel pleasure with this.

damn how did you measure it.from the anus up,around the balls, up his shaft and back down? are you sure it's 12 inches ?

how the heck would you 'work on your vaginal muscles'? that seems kinda hard ta do

Its called Kegal...lol. And it does work to make your vagina stronger and it has proven sexual benefits for both partners.

It's easy. Some time in the bathroom when you're peeing, stop the stream. Start and stop a few times, and you'll have figured out where the kegal muscles are.

You can relax and tighten these muscles even when you're not peeing, You can do it in the office, or driving to work, or at dinner! It's easy to exercise your kegals.

HAHAHAHAHAHA.... you guys make it sound like some sort of new work out machine 'it's fast ...it's easy... you can do it in the car, your living room, your bedroom, where ever!' hahaha
sexual benefits from controlling urine.... how strangly interesting

Kegals really do help because you can squeeze him and it feels good for both of you.

Anyway, a long penis (and that sure is one) might make the cervix sore if it hits it or cause bruising. It won't permanently damage you, but you might get sore.

Try positions with less penetration. For example, with him on top, close your legs under him so your knees are touching. It will keep him shallow and keep contact and friction high. Or spoon, that keeps it pretty shallow. Or you on top, with you controlling the depth of penetration. I'd just play around and see what feels good!

I recommended this to someone else but I can't remember who. They have vibrating c*ck rings that can be placed on the base of the penis. They are rubber (like silicone or something soft) somewhat wide (about an inch or 2), so the base of his penis would be stimulated by the vibration and he would stay more shallow (or he has to because there's a ring there) plus the vibration would stimulate your clit. You can find them online anywhere sex toys are sold.

I hope that helped....