I have a question. I know it may sound
silly coming from someone my age, but
anyway...... I have been involved sexually
with a man and the sex has been great. He
is very gentle when we have sex, but I
have noticed that each time we have sex,
he seems to enter more of his penis. The
last time we had intercourse I felt as if
something internally had been shifted. I
was wondering if considering that he is 12
inches and the width is very thick, could
he have actually damaged something? I am
not in pain, but I have noticed that on
the lower right side I feel slight
heaviness.
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Willa Weintraub
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Re: Too Big Posted: 07-12-07 10:21am
yb123d
wrote:
He is very gentle when we
have sex, but I have noticed that each
time we have sex, he seems to enter more
of his penis.
I'm confused. . .did he not put all of his
penis in when you had the the *first*
time?
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yb123d
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Too Big Posted: 07-12-07 10:36am
the first time he did not,but as of now he
has, he isn't one to be foceful, because
he always says if a amle hurts a female
why would she want to come back. I know
some females enjoy forceful sex, but I am
not one. That was one of the reasons he
said he did not put it all the way in the
first few times, because he wanted to do
little by little in case I was not
comfortable. don't get me wrong I do enjoy
having sex with him, but i just want to
know if a amn can cause damage at the size
especially considring he is the first that
I have been with at that size. He is the
first person I have been with since
separating from my husband and at 10
inches I thought he was too big, so that
was what I was use to for many years
especially since my husband was also my
first
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Willa Weintraub
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Re: Too Big Posted: 07-12-07 10:41am
yb123d
wrote:
the first time he did
not,but as of now he has, he isn't one to
be foceful, because he always says if a
amle hurts a female why would she want to
come back. I know some females enjoy
forceful sex, but I am not one. That was
one of the reasons he said he did not put
it all the way in the first few times,
because he wanted to do little by little
in case I was not comfortable. don't get
me wrong I do enjoy having sex with him,
but i just want to know if a amn can cause
damage at the size especially considring
he is the first that I have been with at
that size. He is the first person I have
been with since separating from my husband
and at 10 inches I thought he was too big,
so that was what I was use to for many
years especially since my husband was also
my first
I don't think anything
can get damaged from it beong too large
but I could be wrong.
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bjmcfarland
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Too Big Posted: 08-04-07 19:49pm
yb123d;
Women's vagina's will accommodate the size
of a man's penis and if he is able to
insert all of it that's better for you and
him, If I where you I would practice
working on your vaginal muscles so you can
control his penis as he is having
intercourse with him. This way you can
loosen up on him or tighten down at the
time you are having your orgasm and both
of you will feel pleasure with this.
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Jacob Dean
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Posted: 08-05-07 16:54pm
damn how did you measure it.from the anus
up,around the balls, up his shaft and back
down? are you sure it's 12 inches ?
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jakii
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Posted: 08-11-07 09:22am
how the heck would you 'work on your
vaginal muscles'? that seems kinda hard ta
do
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kissofangel20
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Posted: 08-13-07 19:54pm
Its called Kegal...lol. And it does work
to make your vagina stronger and it has
proven sexual benefits for both partners.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-13-07 20:03pm
jakii
wrote:
how the heck would you 'work
on your vaginal muscles'? that seems kinda
hard ta do
It's easy. Some time in the bathroom when
you're peeing, stop the stream. Start and
stop a few times, and you'll have figured
out where the kegal muscles are.
You can relax and tighten these muscles
even when you're not peeing, You can do it
in the office, or driving to work, or at
dinner! It's easy to exercise your kegals.
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jakii
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Posted: 08-13-07 21:08pm
HAHAHAHAHAHA.... you guys make it sound
like some sort of new work out machine
'it's fast ...it's easy... you can do it
in the car, your living room, your
bedroom, where ever!' hahaha
sexual benefits from controlling urine....
how strangly interesting
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-14-07 12:29pm
Kegals really do help because you can
squeeze him and it feels good for both of
you.
Anyway, a long penis (and that sure is
one) might make the cervix sore if it hits
it or cause bruising. It won't permanently
damage you, but you might get sore.
Try positions with less penetration. For
example, with him on top, close your legs
under him so your knees are touching. It
will keep him shallow and keep contact and
friction high. Or spoon, that keeps it
pretty shallow. Or you on top, with you
controlling the depth of penetration. I'd
just play around and see what feels good!
I recommended this to someone else but I
can't remember who. They have vibrating
c*ck rings that can be placed on the base
of the penis. They are rubber (like
silicone or something soft) somewhat wide
(about an inch or 2), so the base of his
penis would be stimulated by the vibration
and he would stay more shallow (or he has
to because there's a ring there) plus the
vibration would stimulate your clit. You
can find them online anywhere sex toys are
sold.
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