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bel_bel
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Spirit
Experienced User
I'm with you! Having your life all set up...........career, investments, family etc...................means nothing if you have no one to share it with...............and you right you aint ugly.............sucessful and driven
........so what's the problem?...........Dunno, maybe try toning it down a little?..........despite what men say most are threatened by successful women................make yourself more accessible..........smile, look em in the eye just a little longer than necessary, show em your genuninely happy to see em.................go where the men are...............difficult to find a mate when your in the workplace and the "pickins is slim"...........and personally I find the men in office-type jobs just a little too femininized for me....................and if you want to go out, try not to surround your self with lots of friends..............one at the most will do..............the friends act as an invisible wall and only the bravest of the brave will dare approach you
.............don't worry bout the one(s) that got away.................there's a reason .He doesn't give us .Everything we want.................He knows better
........so what's the problem?...........Dunno, maybe try toning it down a little?..........despite what men say most are threatened by successful women................make yourself more accessible..........smile, look em in the eye just a little longer than necessary, show em your genuninely happy to see em.................go where the men are...............difficult to find a mate when your in the workplace and the "pickins is slim"...........and personally I find the men in office-type jobs just a little too femininized for me....................and if you want to go out, try not to surround your self with lots of friends..............one at the most will do..............the friends act as an invisible wall and only the bravest of the brave will dare approach you
.............don't worry bout the one(s) that got away.................there's a reason .He doesn't give us .Everything we want.................He knows better
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bel_bel
Experienced User
Thanks spirit... People here are very helpful and some of them get thru and know more bout 'life' more than me... I am gonna get this book "Why men marry b! ches?" by this week, is recommend by a friedn here thru pm after seeing my post...
will update my feedback and browsing round here..
will update my feedback and browsing round here..
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j_j89
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Spirit
Experienced User
[quote="j_j89"]I understand what you mean about being among couples. It gets a little hard to deal with sometimes. Quite a few men feel the need to be the "breadwinner" or superior in some way. I find it highly attractive and impressive of what you have accomplished for yourself. But on average a man feels threatened or intimidated by this. This may account for your problem. I also understand what you mean by a different kind of love is desired, its so very different and also just as important as love coming from. Just be glad that you have that love coming from your family, if you did not have that you would probably have another issue in relationships. It will probably just come down to you finding the confident man you need who is not afraid of some power or make less money than you, or own less than you do. You are a talented professional who knows what she wants out of life, that is a wonderful thing that will set you apart in a good way. Don't shed those tears! You are way too beautiful for that. Often the best love is the love that comes and grabs you. Good luck out there[/quote
Well said..............and ditto!
Well said..............and ditto!
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achowd
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